Why this whole ’empowered feminine’ thing can feel so fucking hard!

Sometimes I can’t help but feel that it’s all a cruel joke.

One designed to bring those of us who have been holding back down to a new level of humble.

Those of us who grew up in a patriarchal society and who diligently put on our big girl panties, our shoulder-padded jackets, our power suites to climb the ladder to social success.

Those of us who devoured books for information, always having the facts at our fingertips in the boardroom so we could hold our own.

Those of us who bravely followed in our mothers footsteps – a generation determined to prove that women can do it all.  Be the perfect mother baking cookies for the school fete.  Be the perfect wife who has dinner on the table in time when her man arrived home, pouring his beer and giving him quick sex to help with his stress and then get up to go do the dishes, the washing and pack everyones lunch for tomorrow.  Be the corporate ball crusher who would arrive at the office first and often be the last to leave.  Doing everything to perfection.  Not asking for help as that would be a sign of weakness.  Never breaking down in public as that would make you an easy target for those eagerly waiting to step on you.

And they did!

The moment you faltered.

Sadly also, mostly those who stepped on you in your attempt at recognition and approval , were your so called sisters.

They were the first to kick you out of the tribe.

To gossip in the corner giving you insulting glares.

Honestly, you couldn’t win.

But you fought the fight Sister, and for just a moment in time, you were flying high!

Finally receiving the recognition you felt you deserved.

Even though you were desperately unhappy inside.

Even though you always felt that you had to do more, no matter how exhausted you were, because if you can just do a little bit more you will finally earn their love and respect.

And you would use the busyness to keep you from feeling because that would feel like shit.

Oh those were the days my friend.

When we wore misery like medals of honour.

And then, the fucking rules changed!

All of a sudden women started wearing dresses, heels and have long locks.

They were singing and swaying their hips with abandon.

They were leaving the men who treated them like slave-girls and started demanding kings by their side.

We started hearing about the queen mentality.

That delegation was not only an art, but our birthright.

That we didn’t have to DO anything more, because we are enough.

We had to stop looking for the answers in books and had to get quiet to find the wisdom within.

We had to release and trust and co-create.

In all honesty, when I first started coming across this phenomenon I spiralled down so fast I was puking from the dizzying momentum.

I raged in horror as I had no idea how to BE!

I felt like a complete and utter fucking failure because I couldn’t understand how to trust myself when I had clearly screwed up so often in the past.

It was the worst thing that could possibly have happened to this born tomboy who competed against men for the fun of it.

I hit rock bottom.


To make it even worse, other women seemed to do it so effortlessly.

And gracefully.

As if it’s the most natural thing in the world.

They didn’t even have one drop of perspiration and they looked completely relaxed and energised and as if, dare I say it, they were happy!!


At which point I had to make my next choice.

I could be really stubborn and prove them all wrong.

Because I’m a goddamned IronMan.  I can do anything I set my mind to.

Or I could get really curious and open to explore this new breed of women who insisted on being.

My very first lesson was that this was not something that I could learn from reading books.

It’s not a course I could take but I journey I had to walk.

A journey which requires strong mentors who can bring to life that which has always been inside of me.

Mentors who had so much compassionate understanding for the fact that I had generations of programming to undo before I could ever trust myself enough to breathe into my power.

It is a slow journey – very slow.

And it’s one I will be on for the rest of my life.

Because you can’t rush the blossoming of a rose.

And if you force it, you will break it.

But darling, it’s just so delicious.

The slow awakening whereby I now go to my source for guidance.

Where my weapons of choice are my journal and pen.

Where I move my body with so much joy and freedom, awakening the blood flow, the soul flow, the creative flow.

Where I know that I am truly responsible for all that I create and this creation comes from within, not from outside of me.

All of this is available for you too.

Even when it feels frustrating and depleting and every fibre in your being is kicking and screaming in defiance.

You know it is.

Otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this.

And whether you are male or female, you know that things are changing rapidly, and if you’re determined to thrive, you have to start thinking differently, being differently.

So here’s my top three tips if you are ready to surf the wave of change:

1. Work with a mentor and coach.  I’m serious Darling – you can’t learn this shit.  You have to experience it.  The right mentor and coach will hold that space for you to explore.  To curse and rant and then go deeper.  They will guide you in the most powerful techniques to connect with your wisdom.

2.  Surround yourself with like-minded people who are on a similar journey.  Personal thrive can be a lonely journey if you stick with the same people you’ve been with for the past four decades.  You will be changing and this will either inspire others or highlight their inflexibility making them lash out at you.  You truly want to surround yourself with your brothers and sisters who gets you.  Who also fumble along the way.  Those who will support you with empathy rather than sympathy.  Those who will truly celebrate your success.  Those who will never shun you or shame you.

3.  Start celebrating more in your life!  Celebration brings about so much joy in your body and when your vibration goes up, so does everything else.  I know we’re constantly told to focus on gratitude and this is indeed part of my daily routine, however celebration lights me up to the next level.  And once you start celebrating on a daily basis, you open yourself up to understand just how abundant you are and how much you have available to you right now.  Plus, who doesn’t like putting on their favourite song and just dancing with wild abandon??

You’ve been hard on yourself for long enough my friend.

It’s time for you to stop fighting the tide, to release yourself and take the leap.

The leap to your power.

The leap to your happiness.

For only death is inevitable.

Thriving truly is a choice.

With love,


PS:  It is such a privilege for me to walk this journey with some of the most inspirational people in the world.

Those who know they were born to lead.  Those who were born to bring change.  Those who were born to heal and create.

It’s not always the easiest of journeys.

I challenge you to your very core.

I break down your barriers.

I smash your glass ceilings.

Because I believe you’re worth it.

If you’re ready to experience this level of challenge, this level of accountability, this level of empowerment, claim your consultation today and test the waters.



Are you brave enough to uncover your fears?

Fear is such a sneaky little bitch.

For one thing, we identify with fear as that emotion that has a strong reaction in our bodies.

Where there is a tightening up.

A tensing in the chest.

That queasy feeling in your tummy.

Hunching up of your shoulders.

A slight strangling of the throat.

We’ve been told that this is what fear looks and feels like so we tend to be on the lookout for these symptoms to identify our fears and rise above them!

But fear has many faces.

Sometimes she shows up as hesitation.

We call it uncertainty.

Or we say that we just don’t know.

Sometimes she shows up as procrastination.

When we keep ourselves so busy with other things that we never have to do the things that truly matter at the end of the day.

Sometimes she shows up as resistance.

When we hear a truth that hits a chord within but instead of taking action accordingly, we block it out.

All of these are fear my Darling.

