Entries by Anel Bester

Can all the normal people please step aside for the unicorns???

Okay, enough already. Enough of the bitching and moaning. Enough of the fucking continuous sad-assed posts of how hard life is. Yes. Life is challenging. Yes. Life is filled with ups and downs. Yes. True achievement is not sitting on your ass sucking chocolates. So what? Holy shit man, what kind of society are we […]

Are you hiding behind the skirt of your fear?

Aaaah Nunu, you a little scaredy-cat? You think that you’re the only little girl afraid of a little fear? The only one who grew up in a big scary world? The only one who has failed before? Who has been criticised? Who has had some nasty people knock you down? So you walk around saying […]

Beware that you’re not mistaking the vision for the experience.

As a young girl I loved sitting in the auditorium, hypnotised by the grace of the dance unfolding on stage. The lights. The long lines from finger tips to perfectly pointed toes. The breathtaking leaps, rolls, twists, turns. The designer costumes with cleverly placed sequence and pearls to highlight the movement as the dancer would […]

If you don’t like the outcome, change your fucking actions!

I suspect I’m getting old as my tolerance level for bullshit is almost reaching zero. I remember my gran being such an impatient woman and always wrote it down to her age. Fuck me. Here’s the thing though, I simply don’t have patience with bitching and moaning anymore. For people who make choices, whether those […]

It’s not your circumstances that need to change.

When last have you connected? With yourself? With your body? With your thoughts? With your feelings? Every single day I get to chat to people who are driven to achieve magnificent levels of success. They are determined to go from where they are to their next level. Yet I also see how they are completely […]

Why it takes courage to let go of the HOW

I love connecting the dots. For myself as well as for anyone else who haven’t spotted the patterns yet. Which is why I’m so excited today to share with you my revelation in figuring this one out. Last month I set my goals for the year. The year. Thinking that I had tons of time […]

Easy doesn’t make you stronger

I guess it always comes down to how much you REALLY want it. Whatever IT is. For me, by the time that I write it down in ink, I might as well write it in blood. Because it’s a done fucking deal. Not ‘done’ as in I don’t have to put in the effort. But […]

You can’t create iconic levels of success with a lopsided vision

Just to be clear – I’m not talking to the average people. The ‘same shit different day’ people. Those who are satisfied sleeping late, paying bills and having sex twice a month. I’m talking to those of you who create phenomenal lives of impact and adventure. The folks who appreciate where they’re at whilst having […]

Are you ready to see the truth?

You, my Darling, are so perfect. The moment you chose to inhabit this body at this time, you already had everything inside of you. Everything that would unlock your unbelievable potential. Everything that would find you on a path of delicious adventure. Everything that would guide you back to truth. The truth that love is […]