Entries by Anel Bester

It’s about bloody time for you to be misunderstood!

When did your desire to be liked start dominating your desire to thrive? When did you become placid and timid for the sake of approval? To be part of the cool gang. Those with inflated egos who truly have zero desire to do the seemingly impossible. Those who simply want to exist from day to […]

There comes a time when you just have to decide.

There’s this cancer in modern society – it’s called shame. You can literally see it drip off people like black tar dragging them to a stand-still! You see it in the way their shoulders are hunched, desperately trying to protect their hearts. You see it in the way they apologise for their desires, apologise for […]

Stop changing your position, instead outgrow it!

Whether you’re in business for yourself or in the employ of someone else, there comes a time of dissatisfaction. This is normal and it’s good. Because as human beings we are hardwired for growth and change and expansion. Unfortunately most people have become lazy bastards who misread the feeling that indicates time for growth, as […]

Smashed into a million pieces – I choose how I break.

I’ve always been fascinated by the human psychology. By the complexity of our psyches. By the immense power of the human will. By the fragility which seems to, at times, unravel at a whisper. I devour books which explains why we are the way we are. Why we are successful because our parents were well […]

Ego will never win the race – not bike nor business

As the familiar burn spread through my lungs I couldn’t help but pause for a moment. Do I keep pushing? Do I slow down and recover? Do I connect with something stronger than myself? What would be the purpose of letting the burn consume me? So many questions… In that moment I remembered who I […]

You are NEVER powerless – NEVER!

I know that instinctively you want to disagree with me. You want to shout in my face that I don’t know what the fuck I’m talking about. That I don’t know YOUR circumstances. That I don’t know YOU. Maybe not. Maybe we’ve never met in person. Maybe you’ve never had the opportunity to tell me […]