Underneath all of these behaviours, these words, these sensations, is a crafty ego keeping you apart from your true power.

This is becoming so blatantly obvious as I take the ladies in my Facebook group on the 42 day path of May Cause Miracles.  A journey where we are invited to explore our fearful thoughts, our fearful beliefs, our fearful behaviours, and replace the fear with love.

Which of course is the true measurement of fear.  For if there is love, there is an absence of fear.  In the same breath, if there is fear, there is an absence of love.

The two simply cannot coexist.

This is the third time I’m working through this brilliant book (May Cause Miracles by Gabby Bernstein).  If you haven’t read it, do yourself a favour and get it right now.  But only if you’re truly open to miracles.

I knew from past experiences that I was in for a treat as each time we do any form of personal development work, we get to peel back another layer and delve a little deeper into that which we’ve hidden from ourselves.

On day one I recognised a very deep seated fear which is one of those damned if I don’t and damned if I do scenarios.

You know – if you take the action you want to take you’re screwed because your deepest fear will be realised.  Yet upon deeper introspection if you DON’T take the action you know it’s time to take you’re still screwed because that same deepest fear is already realised!

Talk about a bitch!

But this is also exactly the moment that you have an opportunity for that miracle to occur.

Because when I took my fear and I placed love in there, I immediately understood that the fear is not only a lie, but when I take action from a place of love, all works out perfectly which also means that INACTION is no longer a choice.

So easy.

So powerful.

I also have to say though, that you really do have to come at this work with a willingness to go deep and to change.  And I’m just going to reiterate for you that change is uncomfortable AF.

It’s hard in the beginning, really messy in the middle, and glorious at the end.

Sadly 99% of people will never even begin because they don’t want to do the hard part.  For them comfort is more important than change even if that comfort is literally killing them.

Of the 1% left, only 1% will push through the messy part in the middle.

I’ve noticed that this 1% within the 1% are the ones who understand that support is non-negotiable.  These are the people who value the change to the point that they are willing to invest in it by working with a coach or a mentor.  That’s because we need someone standing on the outside who can keep us on course when it’s so muddy that we simply can’t see the way.  That trusted person who tells you to take the next step forward even when you can’t see the floor and you do so knowing that they’ve got your back.

The other 99% within the 1% are the ones who are determined to do it on their own.  Who think that as long as they read the self-help books or watch enough YouTube videos they will get the results.  And they will get some level of results.  But nowhere near their potential as they spend all their time and energy researching new and different ways in the mess rather than using that energy to apply what someone else has already dedicated their lives to mastering.  Inevitably sliding backwards to end up where they started.

Which is why only 1% in the 1% in the 1% will do it all again.  Because it’s tough and it’s challenging and it’s never ending.  Each time you get to the finish line your soul already hungers for the next level and in the same breath your ego has already placed the next fears in your way to cause you to pause and fumble.

I’ve learned that this journey is not for sissies.

Fear is not to be taken lightly and she’s not to be underestimated.

The impact she has on your life is astronomical – if you allow her to.

But she can also be your greatest power.

Always showing you the way to your next level self.

To where else you need to bring healing, awareness, growth for you to become your best version self and do the remarkable work you came here to do.

It’s all about a belief in yourself.

Either you choose to believe you can face your fears repeatedly and continue going up.

Or you choose to believe that your fears are greater than your soul, your passion, your mission.

I do hope you choose to rise because I stayed at the bottom way longer than was necessary and I don’t wish that pain on anyone.  I also respect that ultimately nobody can make that choice for you and you have to want it more than anything for you to overcome your personal resistance and bullshit excuses.

Only death is inevitable Darling.

Thriving is a choice you can make right now.

With love always,


PS:  Are you feeling that this is the time for you to go deeper into that which is holding you apart from your true desires?

Your desire for freedom.

Your desire for impact.

Your desire for thrive.

Your desire for ultimate success and abundance in all it’s forms.

Then I invite you to connect with me to see if we’re the right fit for a spectacular journey of coaching.

During our hour together we will uncover what you truly want to achieve, what has possibly been holding you back and what are the subtle shifts you can start taking right away to change your results.

At the end of the call I will offer to partner with you if there is a powerful connection and a deep knowing that I have what you need at this time, and if not, you will still have more clarity and tools than ever before.

Claim your spot here.






The journey is about coming home to you.

How far will you fall Darling?

How much will you bleed?

Bashed, bruised, screaming your defiance into the silence of your pillow?

How long will you abandon yourself before the revulsion of the emptiness in the mirror becomes too much?

How many excuses will you make for the poor behaviour of others?

How much will you cower in fear before you look up and understand that you can’t run away from your chosen journey?

And I know you’re tired from running.

I know you’re tired of hurting from the deception and the lies to yourself that peels your soul layer by layer,

Cutting into your heart,

Breaking your bones.

That’s because your entire journey thus far has been away from yourself.

Your inner knowing.

Everything has been a cruel affliction to separate you from your power by invoking fear, putting on a muzzle, chaining you to them through manipulation and a gross distortion of love.

All those people you have attracted into your life who told you that you’re not good enough.  Thank you for reminding us how much we truly are.

All those amazing people you have attracted into your life gifting you the opportunity to experience the desperation of co-dependency.  Thank you for reminding us how free and powerfully independent we truly are.

All those fabulous people  you have attracted into your life who provided you with evidence of how truly fucked up the current system and prevalent beliefs are so that you could get to this point.

The point where you finally understand that the journey of life is a return home to yourself.

A journey to the day you get to wake up and eagerly run to the mirror just so you can look into your gorgeous eyes and fall in love again.

A journey to the day you get to stand proud in your birthday suite embracing your curves, your stretch marks, your bruises, your scars.

A journey to the day you feel safe in the silence, safe enough to go a little deeper, to uncover a little more.  To reconnect with the ancient wisdom that has always been with you.

A journey to the day you reconnect with the truth that we are all connected and with this truth you can release the dependency.

You can let go of all those loving souls who gave you the toughest motherfucking lessons because you’ve learned them.

You can embrace the truth that you are here as a warrior to break the chains of oppression which has enslaved generations before us.

You get to break the cycle of abuse.

The cycle of inequality.

The cycle of soul murder, of spiritual suicide.

The cycle of being bullied into cowering before those who are too lost to do the real work to free themselves and who instead reinforce the pain they experienced throughout their lives, demanding the next generation to bow down to their superiority.



It’s time for us to break the cycle my friend.

And you know this in your heart.

Whether you are still stuck in the painful relationships or whether you’ve come out on the other side.

Whether you’re still afraid to live independently from the system or if you’ve stepped into your power.

