Cycles are not easily broken.
Probably because breaking a cycle takes huge ganoonies.
It takes an honest and real look in the mirror.
It takes you leaving your ego behind because you’ve finally hit the point of enough and no more and this time around you mean it.
No more victim.
No more excuses.
The moment the ego steps aside and the soul is given free reign, magic happens.
This is when the person is willing to take a clear look at their patterns.
The thoughts that was running in their heads like a broken record and instead of listening to the stories as absolute truth, they hear the drama, the victim mentality, the bullshit.
They’re able to take on an air of curiosity and seek the crafty ways in which they’ve sabotaged themselves.
Don’t fool yourself – we all self-sabotage.
I want you to start realising just how powerful you are in your creations and then maybe you’ll agree with me on the self-sabotage topic.
I’ve come to understand that thrive is our natural state.
That we live in a universe of pure abundance.
That our bodies are wired to be healthy.
Which means that everything in our lives that are contradictory to that, is our pure willpower that makes it so.
Think of it as an ocean of joy that’s flowing towards you.
And you’re somehow holding your hands out in front of you stopping the flow.
OF AN OCEAN!
Can you even picture in your mind how immensely powerful that is?
Can you even imagine how much strength and energy it’s taking for you to do this?
Is it any wonder then that people who choose to live in struggle are so fucking tired all the time????
I think not.
Because it’s not their natural state!
So there’s the very first clue for you – are you tired all the time?
Exhausted even though you’re not running a marathon, even though you’re not up at 5 am every day doing your mindset work, even though you’re not financially free?
Tired is not your natural state.
There’s something out of sync.
Are you eating shit?
Are you not moving your body? Not training? Not firing up those muscles?
Are you not stimulating your mind with things that excite you?
Are you not having conversations with fascinating people who leave you feeling on fire over coffee?
Are you not making passionate love to a human that turns you on with a pure whisper in your ear?
Are you not doing the work that you love doing in a way that fills you with pride and a sense of badassery?
Are you not connecting with your higher self and leaving the details to the Big U of how your dream life unfolds?
All of this matters by the way.
But let’s say that historically you haven’t had the best of luck and you’ve screwed up a few times – OMG you’re human after all.
Once again you’re finding yourself in the spot where you’re sick and tired of being sick and tired.
You shake your fists at the heaven and you scream and shout. You let it all out. You crumble to the floor, sobbing, exhausted, begging for the struggle to end.
Finally you open your tear-swollen eyes and you make a promise to yourself that things are going to be different.
That you will never again be broke and broken.
That you will no longer be lonely and miserable.
I want you to ask yourself why.
Why will it be different this time around?
Why will you have a different outcome in a year from now?
And get real here Sweetheart.
Take a pen and paper and write down everything that you’ll be doing differently from now on.
You have to identify your thoughts – you have to release the Bull Shit and replace them with Belief Systems that will serve you.
You have to identify your habitual actions – you have to stop doing the things that feel comfortable, that you know how to do with your eyes closed, and you have to start learning new ways of doing.
You have to identify your toxic relationships – the ones that you know consumes your thoughts day in and day out, sapping your energy and you have to either rephrase them or end them.
You have to identify your routine – the ‘same shit different day’ approach is clearly not working for you so spice it up. Do it differently. Do new things.
And here’s the crunch –
Once you’ve written it all down, YOU ACTUALLY HAVE TO DO THE NEW.
That is the only time when things will really be different from now on.
As long as you cling to the story that you just need a break, that you just need to pay off this debt, that you just need a new job, that you just need a new love, nothing will change.
Because YOU’re not changing.
You still believe that the recipe for change is lying outside of you.
That is sooooo disempowering.
That is such nonsense.
This is the perfect time of the year to take stock of your year thus far.
Take out those goals you wrote down on the 1st of January (gag – I can hardly believe you’re still doing it the way that the average people do it with new year’s resolutions but whatever, it’s a start).
Have you achieved them and more importantly, how have you grown in the process of achieving them? If you’ve achieved your goals but you’re still the same person you set pathetic, safe, small goals.
And if you haven’t achieved them, why not? What have you not learned to do yet? Who have you not become yet? How have you not done it differently this year?
Get brutally honest with yourself.
Don’t try and protect your fragile personality.
Cry if you have to.
Mourn the fact that you’ve pissed another year of your life away with no real change.
Then let that go, draw a real line in the sand and let me know what’s going to change.
Why is this next year going to be different?
What are you going to be doing differently?
Get accountable and hit me a mail – email@example.com
No more screwing around.
Death is coming.
You can choose to thrive until then.
PS: Are you ready to prove to yourself that yes, this time things really WILL be different??
Are you ready to be taken so far out of your comfort zone that you can’t even see the horizon?
To be held to a level of accountability that simply doesn’t tolerate excuses?
Are you ready for change?
Coaching with me is not for those who desire average results. It’s not for those who only want to focus on one thing at a time. It’s definitely not for those who want to nibble at anything.
Coaching with me is for the high achiever who desires to have it all – impact, satisfaction, stimulation, success, wealth, health, passion, connection, shit tons of energy – and they’re prepared to do whatever it takes to get it.
No more excuses.
If you’re ready for THIS level of thrive, then book your consult today.
Hesitation leads to devastation and quite frankly is exactly where you’ve always been.