Entries by Anel Bester

How much fun could you possibly cope with?

Hold on to your seat Darling, because yes, I’m actually going there… As I lay in the throes of ecstasy, allowing the buzz to penetrate every cell in my body, allowing myself to receive the full expression of orgasm, allowing myself to receive the healing of pleasure, I laughed and laughed and laughed. The pure […]

Are you ready to slide that sexy ass behind the steering wheel?

Have you ever been to South Africa? If you have, chances are you would have encountered the infamous taxis. Little mini-vans crammed over capacity with passengers who put their lives in the hands of mostly unqualified, ruthless, angry drivers. A gross exaggeration I know, but indulge me for a moment as I’m simply using it […]

Just YOU – nothing else required.

It’s just the most incredible feeling. That moment when you drop into truth. That moment of silence. When you press pause on the world, knowing that the world is going to be just fine without your attention for a few minutes. It’s not going to stop turning. People aren’t going to float off into space. […]

What are you still not saying YES to in your life?

Fuck, I love life. Seriously, I don’t think there’s ever been a more exciting time to be alive than right now. Chaos is reigning down on us. Our worlds are being rocked like a magnitude 9 earthquake. People are falling down. On their asses. On their knees. On their faces. And from down there, they […]

Are you done wasting your todays Darling?

I’m a little confused. What on earth makes people so complacent about life? Why is it that young mothers and fathers are dropping like flies around us and still, people meander on? Seemingly in a trance. Or is it more like an ostrich, sticking their heads in the sand, thinking that they’re safe as long […]

What is the essence of your desire?

The question I’ve been journaling on for the past few months has been “What do I desire?” It sounds like such a simple question. Yet it’s been one of the toughest to answer. For years I’ve completely disconnected from my desires. Somewhere, very early on in life, I started hearing ‘no’. Repeatedly. No – you […]

You were not born a miracle to drop down to average

What will it take for you to understand that we were born different? You and I. This is not an ego statement. It’s fact. I know – for only those here to bring change ever read my words. We were born to break the machine. And for us to do that, we have to stop […]