Entries by Anel Bester

Only YOU get to decide – EVERYTHING!

Resistance is real. It’s a constant in the lives of the driven, the creatives, the artists, those who desire to leave behind a legacy. Nobody is immune to waking up some mornings, thinking they just couldn’t be fucked. To get up at 4 am To go out to ride when it’s cold and wet and […]

Who would you be without the fear?

‘Who would you be without the fear?’ Such a popular question often asked in coaching. In fact, I’m sure I would have asked this very same question hundreds of times. The idea behind the question is to open you up to new possibilities. To show you what else is available to you if you weren’t […]

You are in fact never alone.

I had the privilege of attending an inaugural event last night – a coming together of some dynamic ladies in the area. In the spirit of learning and connecting. The first thing that really caught my eye was how each and every woman took care in her appearance. It was amazing to see! Yes, dressing […]

Does it even matter where it comes from?

Why do you think we, the brilliantly intelligent species, have this need to understand? Where all our hangups come from? Why we are afraid? Why we procrastinate? Why we do the stupid shit we tend to do at times? Why we feel unhappy? Is it really necessary to understand? I mean, think about it, dogs […]

Do you know how you’re wired?

I believe we’re all wired differently. I don’t believe there’s a better or worse way to be. It’s simply different. Its our uniqueness that makes us so incredible. And yes, there are some with whom we resonate more than with others, and there’s some people who just completely repel us! Yet it doesn’t make them […]

Have you ever considered the tone of your questions?

One of the learnings that really changed my life, was around questions. I do believe that it was Tony Robbins who first brought this to my attention when he stated that if you desire better results, ask better questions. I started realising that those voices in my head, you know, the ones I’m always telling […]

Without my vision, I too would crumble.

What will it take for you to believe? In yourself. In your worth. In your beauty. In your dreams. What will it take for you to understand? That time does not exists except for this moment. That every desire you feel is gifted to you as a means to lead you on a path of […]