Are you The Ugly Duckling?

it’s time to just own who the fuck you are
and RISE!

No more pussy footing around.
No more toeing the line.
None of that shit.

Just draw a line in the sand
and leap over with unshakeable faith
that you’ve got what it takes
to not only land on your feet
but to run like a powerful beast
because you ARE her.

There’s nothing left for you to learn.
There’s zero for you to prove.
There’s nobody left to impress.
There’s only
your true nature.


Right now
the average world designed to bond and domesticate
is literally ejecting Alpha Females
with the force of a fighter-plane seat.

Thank fuck for that.

Because quite frankly Darling,
it’s simply not worth suffering in silence one more day.

And average has NEVER looked good on you.

I get how terrifying it is
after decades of thinking you’re one of them,
pretending to be one of them,
as the story of The Ugly Duckling
feeling like a freak
an outcast
every time you dare open your mouth
your words grated their tits
and they lashed out at you.

When last have you read The Ugly Duckling?
Maybe it’s time to rewrite it as

The Alpha Female who thought she was a Maltese Poodle.

Called ugly as her hair was too thick, too straight, too dark.
Not pleasing to her masters’ touch who expected his bitch’s hair to be white, soft curls.

Constantly berated by her yapping ‘sisters’
who told her to stay in line,
to quiet down,
to be more obedient if she wants to receive a reward.
All the while,
longing to join the lone howl of the wolf in the dark of night.

Believing those who warned you to ignore the call,
that the monsters in the forest would devour you,
so you stayed inside,
when in fact,
the biggest monster of them all
was the one who shared your bed.

I know how embarassing it is
to admit to yourself
that you endured that shit for years
convincing yourself that there’s something wrong with you
because you think differently
you feel differently
you are different.
Worried about what everyone else will think about you, say about you.

listen to me closely,
Stop looking around,
march your sweet arse to the mirror,
take a good long look at the eyes you see before you
and make a vow
that YOU
will from this point forward
be the ONLY person you commit to 1 000 000 %

I suspect the reason chaos is raining down on alphas is because our ancestors and the souls of our children are done waiting for us to take it slow.
They’ve run out of patience with us floundering around.
So they’re turning up the heat,
shaking it up,
causing exquisite opportunity for conscious choice and change.

Life experience is breaking us the fuck down,
right down to our DNA,
so that
we can break loose from ALL the mind-fuckery
and choose
to reclaim ourselves proudly
for every single generation
from this point forward.

that you come from a long line of warriors
who walked proudly
defending excellence
from a space of absolute commitment and dedication to thrive.
The blood that flows through your veins
infused with the raging heat of passion and love
which will not be slowed down to the pace of the average
with their slugging movements and desire to sit around all day.

that you come from a long line of queens
who walked proudly
building their empires of impact
from a space of absolute commitment and dedication to thrive.
The blood that flows through your veins
infused with the conviction of abundance
which will not be reigned in by their belief in scarcity and celebration of struggle.


For our children are suffering to the point of self-destruction.
It’s not up to them to get their shit together.
It’s not up to them to create a better tomorrow.
It’s not up to them to live their dreams whilst their parents are showing up as ball-sacks.

This is my call and challenge to every Alpha reading this today,
whether male or female:
it’s time to rise!

It’s time to believe in yourself once more that you absolutely can be, do and have anything you desire and you don’t have to sacrifice yourself in the process.
It’s time to reclaim yourself as the powerful creator of your reality through focused thought and energy.
It’s time to walk proudly in the queen and king energy that has always been your birthright as you refuse to bow down to conformity and mediocrity, instead raising your standards for yourself thereby raising the standards of living for your children and your children’s children.

Nobody is going to give you permission Darling.
You’re NOT a child.
You’re NOT a domesticated bitch.

It’s time.
For tomorrow will be no different
unless you choose differently today.

You either reclaim and believe in yourself,
or you don’t.

Death is inevitable.
Will you be one of the very few who will choose thrive?

Live with honour,


Anel is the Instigator of a Thrive Evolution for Alpha Females.

Her work is aimed at empowering women to trust themselves and their intuition, reclaiming their authentic voices, and creating a life they’re madly in love with.

Through enhanced self-love, self-worth and self-confidence they know the satisfaction and pride of a woman who lives unapologetically aligned with her purpose.

Those ready to step up and receive support on their journey are invited to connect through a potential partnership consultation.

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