You simply cannot build an empire with a slave-girl mentality

Did you know that becoming an entrepreneur is in fact, about embarking on a journey of astounding personal growth?

It has fuck-all to do with money.

Sorry to burst your bubble.

Which means that there are a few home truths that you need to get at a cellular level if you’re serious about doing this thing you’re constantly talking about.

I’ve been criticised before for saying that entrepreneurship is not for sissies.

The critic who lashed out so passionately is back working a 9 to 5 job.

I don’t want that to happen to you – not if being an entrepreneur is in your blood.

Not if corporate is sucking out your soul leaving you feeling like a turd with some glitter splashed on your ass after a couple of martini’s.

And it’s okay not to be an entrepreneur.

Some people thrive in corporate – fucking rock on!

But for some of us there is a call which will not be ignored forever.

If this is you, pay close attention.

If you’re serious about pinning the entrepreneurial badge on your chest, you have to grow a pair and be prepared to take more risks than you ever have before.  If you go look up the definition of the word entrepreneur it says RISK!  You live on the edge.  There are times when you just close your eyes and you fucking leap hoping to god that the Red Bull kicks in and you sprout wings so you don’t splat down at the bottom.

You have to trust yourself that you’re not going to fuck up to the point where you die and know that no matter how bad the failure, you’ll end up on top.  You have to leave your ego at the door and be willing to look like a complete ass at times.  To be ridiculed for your ideas, your dreams, your audacity because that is simply par of the course to greatness.

You have to believe in what it is you’re here to do and have faith that your soul clients are out there.  You have to know that you have purpose, real purpose, and your business is simply the vehicle for you to do your soul work.  And the Universe will NEVER set you up for failure Darling.  Which means that whatever the gift you have, there’s more than enough people waiting for you to show up because they need what only you can give them.

You have to do the deep introspection so that you might figure out what the clues of your life is hinting at that needs forgiveness, release, understanding, learning, up-leveling, where you have to get out of your own way.  You have to set yourself up for success and create the container for safe vulnerability, the sounding board required where you get to hear that which you’re saying without even thinking.  Why do you think the top leaders in industry all work with coaches?  Not because they want to learn from them but instead to unlock their own wisdom.

You have to be willing to piss people off to the extend that some will lash out at you, some will leave you, some will even try and break you.  If you want to be a people pleaser, if you want people to always like you, go work at McDonalds.  Being an entrepreneur is about constant change and most people are not too fond of change.  They like predictability. For things to stay the same.  Each time you take courageous action with conviction you trigger them and it is uncomfortable.  OF COURSE they’re going to react.

So now you know some home truths it’s time to decide if you’re going to have a hobby or build an empire.

I’m not here to say that one is better than the other, but it is a choice that needs to be made and you better make it right here right now.

Because if you just want to have a hobby, make a little bit of pocket money for your girly trinkets,  time freedom to sit on the beach with your kiddos, then you will most probably also be picking up toys, cooking tea every day and iron someone else’s shirts.

And that’s perfect if it’s your dream and your vajayjay tingles with excitement at the prospect of this vision.

But if you want to build an empire, you have to become a fucking queen!


Not once you’ve made more money.

Not once you’re fully booked and run down to the point of absolute exhaustion.

Not when you’re drowning and your legs are giving in because you’ve been peddling for so long you’ve got nothing left to give!

It’s too late then.

And truthfully you’ll never get to the next level unless you change your mindset and leave those overalls on the floor.

It’s an energetic shift.

For the dream you’re constantly talking about is resonating at a higher frequency and unless you become a vibrational match it will only ever stay a dream.

This is the number one reason I see so many women entrepreneurs fail.

Never even getting off the ground.

Darling, for the love of all that is holy, even Cinderella had to get support from her fairy godmother before she could rule a kingdom.

She had to stop looking like a scullery maid.

She had to employ minions (think mice and pumpkins) to get her from the kitchen to the palace.

Today I invite you to take a very honest look at your life and how you are showing up from hour to hour.

In your home.

In your business.

In your bed.

Even on your yoga mat.

All of it matters.

You can’t be a queen in one area and a slave in another (unless of course whips and chains excite you wink wink).

It comes down to a decision to give yourself permission to reign supreme in your life.

Are you courageous enough to decide today?

For death is inevitable.

Thriving like a queen, that is a powerful choice only you can make.

With love,


PS:  It is my soul purpose to guide, support, and empower those who are willing to step into their queen energy and build the empire of impact they claim as their birthright.

To leave behind the frustration, the resentment, the exhaustion, the tears that roll down your cheeks in the dark when nobody can hear your desperate call to a higher power for some help because you just don’t want to keep doing the slog day after day.

I have dedicated more than 25 years to the study of human behaviour and psychology, to understand the mindset of high achievers, to learn the most powerful strategies and simplify them for my clients so they can see results fast!

But fair warning, I don’t work with whiners and complainers.  Those who want to sleep all day and make wishes on the stars that a miracle will occur whilst they don’t lift a finger.

I work with those who have a burning desire to succeed.  Those who are willing to shift ass out of the drama and into empowerment. Those who are willing to do the introspection and take massive aligned action.

I work with those who are prepared to claim their royalty.

If that’s you, and if you’ve read this far then you know you are, I invite you to book a consult with me today so we can create a plan of action that will have you living your life of thrive.