I don’t care where you are in your journey.   What I care about is that you own the fact that you’re a born leader, a healer, a creative, a warrior, here to take a stand and being willing to do the work, not only for yourself, but for everyone else.

I care about you taking the time to connect to your purpose and committing to living it regardless of how challenging the road gets.

I care about you setting yourself up for success by surrounding yourself with your soul brothers and sisters, the mentors, the teachers, the healers, who will support you and keep your feet on the path even when the hurricanes threaten to blow you down.

I care about you understanding that nobody is more worthy than you for this role and that you do have everything it’s going to take for you to succeed.

I care about you knowing that everything happens FOR you and that until you acknowledge this you are in victim mode.


Pulling everyone else down with you.

I care about you knowing that change requires courage and you have that in spades the moment you decide you have.

I care about you knowing that everything in your life is a choice and you get to have your life created through conscious choice or unconscious choice.

Sadly majority of society is so drugged that they have no idea of the bullshit that drives their behaviour.

But you’re not one of them.

You are part of the 1% of the 1% of the 1% who are still reading because you know that your life has meaning and you’re ready to take up the call and fight the fight.

You know that if you’re in business it’s because your work is important and it’s time for you to reach more people and do the true work that you came here to do.

That’s what 2018 is all about.


Massive change.

It’s about you living your purpose creating iconic results that will empower you to show up as your best version self.

But you still have to take the action.

You still have to choose to do so.


Today you can choose to embrace the fact that you’re part of the power that creates change, or you can choose to feel like a sock in a tumble dryer.

After all, everything is a choice.

You can choose to keep running away from yourself,

or you can choose to return to yourself.

Only death is inevitable.

Thriving truly is a choice few are willing to make.

With love eternal,


PS:  2018 has already kicked off powerfully and I’ve connected with some of the most extraordinary entrepreneurs who understand that living like a hobbyist is no longer an option for them.

Entrepreneurs who desire to build empires of impact.

Entrepreneurs who are bound by their honour and their purpose to do the real work it takes to break through the glass ceilings of fear and rise to their potential.

Are you one of those entrepreneurs?

Are you ready to get the support that you deserve at this time?

Are you ready to have your sweet ass kicked into gear so you can stop the procrastination, the overwhelm, the insane cycle of exhaustion?

Then I invite you to claim your free consultation to see if I’m that coach for you.



My promise to you – I will never stop doing the work.

How long do you think it’s going to take for the system to crumble?

The system that takes our beautiful children, rips apart their confidence, plasters them with labels, poisons them with drugs, and then tells them they’re lazy and their future is doom and gloom.  Often resulting in suicide.

The system that has you sign a piece of paper and by ‘law’ you give away your power, having to play by the rules of others.  Leaving people feeling powerless, bound by their human mistakes, unable to see a way forward.  Often resulting in suicide.

The system that has people so exhausted that they can hardly exist from one day to the next.  Too tired to think for themselves.  Too tired to reach out.  Too tired to fucking rise!  Often resulting in suicide.

The system that says that you have a role to play.  A role based on who had intercourse resulting in your birth.  A role based on the form of your genitals.  A role based on pieces of paper dictating how smart or dumb you are. A role based on how much money you have.  Often resulting in suicide.

I’m just gob-smacked that some people are still not questioning the system!

Still following it blindly.

Admittedly, this is a system that served a few generations before us pretty well.

Generations who obeyed without question.

Generations who quite frankly just wanted to survive.

We are not that generation.

We are here to question.

We are here to rebel.

We are here to bring change.

We want to fucking thrive!!

It’s just not happening fast enough in my opinion.

Which is why even though I’m living the dream, I’m feeling on fire, overflowing with gratitude and appreciation of how truly wonderful my life is at this stage of the fight, I took up the call this morning.

Not for myself.

But for every person I’m here to serve.

I woke up at 3 am with some trepidation.

I knew what was lying ahead of me today and honestly I wasn’t in the mood.

I wanted to pull out.

I lay in bed sulking like a two year old.

“I don’t want to do this God.  I’m tired of the pain.  I’m sick and tired of having to do all the hard fucking work.  I just want to stay in my happy bubble and ride my bike and work with my epic clients and play hooky with my kids.  I don’t understand why I have to keep doing this.  How much more do you want from me?”

“Everything!” was the reply.

At which point the images flooded my mind.

A beautiful teenage boy, hurt by his stupid fucking school marks which honestly means jack shit but has him feeling worthless and defeated.

A grandmother, hurt by the loss of her daughter, her grandchildren, because the country they’re from is fucked up with crime and discrimination and warped politics.

The young woman in the bank yesterday.  The one who sat staring at the floor.  The one whom I reached out to and witnessed tears flowing down her cheeks because she’s going through a tough time and is desperate and hurting and confused and afraid and has nobody to support her through this time.

Face after face.

Tearing at my heart.

And I knew I would get on the call.

Not for me.

My life has nothing to do with me.

My story is not my own but yours.

My learning, my opportunities to do the work and to bring about healing, is for every single person who’s hurt by the system.

“How much more God?” I asked.

“A shit ton.  Take the shovel and start digging deeper.”

This is the life of the soul-preneur.

If you think that being a coach is a cushy job, think again.

If you think we have all our shit together and that we poop sparkles, you’re so wrong.

Oh it can be.

I could choose to be a polyfilla girl for you.

I could choose to just do the actions with my clients to get them the results.

But that would be an insult to you and to the gifts I were given with which to do my soul work.

Instead I choose to work deep with my clients for total life transformation.

And as a leader, I keep walking the path ahead of those who follow me.

I will not abuse their trust in me.

I have too much love and respect for them.

Which is how you find me sitting in the reception area of the bank whilst my son is opening his account so I can write my message for you today.

The message which I wasn’t ready to write this morning because it feels like I’ve had open heart surgery and I’m still feeling raw, vulnerable.

My ego is shouting at me to not press publish.

Saying that nobody gives a shit and they wouldn’t want to read this.

Saying that I’m sooooo weak for admitting my pain and that you won’t respect me after this piece.

But it’s not my story to own.

And I want you to know that you’re not alone.

I’m doing the work every singly day, just as you are.

I keep going into forty-five years of experiences.

Bringing up the darkness.


There’s always more.

So many monsters.

And I do it again and again and again because I understand that when we heal ourselves we get to heal seven generations forward and seven generations back.  We get to heal the collective.  We get to do the work for those who struggle to find the courage to do it themselves at this time.  We do it because every fucking layer I peel back and bring to love, I get to transform from fear to love for everyone who is walking around with this hurt.

This is simply what we signed up for my friend.

