Entries by Anel Bester

If you’re serious about success, you have to starve the fear.

 Can you trust me? Even if just for a moment… Just enough to take my hand, interlacing fingers, as we walk forward, to the edge, of your comfort. Peering over the verge of infinite possibility. Which is all available to you, right now, in this moment, but first, you have to leap. Insane? That’s […]

When will you deserve your own loyalty?

Loyalty – a word that’s been in the forefront of my mind lately. It’s defined as a strong feeling of allegiance and support. Devotion, faithfulness, obedience. A lot of emotion-provoking words loaded in a simple definition. I’ve been observing my first born – a brilliant young man quietly going through life. There’s a grounded energy […]

What’s wrong with this picture?

As I stand in front of the mirror, a crease starts forming between my eyes. There’s something wrong with the picture. Too soft. Too voluptuous. Too NOT me. This is the power of creating your avatar my friend. Instant recognition and corrective action brings FAST results and transformation in your life. I’ve had a lot […]

The hogwash you tell yourself to stay out of the game.

Do you agree with me that you are the narrator of your life? That you are writing your life story day after day, hour by hour, minute by minute. Whether with your pen, your mouth or your mind. If not, stop reading now. For me, this is the foundational piece of living a life of conscious […]

Beware the sheep in wolves clothing!

The message woke me just after 3 this morning. Replaying events from the previous 24 hours. Asking to be shown what I was missing. Which is when it hit me: There’s a shit-ton of sheep walking around in wolves clothing. Now before you get all uppity with me, I have no problem with sheep. I […]

The fear beneath the perceived fear.

Had you seen me yesterday, you would have stood in bewilderment. Shaking your head in sympathy. Convinced that I’d finally lost my shit. Completely. Utterly. But you didn’t, nobody did, because they were all still sleeping. Whilst I was out, fighting my demons; my fears, dripping thickly in my throat. Challenging, taunting, calling me weak, […]

The only person you’re truly lying to, is yourself.

 Stop it. Stop telling me that you want to be successful when you’re not prepared to be uncomfortable. Stop telling me that you value health when you’re stuffing your face with obscene amounts of food. Stop telling me that you desire deep love and connection when you’re not prepared to leave behind toxic relationships. […]

You know what Love, we all feel fear!

Come with me down into the dark the place where they live: the voices so soothing hypnotising. They weren’t always there. At first, when you came to this plane of existence, you were incredibly adventurous daring happy. You believed in yourself. You understood there’s no limitations to what you can achieve. When you put your […]

Free your MIND and the rest will follow.

 Pain Pleasure Fear Exhilaration Freedom Irritation Depression Joy Exuberance ORGASMIC Achievement Discomfort Elation Doubt Confidence Challenge Blame Shame Powerless BADASS AF Magical Satiated What do these mean to you? How do they make you feel? What’s the pictures that pop to mind? The stories you have attached to each word? Words have power. Why? […]

Are you done hitting the snooze button Darlin?

Okay Sweetheart, let’s have some real talk here. You and me. Because I look at you and do you know what I see? I see this incredibly powerful, beautiful person of infinite potential, waiting around, for something to happen, something to change, to give themselves permission to finally stop holding the reigns in. I see […]