2020 – The year which will see the rise of Alpha Females

I’m calling it:
2020 IS the year where more and more alpha females will

It’s the year when the shackles will be broken,
voices released,
and in it’s wake
there will be a tidal wave of thrive!

For too long have we played by the rules of average man.
We’ve dimmed our shine so that others who choose mediocrity will stop blaming us for their low self-esteem.
We’ve lowered our standards of excellence to standards of average so that the laziest person in the room could feel like a winner.
We’ve watered down our words so as not to accidentally piss someone off by saying anything that could trigger,
in the process
we’ve played into the hands of the oppressors
as we’ve suppressed our truth.

We’ve raised our men to be lost boys
and then we watched them fall apart right in front of our eyes
testicles shriveled to raisins
as they simply could not cope with our passion
our drive
our ambition
our pride
yet we stay and we stay and we stay
out of codependency
and shame
and blame
in the process
raising the next generation in an atmosphere of contempt and resentment.

Doused in shame
we shuffled through life
feeling like an imposter
as we pretend to be mundane.

We have taken to the way of the patriarch
increasing our masculine energy to outweigh our feminine
showing them what the fuck we are made of.
In the process
we exchanged satisfaction for results
we exchanged creativity for relentless action
we gave from our sustenance instead of our abundance
adrenal fatigue
dried out pussies
but by the gods
we smashed those goals
earning our stripes
proving to ourselves that we can do anything our daddies said we couldn’t
enduring untold levels of mental, physical and emotional pain in the process.
Numbing it down to the point where emotion became a foreign concept.

And now?
Now the cracks are showing
for the collective consciousness of the alpha female is awakening
and you’re being called by your pack.

You have some choices to make Darling.
You can continue to put your hands over your ears,
desperately trying to block out the song
that pulls at your heart
your soul
and in the process
you will break the fuck down!

Emotions unleased will overwhelm you to the point where you think you’re losing your motherfucking mind.
Your dissatisfaction will increase daily
your stomach becoming bloated with average
your mind all over the place as you struggle to focus
struggle to make sense of anything.

Your relationships strained,
you will not be able to show up for your children
void of pride and purpose.
You will not be able to look yourself in the eye
as you will be disgusted by the image in the mirror.
above all
will be the most excruciating pain imaginable.

For as long as you reject your true nature
as long as you abandon your true calling
your soul, body and mind will be ripped to pieces
bleeding out
with the salt of your tears
burning into raw wounds of your heart.


You can choose to release yourself from the prison in your mind.
You can choose to reclaim your magnificent self.
You can choose to allow the emotions to wash through you like the waves of the ocean thereby allowing the power of the surge to lift you up.
You can choose to ungag yourself
releasing the pressure that’s been tightening around your throat
suffocating you
and bring your voice to the song of liberation.
You can choose to speak your truth with certainty and conviction.
You can choose to raise your standards once more thereby walking tall and proud.
You can choose to acknowledge that the energy that flows through your veins is the stuff which creates galaxies,
allowing yourself to remember that you ARE the creator of your reality,
fuck their rules
fuck their scarcity
fuck their limiting beliefs
and write your own story with the understanding that as you decide it, so it shall be.

In other words Alpha,
you can choose to rise
or you can choose to fall all the way down.

Either way,
you will die.

The only difference will be that your life will either serve as a warning
or an inspiration.
You will die feeling like a traitor to yourself,
your dreams never realised,
or you will die with pride and integrity knowing that you played full out every single day.

Every day I’m meeting more and more alpha females going through the change.
Their initiation into reclaiming of themselves.
My heart is singing with joy!
This is the time I’ve been preparing for my entire life.
This is the time I was born for.

Make no mistake,
it’s scary AF,
there’s so much uncertainty,
so much you’ve not wanted to deal with in the past which will no longer be ignored,
so much programming that’s contradicting your inner knowing,
and you will think you’ve lost the plot.

I’m here to tell you that you’re not.
You’re not going mad.
You’re not alone.
You’re simply waking up to who you’ve always been.

2020 is the year that will see the rise of the alpha female
and I’m instigating a trive evolution!

If you’re hearing the call
whether it’s a full blown chorus
or a whisper
know this Alpha,
you will have to choose.
For the energy of the universe is rising
the chord is stretching
and there will come a time when it will snap.
Those who choose to rise will experience a level of thrive unheard of
and those who choose to fight themselves will crumble.

Choose wisely and consciously.

For death might be inevitable.
Sadly, thrive is a choice few will make.

Live with honour,


Anel is the Instigator of a Thrive Evolution for Alpha Females.

Her work is aimed at empowering women to trust themselves and their intuition, reclaiming their authentic voices, and creating a life they’re madly in love with.

Through enhanced self-love, self-worth and self-confidence they know the satisfaction and pride of a woman who lives unapologetically aligned with her purpose.

Those ready to step up and receive support on their journey are invited to connect through a potential partnership consultation.

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