We said YES to leadership.

We said YES to healing.

We said YES to rebelling.

We said YES to bringing change.

We said YES to tumbling the system.

And we knew that we would bleed.

We knew that in order for us to do the work we came here to do we would have to be different from everyone else.  Often ridiculed.  Often shunned.

And I’m okay with that.

Because I don’t care if you like me.

If that had to be my driving force I would only tell you the good things, only show you the nice parts.  What bullshit.

I care about doing my soul work.

I have the drive.

I have the dedication.

I have the discipline.

I sure as hell have the determination.

“Your story is so much bigger than you’re allowing people to see Anel” she said.

I know.

And in time I will be sharing it all with you.

Once I have done the next layer of healing for us.

What I can tell you today Darling is that I promise I won’t stop.

I promise I won’t stay in bed.

I promise I won’t abandon you.

I promise I will always do the work until I exhale my final breath.

Because you’re fucking worth it for me.

Even if I never meet you.

We are connected.

You are my sister, my brother, my soul friend.

And you’re so beautiful.

So treasured.

So immensely courageous for stepping up every day.

Thank you.

Thank you for inspiring me to keep doing the work.

For only death is inevitable.

Thriving for you is a choice I make every single day.

With love,



What would life look like if you allowed yourself to BE more?

I’m a three on the Enneagram – the high achiever.  The goal driven personality who sets the goals, puts her head down, takes shit tons of action and makes it happen.

No matter what it takes.

I’m built for endurance Baby.

I keep going when others hang their heads down in defeat.

They call us the human doings, not human beings.

A badge I’ve worn with pride.

I’ve always been the energetic super-charged bitch who exhausts others purely by observing my unstoppable drive.

And Yes, I got some incredible results.

Yet there was a price to pay.

That price was a disconnect from my true power.

The power that resides within each and every one of us.

Our essence which is pure energy.

What I’ve come to understand is that we can take all the action in the world, but until we start BEING more, we only ever get slightly more than mediocre results.

I’m revolted by average anything.

Not even the curve of my ass is average Darling.

I came to a point where I noticed something was standing between me and those really big dreams that I didn’t talk about.

The really big dreams of impacting millions.

The really big dreams of living in paradise.

The really big dreams of loooooooong slow ripples of pleasure.

You know what I’m talking about.

What I noticed was the only thing separating me from the women who were already living that dream, was myself.

I was doing exactly the same actions as them.

I was saying exactly the same words as them.


and this is the big one

It was all doing shit

For me to step into the dream I had to BEcome the woman who lives that life.

Now maybe you’re not a three on the Enneagram and maybe for you this is the easiest thing in the world to do.

It wasn’t for me.

Everything in me screamed and revolted against the idea that I could just BE and receive.

For that to happen I would actually have to believe that I AM ENOUGH.

And that was simply not possible.

Was it?

When all I’ve ever heard was that I wasn’t smart enough, I wasn’t sexy enough, I wasn’t rich enough, I wasn’t thin enough, my boobs weren’t big enough, I wasn’t loveable enough, I wasn’t nice enough.

And of course all of this had to be true because it was said by people who I loved and trusted.

People society told me would protect me and guide me.

Well hunny, society was fucking lying to me.

Those people were just struggling egotistical humans who weren’t prepared to deal.

Who didn’t know there was a thing called mindset and personal growth.

They were hurting.

They were angry.

And as I was physically smaller and in their minds weaker, they dumped their shit on me.

And I’m really grateful for that.

Because this is what opened me up to the opportunity to break the sick cycle of familial bullshit for my boys and all generations to follow.

But I digress.

As usual.

The point is that I had to face those horrible demons, uncover the bullshit, bring up the fear, and transform it into truth.


And if I am enough that means that I simply have to BE and my life will transform.

This was such a mind-fuck at first and in all honesty, it took me way too long to get this in my bones.

To understand that each time I want to have more, I simply have to identify who I will be when I already have that and then choose to be that woman NOW.

The moment that you choose to BE your next level self, your energy changes.  So from the outside it might look that you’re doing the same things you have before but the energy and the intention behind it is more and THAT is when the magic happens and your results become so much more, so much faster.

The first step is giving yourself permission to own your true desires.

The second step is to identify who you will be once your desires have manifested.

The third step is to choose to be that person right here right now.

SOOOOOO fucking easy.

Three steps.

And it’s exactly because it is so easy that most people who read this won’t apply it.

Maybe you’re sitting there shaking your head saying “This is such bullshit.  Nothing is that simple.”

Maybe you stop reading and walk away and in ten years from now it finally clicks and you think back to that time when a stupid old bat rambled on about BEing more and you kick yourself because you’ve wasted another decade to finally understand.

Or maybe you take out your journal right now and you decide to come at it with an open mind.

You decide you’ve got nothing to lose so why not just do it for a month and see what happens.

And maybe you become so much more than you ever thought possible.

Without the burnout.

Without the frurstratingly slow pace.

Without becoming a washed out zombie with no joy.

It’s always a choice Darling.

Only death is inevitable.

Thriving truly is a choice.

With love always,


PS:  Change is an interesting thing.

Implementing new is always challenging in the beginning, messy in the middle, and fabulous in the end.

Maybe right now you’re in a space where you KNOW in your heart that it’s time for change, but you simply don’t know where to even begin.

Or maybe you feel like you’ve taken the first step but there’s this block in front of you and you’re not sure where to from here.

If this is you, then I invite you to claim your free Get Focused Now session.

I’ve been offering these sessions to my community for the past couple of weeks and the breakthroughs have been nothing short of miraculous.

Why free?

Because you have to choose to be the woman who claims it and be her right now.

Don’t let your fear of ego be greater than your desire for transformation.



Surface level work will get you surface level results

I adore my clients.

Their courage.

Their determination.

Their passion.

Their vision to building empires.  Visions that rock this world to it’s very core.  Visions which they relentlessly pursue.

Regardless of their current circumstances.

Regardless of their challenges.

Regardless of their bullshit.

Which is exactly why they work with me.

For they have always reached a point in their lives where they’ve been doing the ‘right’ thing to the point of exhaustion, yet they woke up feeling uninspired.

They’re lips were moving but their words were devoid of passion.


Their thrive-gage sitting listlessly at the bottom.

They finally got to the point where they understood that in order for them to build an empire, they require a solid foundation.  That the cracks could no longer be filled and covered with pretty paint because every time their lives received a little shake, as life does, those little cracks would run like a chip in the front screen of your car which ends up cracking from top to bottom.

So we delve in to the really uncomfortable places.

The darkness where they’ve been hiding their dirty little secrets.

