Just to be clear – I’m not talking to the average people.
The ‘same shit different day’ people.
Those who are satisfied sleeping late, paying bills and having sex twice a month.
I’m talking to those of you who create phenomenal lives of impact and adventure.
The folks who appreciate where they’re at whilst having an insatiable hunger for more.
I really want you to get today’s piece as this is the number one reason I see so many people setting epic goals and either not achieving them or achieving them and be miserable.
First off, you have to understand that you’re a holistic being.
Your life consists of a spiritual aspect, a physical aspect, a relationship aspect, a business aspect, a wealth aspect, a lifestyle aspect, a legacy aspect.
Write these down in your journal and refer to them every single day.
This means that each time you set a goal in one of these areas, you have to understand the vision of the person who achieves said goal, in ALL of these areas.
Now knowing you, there are one or two of these areas that you prefer setting goals in.
If you’re in my space, and you give yourself permission to break the rules of what society expects of you to be a ‘good girl’, business is always at the top of the list.
Let’s be honest here, as high achievers this is the area which is the easiest for us to shine in.
Plus, if like me, your business IS your chosen vehicle to live your life purpose, you kinda consider this to be the most important aspect of your life. You might even be slightly ‘obsessed’ with your business.
Another very popular area I see for goals, is the physical aspect. Who doesn’t want to have a rocking body so you can shine on stage with your hot little red number and stiletto heels?
I get it – I’m exactly the same.
And for many years I got really good results in these areas!
I was collecting social noddy badges left right and centre.
But behind closed doors, life wasn’t so great for me.
I was depressed, feeling like a fraud.
I had a rocking body but she was so diseased that she started falling apart from the inside – literally!
Not that I missed a beat.
I would simply remove the inconvenient body part and be back training two weeks later.
I have to say though – I’m one of the lucky ones.
I’m built to hit rock bottom and find my way back to the top.
I insist on getting professional support when I need it and I’m not ashamed to ask for it.
I’ve witnessed too many lives destroyed due to pride and made a promise to myself that no matter how proud I am, it will never be my downfall.
Which finally (after many rock bottoms) led me to understand that whenever I set a goal, I had to really focus on how I wanted my life transformed in its entirety!
If I was going to take the time to set goals in business, to create my life consciously, to become captain of my ship, why on earth would I cut corners and leave my underbelly up to chance?
Yet this is what I see so many people do.
They go into great detail as to the business they desire to build, the financial goals they want to hit by the end of the year, but take no time to figure out who this person is with regards to physical health, with regards to their relationships, with regards to their lifestyle and legacy.
So they get to the end of the year and at the annual staff party celebrating their best financial year ever they have a heart attack and get rushed to the hospital without anyone notifying their spouse because their relationship has gone to hell.
Because they were putting all of their attention into one aspect and let the rest deteriorate.
You see Darling, everything in your life is like a muscle.
If you’re not actively working it, actively growing it, atrophy sets in.
That means death.
If you’re not actively growing your physical health muscle, it dies.
If you’re not actively growing your spiritual muscle, it dies.
If you’re not actively growing your relationship muscle, it dies.
I’m yet to meet a person who creates a vision that states “By the end of this year I have grown my business to multi six figures. I have completely neglected and destroyed my relationships and in fact I’m lonely AF because nobody likes me anymore. My gut is hanging over my pants and my things are rubbing together so much that I have a rash at the end of each day. OH YES THIS VISION COMPLETELY LIGHTS ME UP!”
But if all you do is focus on the multi six figures, this is exactly what you create!
Let’s stop setting goals like a pre-schooler shall we?
Today I want you to have a really good look at the goals that you’ve set for 2018 and I want you to go into detail of THE PERSON who has achieved this goal. I want you to take the standard that you’ve used for the goals and apply that to EVERY ASPECT of your life. If you want to take your business next level, I want you to take your physical health next level. I want you to take your spiritual life next level. I want you to take your relationships next level. I want you to take your lifestyle next level. I want you to take your legacy next level.
NOW you have a proper vision that will support you in achieving your original goals without leaving a path of destruction in its wake.
Next you really want to figure out WHO that woman is.
What time does she wake up? What does she do during her morning power hour? What does she eat? What does she drink? Who does she surround herself with? What does she wear? What are the conversations she has? What does she believe? What does she think about during the day? How does she make love to her man? What undies does she wear?
All of it.
Then show up as that woman TODAY!
It’s always about the BE-ing not the DO-ing and you can’t possibly BE this woman in one area of your life and BE the old version woman in all other areas and expect to create new woman’s results.
Plus this is the fastest way to identify where you’re out of whack on a day to day basis so you can course correct asap and stop the self-sabotage before you’re halfway through the year!
Now go implement Darling because just nodding your pretty head and not taking action is definitely NOT going to get you the results.
Hit me a reply and let me know your biggest insight from today.
For only death is inevitable.
Thriving truly is a choice.
With love always,
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