Entries by Anel Bester

I was only going to warm up for 5 minutes but…

It’s going to be one of those days… I feel it in my bones. Which is why I really shouldn’t have been surprised when I got onto the stationery bike for a 5 minute warmup only to find myself getting off more than an hour later dripping sweat pumping thriving. I shouldn’t be surprised because […]

Pity Parties Be-damned!

This blog is not for the faint of heart. Not for the ones who enjoy feeling sorry for themselves. Those who thrive in misery. If that’s where you’re at today, stop reading. Go scroll on Facebook for some ridiculous image of some sorry ass telling you it’s okay to stay in this space of darkness. […]

When you’re done pretending to be vanilla.

Oh how easily we fall into the trap. Giving in to the noise that seems so prevalent in todays ‘social’ society. The comparison. The jealousy. Seeing all the ‘overnight’ success stories and wondering what the hell you’re doing wrong. The feeling of being a total fucking failure. All the time. So we give up on […]

It’s time for next level goals. No more fucking around.

The planets are lining up for your success – the question is are you? October kicks off with Mars making an ideal angle to Pluto not only supporting you to move forward with your goals, but putting you in the power seat to boot. Which means October 1st is THE ideal time to set your next […]

Have we seriously become a generation of spectators?

This is my personal truth. Nobody is going to make shit happen for you. Nobody is going to put you on a pedestal and adore you. Nobody is going to change the world to suite your idea of peace and love and prosperity. Nobody is going to discover a magic pill that allows you to […]

The exquisite power of awareness and conscious choice

Oh dear, this is a little embarrassing. Letting you into my private ‘hall of shame’. Because you know, I like to share my shit with you once I’ve figured it all out and have new results to show. Once I’ve gone through the dark tunnel and I’m jumping in joy in the light. But not […]

If you want perfection, I’m not your gal.

I’m going against the grain. And it might be costing me dollars, but it’s bringing me success. You see Darling, I made a choice a long time ago to give up the pursuit of ‘perfection’. I don’t believe in perfection. I don’t believe in only putting my successes out there. I don’t believe in only […]

My Wild Woman Manifesto

Oh, how blessed am I? I find myself on this incredible path of radical self-love and with every step I take my heart opens to a new dimension I never thought possible. I’m finding more and more that it’s all about me. How I choose to think. How I choose to feel. How I choose to […]

Even though it feels like Groundhog Day, it’s not.

We’ve all heard it before – “Same shit different day”. There’s this dangerous perception among the majority that time’s broken up into weekdays (work) and weekends (play). That the work week is to be dreaded “Oh no, not Monday again!” and that they should just try to survive so that they can feel good again “Hey hey […]