The lies that were fed to them during their childhood of how incompetent they are, how broken, how imperfect.

The self-limiting beliefs which held them hostage, arms strangled behind their backs, having them straining forward without progress.

And they fight me.

All the time.

They sit in front of me with steely gazes, taunting me, daring me to push them over the edge.

They cry.

They scream.

They tell me to fuck off.

But they keep going.

They keep chipping away at the plastering of years of being the well socialised good girl.

That’s when the magic starts happening.

I watch them transform ever so slowly.

So slowly that they don’t even realise it.

I watch them rip apart at the seams, unveiling the beauty that has been inside all along.

The woman who struts with purpose.

With grace.

With confidence.

The woman who came here at a time of turmoil and pain and disaster to bring about healing and change.

These are the leaders, the change catalysts, the healers, the creatives, the high achievers I get to work with.

And I pay homage to them because they are the 1 % in the 1 %.

A rare stone in a pile of concrete.

I am humbled in their presence for they are my inspiration.

It’s available to you too Darling.

Not that you have to work with me to unleash your power.

But you do need to get to a point where your dissatisfaction with mediocrity becomes unbearable.

When you would rather be dead than comfortable.

Comfort suffocates growth.

And what doesn’t grow, deteriorates.

Comfort makes you bloated.

You lose your hunger.

Hunger to reach more people.

You have to own the fact that you are a born leader here with an important purpose.

And every day that you choose to cower under the bed, your soul clients are in excruciating pain.

Waiting for you to show the fuck up and empower them to find their voices and holler their desires with pride.

Waiting for you to get out from behind the wall of shame and to share your truth, your journey, your story, unapologetically.

They are waiting for you to stop playing so goddamned small.

To stand proud in the face of your fears.

For you to remember who the fuck you really are.

To claim it.

To embrace it.

To embody it.

Once you reach the point of no return you need to look up.

Rise up.

You need to find the warrior inside of you and you need to face your greatest enemy.


For once you conquer the enemy within, the enemies outside can do you no harm.

You have to go deep and pull out your shame, roots and all.

You have to expose your fear to the light so you may transform it to your truth.

The truth that your past behaviour does not equal your future results.

The truth that nothing defines you.

Only you have that power.

The truth that everything in life happened FOR you.

For you to receive learning.

For you to receive opportunities of reflection.

For you to experience what you detest so that you can get crystal clear on what you actually desire.

It’s about giving yourself permission to go after your dreams, your desires, with everything that you’ve got.

To get laser focused.

To eliminate distractions.

To get so far out of your comfort zone that you can’t even see land anymore.

Only oceans of liquid possibility.

It’s about giving yourself permission to break the rules.

To doing it differently.

To saying “hell no” to exhaustion only receiving a trickle of reward and “hell yes” to being exquisitely supported and taken care of whilst receiving avalanches of abundance.

It’s about you taking a stand for the ‘and’.

You can rock your business AND rock your health AND rock your relationships.

You can empower people AND empower yourself financially.

You can have all the money you desire AND create abundance for everyone else.

It’s time to screw the good girl image.

There’s way too many ‘good girls’ and ‘good boys’ in this world and way too few ass-kickers.

I’m forty five.

I don’t have time for girly frills and excuses anymore.

How about you?

Are you ready to come out from behind the curtain and take centre stage?

Understanding that it’s not about you but about every person you are here to serve?

Are you ready to choose success?

Are your ready to go deep to reveal the truth and receive the healing?

For only death is inevitable,

Thriving is a courageous choice.

With love always,


PS:  Shaking a little?

Maybe there’s a tremor running through your body and you’re not sure if it’s anger because I’ve triggered you or excitement because I’ve whispered a possibility or maybe fear because you know you’re smokescreen has just evaporated?

Either way, what are you going to do with this energy?

Are you going to wait for it to abate?

Or are you going to use it to shift your ass into action?

It is time for us to connect?  Is it time for you to step out and step up?

If you’re feeling the pull book your consult today and let’s play.


You don’t get what you do, you get who you are choosing to be…

Shit, how blessed are we?

To be living in a time when humanity is being turned on its head and people are forced to stop and finally think again!

Questioning the meaning of it all.

Questioning the systems.

Questioning the beliefs they were told had to be accepted at face value because someone stated “Because I said so…” when they were four years old.

We’re living in a time when people are breaking down, people are sick, people are unhappy AF.

Complaining of back ache.

Complaining of being so fucking tired they just don’t know if they can take another step.

Blaming the teachers they had in school for their low self esteem.

Blaming their bosses for their bad reviews at work.

Blaming their partners for their unhappiness because you know, they stopped being perfect and now the selfish motherfuckers are sitting on Facebook all the time instead of talking to you or having an affair with some other bimbo.

Blaming their addiction to pizza for their inability to lose that last 5 kilograms no matter how hard they train.

Blaming the economy for their bad debt which is completely out of control, feeling like their bills swallow them into a black hole at the end of each month.

So they drug themselves with empty entertainment, empty calories, empty promises in a desperate attempt to fill the emptiness inside.

And every single morning people are waking up washed out.


Fed up.

In so much pain they don’t know how the hell they’re going to find the will to get through another day.

Wallowing in the screwed up belief that there’s honour and admiration in martyrdom.

And all of this suffering is purely their souls screaming like an banjee


The pain is nothing more than a siren that they’ve lost their way.

That their choices in life is screwing them over.

That their current path is not where they truly desire to be.

It’s not where they are living in purpose.

It’s not where they can be living in joy.

It’s not where they will thrive.

It’s a reminder that everything comes back to choice and you can choose to be a victim or you can choose to be a leader!

Those who embrace the path of the cowardly victim stubbornly refuse to shut up with their constant whining and complaining.

They refuse to question their beliefs, not understanding that their beliefs drive their actions which ultimately is creating the life they are living today.

Instead they insist on just taking more action.

Because of course if they do more they will get more success.

They will make more money.

And when they make more money they can buy more toys.

And when they have bigger toys they will get a better partner who appreciate them.

And if they have a better partner they will take better care of themselves.

And when they take better care of themselves they will be happier.

Holy shit man!  Stop the fucking insanity!

It’s this way of thinking that has people existing like zombies.

So let me spell this out for you today Darling.

Not that I think you’re one of the dumb-asses and OF COURSE you already know this.

But repetition is key to mastery so here we go.



Which means that you have to choose to be HAPPY FIRST!

WHEN you are happy you will take better care of yourself because you fucking adore you so why would you put poison in your body?

When you are healthy you start shaking your ass and attract other happy people and together you will dance more freely.

