Entries by Anel Bester

Where does modelling stop and copying start?

I have the ultimate love-hate relationship with technology. I love the fact that I’m constantly connecting with the most fascinating, inspirational people all around the world through technology.  I love the fact that I don’t have to rely on the postal system to connect with those I love on a daily basis.  I love the fact […]

What if I told you it’s supposed to be fun.

Maybe it’s the moon. Not sure. But I woke up feeling way more relaxed than usual. My fingers are slow to reach for the keys in an effort to express the knowing that I received this morning accompanied by a feeling of complete I don’t know what.  Peace?  Joy?  Surrender?  I can’t put a name […]

Shit is getting real Sisters. Are you ready for it?

I woke up this morning with a crazy fire burning through me. Literally. I’m sweating like a pig. My first thought was “Shit, I’m getting sick” but then I felt into it and this is not a fever. It’s something from deep inside me that has been lying dormant most of my life. It’s real. And […]

Are you done being shafted by shame?

Shame – is there any emotion that trumps this bitch when it comes to ripping your self worth right out of your skin, dragging you through the mud and leaving you in a heaving heap of destruction? I don’t think so. It’s one of those emotion I don’t think we escape lightly. Not in our culture anyway. […]

THIS is the only mistake I see people make…

Who hasn’t said it at some time? I’ve made a mistake. Who hasn’t heard it at some time? Learn from my mistakes. So let’s investigate this for a moment. The definition as given by the all-knowing Google is that a mistake is an act or judgement that is misguided or wrong. I want to question this […]

There can be no fear in the presence of love.

Hmmmm, where to start. It’s taken me a very long time to publicly own the fact that I’m spiritually guided on my journey.  That I dabble with faerie dust and magic.  That I talk with my angels (and my dogs, and the wall, and the voices in my head). I always thought I was hiding […]

Triggered as fuck around triggers.

Sometimes as I sit down to write for you, I look at my reflection in the window and think “Seriously Anel, why couldn’t you have picked an easier path?” It would appear in some ironic twist of fortune I didn’t come to this life to teach from a place of logic and hum-drum information. That would […]

So you’ve lost your motivation. What now?

What an amazing thing – this life of ours. It’s always changing, expanding, retracting, going up, plummeting down. It’s on helluva ride Babe! Which is why I find it fascinating how we go through times when we decide life is boring.  We feel lacklustre.  We drag our feet and our asses.  Heads hanging.  Shoulders slumped. […]