Entries by Anel Bester

It’s not just what you say but how you say it.

I’ve been called insensitive. A lot. People seem to confuse sympathy with caring.  I don’t. If you want sympathy go to the choir who thinks you’re a loser. I think you’re fucking awesome and I will treat you as such. So I don’t coo and ooh more when others are continuously telling me the drama which […]

Exhale and let that shit go…

Who ever taught us to be so hard on ourselves? To be so critical of ourselves? To never feel good enough? To compare ourselves to unrealistic social images of what is considered beautiful? Who the fuck cares. That’s who. The fact is that we can continue to blame our parents, our spouses, our boyfriends when […]

What would you do differently if you had a gazillion bucks?

As I’m planning out my day ahead I can’t help but be filled with absolute joy and excitement. Meditation and journaling is being followed by blogging.  After this I’m off to run through the forest and seeing how many bunnies I can spot before they burrow down for the day.  This will be followed with a […]

Reclaim your power from within the silence

I currently have the impression of myself on a rocket ship of personal growth, healing, empowerment, revelations, remembrance. It’s scary as shit. Not all that pleasant most days. I have a deep inner knowing that this is the right time, that I’m finally ready, and the Universe is lovingly gifting me with all the support I […]

Where does modelling stop and copying start?

I have the ultimate love-hate relationship with technology. I love the fact that I’m constantly connecting with the most fascinating, inspirational people all around the world through technology.  I love the fact that I don’t have to rely on the postal system to connect with those I love on a daily basis.  I love the fact […]

What if I told you it’s supposed to be fun.

Maybe it’s the moon. Not sure. But I woke up feeling way more relaxed than usual. My fingers are slow to reach for the keys in an effort to express the knowing that I received this morning accompanied by a feeling of complete I don’t know what.  Peace?  Joy?  Surrender?  I can’t put a name […]