When you dance like a wild woman you receive the toys with which to swirl those hips a little wider, laughing a little louder.

Creating more energy.

And when you create more energy you attract more money because money adores you and wants you to feel like a queen because when you’re in your queen energy you become a powerful leader and the universe is hungry for real leaders!

When you’re on a high vibe frequency you become irresistible to all things good.

And I’m sorry to tell you, but when you’re washed out, worn out, out of shape, out of joy, desperate, depressed, you’re not very attractive.

In fact, the only thing you attract is more shit.

More expenses that increases your feeling of desperation.

More work which exhausts you leaving you feeling worn out.

More assholes leaving you feeling unworthy.

More empty calories leaving you feeling out of shape.

More bad luck leaving you feeling even more depressed.

So what will it be Darling?

You have to choose.

You can’t be both a victim and a leader!

By the way, I know you.

I know you know you were born to lead.

I know you know you were born to bring change.

I know you know you are a creative force.

I know you know you crave joy.

And I also know you’re scared.

It’s okay to be scared.

I would be worried if you weren’t.

But what’s the worst thing that could happen if you chose to bust through the glass ceiling imprisoning you in mediocrity?

What’s the worst thing that could happen if you chose to believe in yourself, your worth, your mission and fucking go for it with everything you’ve got, blowing up your excuses?

What’s the worst thing that could happen?

You could fail.

Yes, it’s part of the journey to success.

Your friends could call you a bitch and stop inviting you to their parties.

Yes, research shows three out of five people will leave you.

You could be a little more tired for a little while whilst you get your foundational pieces in place.

You could start losing the protection of the extra weight currently sitting on your stomach and thighs.

You could start feeling good about the image in the mirror.

You could start falling in love with yourself.

You could, heaven forbid, be happy!!!

Can you possibly tolerate being happy?

Really happy?





If so here’s what I want you to do:

I want you to ask yourself right now what is it that you desire with all your heart to manifest in the next three months?

I want you to consider what it will be like to already have received like?  What will you be able to do?  How will you feel?  Who will you be surrounded with?  Who won’t you be surrounded with anymore?  How will you speak?  What will you eat?  How will you play?

All of it.


And this is the magic question:

Who do you get to be in order for you to manifest that even faster?

“I am choosing to be…”

And then be that woman.

Every minute of every day.

Get ready to be blown.

For only death is inevitable.

Thriving is a choice.

With love always,


PS:  I work with those who choose to lead.

Those who choose to give fear the finger and to rise to their potential.

I work with ordinary people who move beyond their excuses to create extraordinary lives.

Lives of conscious choice.

Lives of empowerment.

Lives of thrive.

If you know you’re ready to move beyond your self-limiting beliefs and go for it, if you’re willing to feel the fear, and say enough and no more, then and only then do I invite you to claim your free consult and let’s discover if I’m the coach who will lovingly kick your ass to your next level.





You have to just let that shit go!

As I sat in bed yesterday there was a deep feeling inside of me that it’s time to let go of all that is no longer serving me.

The next level of shit that is clogging up my mind, my energy, my drive, my impact.

I’m going to be frank, my first thought was “Oh FFS, not again.  I’ve dealt with all the shit”.

But the nagging got louder.

‘Get out your journal Anel.

Get out your pen Anel.

Go deeper Anel.

Acknowledge all that you still resent.

All you are still hurt about.

All that you are fucking furious about.

Even the shit that’s just meh.

Go deeper.’

And so I did.

I sat for more than an hour recalling every incident, every person, from when I was six years old who pissed me off, who pissed on my spirit, who slapped me in the face, who punched me in the gut, who broke me down, who told me I’m not good enough, who made me feel like dirt.

All of them.

All of it.

Page after page after page.

I was shocked to my core.

I honestly thought I had dealt with all of this by now.

But we have this protection mechanism built in which only allows us to access and remember that which we are capable of coping with.  For a long time I couldn’t remember further back than my twenties.  Finally I broke through to my teens.  It appears that I’m ready to go all the way now.

I’m astounded at truly how badass my soul is.

She definitely did not come to this lifetime to be a wimp.  She did not come here to be average.  She did not come here to be a princess.

She came to be a leader.

A warrior.

One who wanted to break down stereotypes and horrendous systems keeping humanity in enslavement of mediocrity.

A social system which tells us we’re not good enough.

Not smart enough.

Not pretty enough.

Not organised enough.

Not busy enough.

Not worthy of epic success in all areas of our lives.

A social system which poisons our bodies with chemicals and fats and then further poisons us with chemicals that will ‘cure’ us.

And people are dying.

So much death.

It’s fucking horrific.

Yet I chose to come and live in this time.  And I know from a soul perspective I understood what the learning would be about, and I agreed!

I put my pen down.

I stared at the list.

Tears brimming over my eyes as I felt into the raw emotions.

I was ready to let go.

I was ready to forgive.

I was ready to finally clear away the toxic energy at this level.

So I sat with each memory.

“I forgive you.

I am sorry.

I love you.”

Over and over again.

It took some time because I’m past just saying the words without feeling them.  Without understanding what I’m really saying.

Forgiving means that I not only forgive but I am deeply appreciative of the wonderful learning the person opened me up to.  Learning of how to honour my boundaries.  Learning of how my worth has fuckall to do with my financial status.  Learning of how love starts with self.  Learning of sacrifice.  Learning of owning and speaking my truth in a time when disruptions are discouraged.  I appreciate it all.

I am sorry meaning that I am not a helpless fucking victim in my life, that I participate in every tango.  I play a role.  And just as I have experienced hurt in the relationship or incident, so on some level did the other person.  People don’t lash out if they’re not in pain.  I now take full ownership of my role in every single event, every single relationship.

I love you even though you’re a dick.  I love you even though you hurt me like a motherfucker.  I love you because ultimately you are soul.  And soul is pure and good and love.  Which also means that on a soul level everything you did was from a space of pure love because we both knew that I needed the learning for me to do my soul work today.  And I love you for making me stronger.  I love you for making me question.  I love you for making me the woman I am today.

None of this would have been possible if I hadn’t said YES to forgiveness yesterday.

None of this would have been possible if I hadn’t said YES to my life purpose.

Honestly, why else would I go through this process again and again if not to be a better version of myself so that I may be in greater service to you?

I’m all for pain (you simply have to look at my scars and tattoos), but my pain has purpose.

Ripping that band-aid off for healing hurts like hell.

But it’s so worth it Darling.

The release.

The love that flooded into my body was beyond words.

The energy that coursed through my veins demanded more action!

More clearing.

