Entries by Anel Bester

When will you start living for YOU?

I understand that we’re told that this life is all about how valuable and helpful we can be to everyone else.
But what if the ONLY way to be of TRUE value to humanity is in fact you living for YOU to be your best YOU?

Will you FINALLY surrender to the muse?

Not sure which one of you got me up at 3:30, but that’s the way life works when you say YES to your purpose.
Someone prays for a sign, a message, a glimmer of hope, and as you’ve raised your hand to say that YOU will show up, YOU will surrender and allow the message, the work, the art, to come through,
not when it’s ‘convenient’,
but when it damn well needs to,
so you get your sweet arse out of bed at 3:30, switch on your Mac, and let the message through.
Now tell me again that you ARE one of the 1% willing to surrender to your muse…

A nice girl doesn’t make people uncomfortable…

It’s time to stop fooling yourself into thinking that being a nice girl is going to bring positive change to the world.
It’s time to stop fooling yourself into thinking that you can break the habit of people-pleasing all by yourself.
It’s time for you to stop fooling yourself into thinking that you can take all the time in the world with baby-steps whilst thousands are dying on our watch.

You are fucking good enough

In the moments of doubt and thoughts of not being good enough, I want you to know that all of that is simply programming to keep you away from the truth.
The truth that not only are you good enough, but you are worthy, you are perfect, and you ARE the fucking point of life.

When will you remove the chastity belt off your muse?

Today I invite you to start paying attention to any rules or beliefs you’ve bought into that’s stifling your true creativity, your unique message and voice, your muse.
For you’re either living in the energy of love or you’re living in the energy of fear.
Choose wisely.

Which victim label is ready to be released?

It’s time for you to get out of the cage you’ve created with your words. The cage you’ve created with your old patterns. The cage you’ve created with your old beliefs.
For it might feel safe, but it will never create freedom and THRIVE!

Why are we clinging to the rules?

What is the reasons we cling to all the rules when majority of the time, they’re a vice on creativity? In fact, I’m observing that the more rules we make up, the less people choose to think for themselves and instead, live in mindless obedience. Mindless does NOT create thrive. And I’m taking a stand for thrive.

Are you frustrated with setting goals?

At first I thought this is a redundant topic, but the truth is that goals are one of those immensely enjoyable and powerful tools that can lead to a deep transformation, IF done properly. Sadly, as with the child’s game ‘telephone’, most of it has been lost in translation which has people feeling frustrated, filled […]

Are you seriously faking orgasms with the Universe?

The truth is that you simply don’t get to fake it with the Universe for it receives your vibrations, not your words.
This is a message from your soul – it’s time to raise your standards for yourself and the Universe so that the games can begin.

The time to set your intentions is now…

As another year slowly draws to a close, it’s time to connect to your next intentions and to state them proudly. For if you’ve surrounded yourself with those that has you living in a space of hiding, it’s your responsibility to leave and be who you came here to be.

That which you fear holds the key to your desires.

Right now, people are terrified of the most powerful force in their lives: themselves. Most do everything they can possibly think of to keep their focus externally, to avoid moments of deep introspection and connection, and our current system celebrates this. As the only way the cult of mediocrity can increase its reach, is by making you afraid of you.
Fuck ’em.

In retrospect…

Every day is an opportunity for introspection, growth and transformation. Transformation through change. Yet so few people are willing to release in order for this to occur. Will you choose to be one of the few?

Feeling guilty for having too much fun???

This might come as a surprise, but for Alpha Females the challenge is NOT overcoming more pain, it’s NOT outworking everyone in the room, it’s the guilt we feel about the fact that this is actually FUN and instead of giving ourselves permission to have MORE fun, we feel we have to suffer to make everyone else somehow feel better about their choices.

You are the creator of your relationships!

Guaranteed, not even 1% will truly receive this message today as the impact of responsibility is HUGE. Guaranteed, of the 1% not even 1% will commit to their excellent selves by doing the work. My question to you is: will you choose to be the 1% in the 1%?

Self-respect is not given, it is earned!

Who are you choosing to be today?
Does she fill you with pride?
For every choice you make, from the food you eat to the conversations you have, is either filling you with a sense of pride, increasing your self-respect, or detracting from it.
Everything matters.