If you don’t like the outcome, change your fucking actions!

I suspect I’m getting old as my tolerance level for bullshit is almost reaching zero.

I remember my gran being such an impatient woman and always wrote it down to her age.

Fuck me.

Here’s the thing though, I simply don’t have patience with bitching and moaning anymore.

For people who make choices, whether those are conscious choices or they are too fucking lazy to do the mindset work so they let their egos run the show, and then they sit and sulk because their lives aren’t turning out roses.


Nobody else.

I’m not sure when we became such a society of wimps, victims and assholes, but it has to change.

People laugh at me when I say that a third of people are going to wake up, a third are going mad and a third are committing suicide.

They can’t see the insanity of the hamster wheel existence where people are literally falling dead on a train because they’re so fucking exhausted they don’t have the strength to breathe anymore.

They can’t see the suicide of drinking yourself into the emotional maturity of a toddler, clogging up your arteries with saturated fat, frying your brain with drugs, spewing destruction wherever they go.

They think all of this shit is normal FFS.

And then they think that those of us who are up at 5 am and still working on our personal development at 9 pm don’t have a life.  That we’re the ones that has something wrong with us.

Come on, they say, get yourself a glass of wine and destress and learn to relax a little.

Which is always fascinating to me because why the hell would I want to execute their actions when they’re overweight, exhausted, grey, bored and miserable?

Today is your call to awakening.

It’s your call to understand that if you want to create a life of joy you have to start paying attention to what the hell is going on in your life right now!

You have to start paying attention to how you’re feeling and acknowledge that if you’re not on fire, if you’re not ecstatic, if you’re not excited every single day, you are making some pretty shitty choices in life that is fucking you over.

You have to start paying attention to the results of your actions and instead of blaming everyone for not understanding what you’re going through and the economy for being bad and for the government for being against you, take full responsibility and change your actions.

It’s time for you to grow a pair of brass ovaries and to stop being so chicken shit that you have to hide behind your children, your responsibilities, your partner, your social injustice, your housecleaning duties, and to start doing your purpose work.

Your real purpose work.

Your soul work.

The thing you came here to do.

The thing that has taken you on a journey that has seen you hitting the floor with so much force that your knees cracked!

The thing that has taken you to hell so you can look the devil in the eye and say “Come on motherfucker, you want me, you have to do better than this because your demons will NEVER break my soul!”

The thing that has you up at night when the world is passed out because your passion burns like a furnace in your veins.

And only that thing.

You have to stop distracting yourself with shit.

You have to stop being a slave girl and own the fact that you’re an empress here to build an empire.

No more excuses.

No more sympathy seeking ‘oh wo is me‘ bullshit.

TTFU Sunshine or stay average and doom your kids to a life of misery because you don’t love them enough to break the cycles of poverty, the cycles of abuse, the cycles of oppression so prevalent in our world.

Only death is inevitable.

Thriving is a choice.

With love always,


PS:  Are you done yet?

Are you done waking up in the morning and knowing that you have a full day ahead of you and instead of feeling on fire you are filled with dread because you don’t believe you’re going to get the results regardless of your sweat, tears and pleading with the Universe?

Are you done reacting to your environment, exhausted by continuously putting out fires, always worried about how you’re going to pay all the bills?

If you’re ready to step up and start building your empire where you not only make a profit, but you love the work you do every single day, pay attention.

You see Darling, when you’re aligned and you do what you came here to do, you set alight the forces within your subconscious mind that unlocks the creativity required to build a highly profitable business that provides for your family and has your kids proud of you.

You stop working against the tide and you start strategising to let the tide take you to where you desire to be.

That means more success, faster, in a way that feels amazing, has you shine like a star and rocking your life, your family, your stilettos and your orgasms.

But hell, who wants that right?

Well my clients do.

Which is why they sign up and show up.

This is not for everyone.

If you want me to listen to your drama and hush you in my big bosom (first hint I don’t have a big bosom) then I’m definitely not the coach for you.

If you want me to rip your fear out from under the bed so you can face that asshole like the warrior you are, if you want me to connect the dots so you KNOW that HELL YES this is what you’re here to do, if you want me to keep you on track and moving forward at a speed that makes most vomit, then yes, I’m your girl.

If you’re done being a spectator and you’re ready to take back your power, it’s time we connect.