So for the next six hours I ripped into our garden like a woman possessed as the men in my life stood back and watched me rip out, break out, cut down, cut back, sweat dripping down my body releasing pent up emotions and energy.




This morning I have aching muscles and so much clarity.

So much energy.

So much drive and passion and love – I am unstoppable.

Isn’t it about time that you gifted yourself release from your next level shit?

Seriously, what is the benefit of holding on to it?

And of course there is benefit – otherwise you would have let go of it by now.

For me it was egotistical protection.

Before now I wasn’t ready to fully own my part in every painful relationship.

It was safe to hold my success back just a little bit.

Not having to show up fully for you because, well, sometimes I’m scared shitless of stripping down naked in front of you.

I fear judgement just as much as you.

I just have to get out of my own fucking way to serve you.

I fear abandonment just as much as you.

I just have to remember that the only true abandonment is that of self and get over it.

I fear criticism just as much as you.

I just have to toughen the fuck up and take the good, the bad and the ugly.

That was the deal.

And after looking back at the last forty odd years, I know I have what it takes to keep rising.

To keep getting up no matter who knocks me down.

To forgive them.

To apologise.

To love them.

This my gorgeous friend, is true freedom.

True liberation.

True success.

Are you ready to take the next step and claim all that is available to you?

Only death is inevitable.

Thriving truly is a choice.

With love always,


PS:  Forgiveness keeps transforming my life again and again and again.

THIS is the true miracle.

When we find a moment of peace from which to gain clarity.

And I honestly can’t think of a greater gift I can share with you at this time than this.

Which is exactly why I’ve decided to work through “May Cause Miracles” with you in the Wild Woman Rebels group starting this Wednesday 17 January.

If you’re ready to experience the powerful release and freedom that can only be gained through forgiveness, grab your copy and join us today.

You’re so fucking worth it.

Sometimes you just have to give yourself permission to shit your pants.

Isn’t it crazy how we set the goals, we ask for our desires, and then when we see it starting to come to fruition we freak out, pull back, sit on our assess frozen in fear?

The Universe shows us the resources that will support us, but it still takes some form of effort on our side and so we turn away from it because taking that final leap of faith just seems too much of a risk.

Or is that just me?

I doubt it.

I’ve worked with too many people for too long to be delusional about my uniqueness when it comes to fear.  To self doubt.  To wondering if I’ll be enough.

What I have come to realise is that every time we start observing the evidence that we’re on our way to success, we have to question all our self-sabotaging bullshit from yesteryear.

We have no choice but to admit to ourselves that shit is getting real and that we are badass manifestation queens!

That we truly can be, do and have all of our heart’s desires.

And that scares us half witless.

So what do we do?

We go straight into doubt and fear and shitting our lacy panties.

We desperately seek for all the fuck-ups of yesterday and pin that donkey on our backs saying that we’ve never done it before which means we can’t possibly succeed this time around.

We pull out the big guns to convince ourselves that really, it wasn’t THAT bad before so why not just settle for what we had.

It was so much easier.

So much more comfortable.

Our energy plummets.

We feel out of sorts.

We take ourselves out of alignment, out of the game.


Personal growth can be a real bitch at times.

What makes this even worse is the fact that very few people are prepared to talk about this shit.

They only want to give you the steps that will ‘definitely’ work for you if you just implement.

They only want to share with you their rags to riches stories once they have come out on the other side and then convince you life becomes easy once you have ‘arrived’.

Well Hun, you only fucking ‘arrive’ to a place of ease when you croak.

Until then, life is all about growth.  And growth is not easy for anyone.

It’s not easy for anyone to question all they’ve done before and leave behind the shit that weighs them down so heavily.

It’s not easy to wake up in the morning and make that decision again and again that your past will not define you.

Your bank account will not define you.

Your marital status will not define you.

Your genitals will not define you.

Your heritage will not define you.

If it was easy everyone would be thriving and skipping with the bunnies, singing with the birds.

Instead, making a commitment to success, true success including money, contribution, love, health, happiness, is making a commitment to doing the real work for the rest of your life.

It also is a commitment to understand that yesterday and all the years before is done!  You can’t go back.  You can’t go change anything.

What you CAN do is to take inventory, find the lessons, and move the fuck on.

What you CAN do is to make a clear decision of where you want to go and be relentless in the pursuit of your happiness.  Embracing the fact that the road of happiness IS growth.

Making a commitment to no longer settle for anything that had you feeling ‘comfortable’ before because we both know that you weren’t thriving being comfy.

If you had, you wouldn’t be reading this piece today.

Instead you’re left feeling unsatisfied.

Like having really bad sex.

Sure, from the outside it can look as if though you’re having the time of your life.

You can scream and scratch and breathe really loud.

You can probably even fake an orgasm.

But inside…



Less than numb


Cut off from your true potential to feel the energy created when the body is turned on and explodes into a chasm of creative tension.

And maybe that was good enough for your granny

Maybe it was even good enough for your mother

But if you don’t shake off the shackles of lies of what you are meant to experience, that there are no bad desires, that there is no limitation on what you can ask for AND receive, you’re just faking it Darling.

And nobody is buying it anymore.

People are waking up.

They are seeing past the photoshop and the pretence.

They’re sick and tired of the nauseating “Little Miss Sunshines” poisoning themselves with suppressed emotions.

Suppressed anger festering into rage.

Resentment fertilising cancer eating up body and soul.

It’s fucking insanity!

And you deserve more!

You deserve to wake up in the morning, embracing the fact that you were built a warrior.

You have everything it takes.

You have the courage.

You have the burning desire.

You have the grit.

You have the wisdom.

Now all you need to do is stop saying no to your truth and start saying yes to your journey.

Your journey to greatness.

Your journey to impact.

Your journey to thrive.

Now in all honesty, if you’re reading this piece and thinking I’m smoking dope, you’ll never get it.

You’ll never get the fact that I choose to live on the edge because this is my legacy.

This is my purpose.

This IS the dream for me.

I have no desire for comfort anymore.

Lord knows I’ve had it long enough and it sucked the soul right out of me.

I’m a goddamned warrior and I will continue to face the demons in my darkness every single day for the rest of my life.

Going deeper each morning as I sit with my journal.

Each call with my coach where I get challenged and triggered and want to tell her to just fuck off and leave me alone FFS.

But I don’t.

And she doesn’t.

Because for me, THIS is the real work.

It’s all about growth Darling.

All those goals you set for yourself.

It’s not about the money.

It’s not about the clients.

It’s not about the boat.

It’s not even about the beach.

It’s about the growth.


Get this, and you will become unstoppable.

You too will start setting the goals that challenge the pants off you.

Where you simply can’t see any way possible.

