Are you standing in your own shadow?

If you’re one of those ‘sensitive souls’ who easily gets triggered,
I highly recommend you get out an umbrella
as I’m about to blow up your shit and it’s going to rain down a storm!

And if you’re not,
if like me you love kicking your own sweet arse,
let’s get dirty and tumble.

Straight up:


Let that permeate and saturate every cell in your body.

That’s right Sunshine
YOU are made of the same stuff as the allmighty creator of all that is.
YOU have the energy which brings galaxies into existence running to you and through you.

In your very core
is who you are.

You came into this body knowing this,
living this,
dancing this.

You came into this world understanding that right now,
most humans aren’t doing so good.
Drugged zombies with lies crammed into already over-stuffed minds so that they won’t think clearly for themselves,
they regurgitate the gobbledegook of the system
of how they are broken
how they are weak
how their lot in life is determined by their genitals or bank accounts or location or family of origin or political system
how they need someone else to complete them
to save them
to keep them wrapped up in warm and fuzzy codependency.

You knew this and you still chose to come because you were committed to creating a new choice for the collective,
a new experience,
a new possibility moving forward.

And then?

You forgot who the fuck you are
and chose to stay huddled in the masses of sheople
pretending that you’re not in excruciating pain every single day
as you swallow your truth
dim your bright
and stand in the shadow of your true potential…


How dare you say that you can’t just because that’s what everyone else says?
How dare you say that you don’t know just because that’s what everyone else says?
How dare you say that you don’t have what it takes just because that’s what everyone else says?
How dare you say that you are too scared just because that’s what everyone else says?
How dare you say that you need the shit that you don’t need just because that’s what everyone else says?

How DARE you say this crock of shit just so you can fit in when you came here to lead?

Alpha Female
so stop being a hypocrite and

Not tomorrow,
not next week or next month or next year,


Get out of your chair and raise your chin in stubborn defiance of the cult of mediocrity who have convinced you that you are less than you truly are.
Pull back your shoulders and allow your power to ignite in your stomach once more.

And no blaming or shaming them Alpha, for you CHOSE to believe this poppycock for all this time.
You chose to say the words that don’t feel good in your body and you chose to hold on to your excuses all of this time.

Take responsibility and then choose differently.

Choose to be your best version self.
Choose to build your empire.
Choose to love yourself.
Choose to appreciate yourself.
Choose to respect yourself.
Choose to become unavailable for fear.
Choose to become unavailable for your own excuses.
Choose to become unavailable for your egotistical lies.
Choose to become unavailable for those who continue to choose victimhood.
Choose to become unavailable for time wasters.
Choose to become unavailable for average anything.

Raise your standards for yourself.
Raise your standards for those who desire to share your space.
Raise your soul-set practice.
Raise your mind-set practice.
Raise your body-set practice.
Raise your vibration
and from this space
raise your VOICE!

I want you to really own today that the only shadow you can ever stand in is that of your true self.
The only person strong enough to hold you back from greatness is yourself.
The only thing that’s stopping you,
is YOU.

So here’s my questions for you today: (I highly recommend you journal on this)

  • how much longer will you allow yourself to suffer in the secret shame of your potential unlived?
  • how much longer will you allow yourself to suffer with the effort of holding yourself back?
  • what needs to happen for you to finally say FUDGE THIS POOP and go for it as though today is your very last opportunity and you ACTUALLY had something to say to humanity?

Just to be clear,
I don’t give a flying shag what you say so
Show all of us.
What you’re made of.
What you’ve decided.
What you’ve committed to in this moment.

Also just wanting to point out that if you DON’T take action right away,
you’re committed to not changing anything so own that too.

Death might be inevitable,
but thrive is a choice not even 1% of people are willing to make.

Live with honour,


Anel is the Instigator of a Thrive Evolution for Alpha Females.

Her work is aimed at empowering women to trust themselves and their intuition, reclaiming their authentic voices, and creating a life they’re madly in love with.

Through enhanced self-love, self-worth and self-confidence they know the satisfaction and pride of a woman who lives unapologetically aligned with her purpose.

Those ready to step up and receive support on their journey are invited to connect through a potential partnership consultation.