Success will require letting go of bullshit.

Success will require thinking differently.

Doing differently.

Believing differently.

And all of this is challenging.

Especially if you’re a high achiever and you don’t want to look like a fool.

The only fool is the asshole staying the same day in and day out thinking she’s happy.

I’ve gifted myself permission to be real.

I’ve gifted myself permission to be scared.

I’ve gifted myself permission to fuck up.

I’ve gifted myself permission to go full out for my dreams and to make the sacrifices they demand.

Sacrificing toxic relationships.

Sacrificing toxic food.

Sacrificing toxic beliefs.

I’m fucking worth it.

And so are you.

What are you giving yourself permission for today?

Here – you can have my slip….

Fill it wisely.

For death is coming.

You can choose to exist, or to thrive until then.

With love eternal,


PS:  2018 can be your year.

The year where you rise above your current fears.

The year in which you give yourself permission to stop creating your future results based on your past behaviours.

The year you give yourself permission to stop running a hobby and to build an empire.

It won’t be easy.

It won’t be effortless.

It will take brass ovaries and shit tons of determination.

But if you’re ready, and you give yourself permission to be supported exquisitely through the process, I invite you to book your free consult today.



Are you done flirting with the idea of a business?

In a world where so many claim to follow their passion, building their dreams, going all out, there’s surprisingly few truly successful entrepreneurs.

In the past decade meeting and working with hundreds of entrepreneurs I have come to realise that there’s those who talk big and there are those who walk big.

The talkers are super easy to spot.  They are the ones making excuses as to why they are struggling.  Why they are doomed.  Why they just have bad luck.  Why they can’t afford to take the risks.

Instead of using those ahead in the game as role models and adjusting their habitual behaviours, they put the icons on a pedestal.

They say that the likes of Richard Branson and Oprah must have something special.

They must have been born with a mutated gene that makes them different from the average Jolene.

Or, even more infuriating, they put those high achievers in a different class altogether, no longer belonging to the cult of the ‘ever struggling entrepreneur’.

Yet you and I both know this is complete and utter bullshit.

The only difference between those who achieve exceptional levels of success and those who will always tick over from month to month boils down to a few key decisions.

Number One – These entrepreneurial moguls have a dream that is far greater than their fears!  There’s this illusion that some of us live in fear and some of us are fearless.  That is such a cop-out!  EVERYONE feels fear.  But you have to make a choice each time the cunning bitch raises her head.  You have to choose if she’s going to stop you dead in your tracks or if you’re going to feel her and take the action anyway.  Pissing your pants, shaking in your boots, unstable as can be.  But you relentlessly push forward.  Yes sometimes you encounter challenges and she screams a little louder.  This is when you want to make damn sure that your dream is always bigger than your fear.  If not, you’re not dreaming big enough so go back to the drawing board.

Number Two – Successful entrepreneurs give themselves PERMISSION to go full out for their dreams.  They stop looking at everyone else to pat them on the head, nodding approval for their ideas.  They understand that small minded people will never be able to support them and that as long as they walk around talking about what they desire, they’re wasting precious time which could be used to making shit happen.  So they look at themselves as the ultimate decision maker of their fate.  They look in the mirror and affirm their worth to be successful, to have it all, to be happy.  And they permit themselves to show up for their dreams, making the sacrifices along the way.  Because it’s fucking worth it.

Number Three – Successful entrepreneurs are willing to screw up A LOT!  They understand that the only failure will be giving up and that everything else on the way is simply learning.  And they LOVE to learn!  Not just the stuff that feels easy to them, but the things that challenge them so much that at times they have to go beyond determined all the way to furious to push the fuck forward.  They understand that failure is part of the path to ultimate achievement and when they screw up publicly they shrug and say “oh well” knowing that nobody will ever remember as long as they will.  They move on!

Number Four – Successful entrepreneurs don’t flirt with their businesses.  They take him in their arms every morning and French kiss him so deeply that he spreads himself out on the bed and say “Come on baby, I’m yours!”  No holding back.  No tippy toeing around him.  They get intimate to the extend that will make most folks blush.  And I’m talking every part of him.  Including who they are serving.  Their administrative systems.  Their money.  Their team.  Their marketing.  All of it.  Deep.  With pure abandon and exhilaration. Why do you think they’re vibrating on such a high level?  That doesn’t come from a peck on the cheek Darling.  It comes from unbridled passion!

Number Five – Successful entrepreneurs work with coaches.  I’m not saying this because I’m a coach.  I’m saying this because it’s fact.  Every client I have worked with has achieved way more in our time together than they had on average in the years prior.  Their personal growth continues to get them results long after we’ve parted.  Entrepreneurs (and I include myself which is why I’m always working with my own coaches and mentors) need a trusted person who has zero attachment to the outcome of the journey to guide them and call them out on their shadow side.  Their self-sabotaging rituals.  Their bullshit beliefs.  It is only when your sound board believes in the power of your journey, allowing you to fail, allowing you to succeed, that you tap into your true potential and rise!

Coaching is an incredible investment in yourself, in your business.  It says that you take yourself seriously.  It says that you’re done playing around and are willing to be very uncomfortable most days because you understand that discomfort is where growth takes place.

Have you ever noticed how you have zero resistance to shit that’s bad for you?

Yet massive resistance to the things that you know is a game changer?  That will put you next level?  That will grow you?

This is the beauty of working with the right coach.  They will identify those actions which triggers you the most and you will take the action regardless of your fear and resistance and previous excuses.

Because you’ve made the investment and you rise to the occasion.


So tell me darling – are you done flirting with your business?  Are you ready to have a full-on love affair with him?  One where you wake up early, eager and pumped to get into him?  Where he becomes your obsession and you show up as your best version self for him because he demands the best out of you.

It always comes back to choice.

For only death is inevitable.

Thriving is a choice.

With love always,


PS:  The first step on your road to epic success is clarity.

Clarity on your purpose.

Clarity on your ultimate vision.

Clarity on your values.

Clarity on where you are today.

Which includes seeing your blindspots.

A challenge when you’re already feeling fed-up, already feeling frustrated.

Which is exactly when it’s time to connect with your next level coach.

I don’t work with everyone.

I definitely don’t work with those who only wish to talk a big game and not take action.

I definitely don’t work with those who want to drown in their drama and only desire a sympathetic cluck.

I work with those who understand that they were born to lead, to create, to heal, to fucking achieve.

Those who wake up and declare to themselves that they’re ready to leave their current level of existence and rise.

If you know this is you, if you know that you’re ready to take massive aligned action, if you’re ready to get uncomfortable AF, I invite you to book your free consultation today.