Are you ready to eat my shorts?
It’s Monday morning.
Last Monday you read my post and you fucking high fived my sexy ass,
thanking me for giving you that boost of truth you’ve been craving.
You sat there thinking to yourself,
ENOUGH OF MY SHIT.
You promised yourself that this time around, you’re going to crush it in life.
You were going to pull yourself up by your jockstrap,
and BE BEAST!
you walked out the door,
and did FUCK-ALL!
This is why I don’t do motivational posts.
You might think I do,
but I have NO DESIRE to motivate you.
Unfortunately, social media is so full of ‘motivation’,
that you no longer distinguish between home truths and fiction.
You think that I’m slapping you on the back,
telling you that you can do it too,
when in truth,
I’m fucking jab, jab, cross, hook, upper-cutting you.
You think that you have endorphins coursing through your body,
when in fact that’s adrenaline as your soul is lying on the floor,
shocked to her core,
thinking to herself
RUN MOTHERFUCKER RUN!
OR GET UP AND FIGHT!
This one is for those ready to make shit happen.
For your life.
For your truth.
For who you actually came here to be.
For the next generation.
Yesterday, my son sat me down and he told me that he is pissed with me.
Because I’m STILL not showing up FULLY.
I’m still holding back.
I’m still not stepping up to the plate,
and swinging that bat,
with all the strength he knows is available to me.
I’m still not doing ALL that I came here to do,
and in the process,
his generation is hurting.
As my generation continuous to choose martyrdom, mediocrity, fitting in, codependency, kissing ass, false feelings of safety,
using our children as an excuse NOT to do the work,
NOT to build the empires,
NOT choosing astounding relationships,
NOT taking care of ourselves,
NOT being obsessed about our dreams,
NOT being revolutionary leaders.
And he’s had enough of my shit.
I received the punches.
I’m stepping up my game.
So if you could barely stomach me before,
then un-folllow me right now.
Because it’s only going to get more intense.
Here are my minimum requirements:
THERE ARE ZERO FUCKING EXCUSES LEFT IN OUR WORLD.
I expect that from this point forward, you will be solution-focussed.
You FIND A WAY!
You LIVE BY YOUR WORD!
You STEP UP REGARDLESS OF HOW UNCOMFORTABLE IT FEELS!
You COMMIT AND YOU SEE IT THROUGH TO THE END.
Regardless of how long it takes.
Regardless of how many times you fail.
And this means that you take EXQUISITE care of yourself.
Not by resting more.
By cleaning up the fuel you put in your tank.
By sculpting your body through movement.
By feeding your mind with stimulating reading and meditation.
IT’S EITHER A HELL YES OR A FUCK NO!
NO MORE SETTLING!
Every time you say
it’s FINE Anel,
you’re lying to yourself, saying that you’re not worthy of the absolute best of your desires.
You’re programming your body to feel comfortable in the energy of FINE.
Which means she won’t be able to handle the vibration of FUCKING PHENOMENAL.
And this horrific habit you’ve adopted of ‘I have to think about it‘ and ‘I first have to discuss it with my better half’,
is a COP-OUT!
You simply don’t trust yourself anymore.
Or you don’t have the balls to say NO!
So you’ll think about it:
what you’re actually telling me is that you’re too scared to commit and so you’re going to go talk yourself out of it in a way that feels justified so that you won’t feel bad about the fact that you’re choosing to remain the same.
Or you think that you’re going to hurt my feelings by admitting this is simply not a good fit:
so you’re going to get your partner to say no for you, thereby giving you a more politically correct way to let me down easy.
WE ARE OBSESSED IN LIFE!
What are you obsessed about in life right now?
What is that dream,
that vision that has you on FIRE?
What is it?
I want to know.
I want you to send me a message and claim that thing for yourself.
You don’t have an obsession?
You think that’s a bit over the top?
GET AWAY FROM ME!
Nothing LESS than obsession will EVER have you show up as your best version self!
Nothing LESS than obsession will give you the COURAGE to take action whilst pissing your pants!
Nothing LESS than obsession will ever have you SACRIFICE the low vibrational shit that’s weighing you down!
Do you get that????
You’re little bucket list,
you’re dream list,
you’re Pinterest board with all the pretty things that other people have,
you’re comfortable little goals that everyone else actually says you can achieve,
WILL KEEP YOU TAKING YOUR PUNY BABY STEPS AND THEN PATTING YOURSELF ON THE BACK BECAUSE LOOK AT YOU, YOU MADE PROGRESS.
Since when did we start telling grown-ups to take baby steps??
Are you six months old?
Plus – have you ever watched a baby when they start walking?
They don’t hesitantly take a little step!
They fucking go for it!
With all the momentum they can possibly muster.
And then they fall flat on their faces.
They get back up,
they go again.
BABIES ARE FEARLESS BADASS MOFO’S!
Stop insulting babies with your puny steps.
What does obsession even look like?
You sleep for your vision (seriously, you get sufficient amounts of sleep for YOUR rhythms).
You eat for your vision.
You hydrate for your vision.
You meditate on your vision.
You ONLY talk to people who have similar obsessions, saturating your words, your mind with it.
You take action towards your vision,
and you let go of all the BUSY shit that has you distracted.
You orgasm whilst thinking of your vision (powerful manifestation joob-joob right there for you!)
You ONLY have sex with high vibe partners (no more being drained by energy vampires!)
Average people look at you and call you boring.
Boring – a word invented by ‘Blenders’ because they know that mastery requires repetition, and masters stand out!
If you’re done blending in, eradicate the word boring from your vocabulary.
You RID yourself from EVERYTHING and EVERYONE not aligned with your vision.
Okay, you don’t have to disown your blood family.
Unless you want to.
It’s been my experience that for a lot of born achievers, blood family can be the biggest saboteur of big dreams.
If you let them.
You might have to limit your time with them and NOT discuss your vision with them.
They’ll never get it anyway.
Let’s be honest Darling,
you’re not going to do ANY of this for anything LESS than obsession.
Do you get that?
It’s simply going to feel TOO HARD.
It’s going to feel like TOO MUCH OF AN ASK.
Make no mistake – for a while there you’re going to feel like the loneliest person on the face of the earth.
People will exit your life, like rats jumping from a sinking ship.
This is simply part of the purging process,
part of the journey.
YOU ARE NEVER ALONE!
Your people are out there.
And when you connect with them,
it will feel like you’ve come home.
But don’t expect a huge crowd!
It’s way less congested and quieter in the realm of true achievers.
Which is exactly how we like it.
We require more space to create more iconic results.
Silence feeds our souls and has us connected to the wisdom within.
Plus, it’s exhausting to continuously try and explain yourself to those who have no true desire to understand you.
Stop wasting your breath.
what is the action you’re committed to taking straight away?
For without action, there’s ZERO commitment and ZERO change.
Maybe your action is to send me your vision.
Maybe your action is to create your vision.
Maybe your action is to connect with another obsessive achiever.
Whatever it is,
Death is inevitable.
Thriving truly is a courageous choice in a culture of average.
With love and appreciation,
PS: IS YOUR NEXT ACTION TO GET YOUR APPLICATION IN?
Right now, soul called coaches are applying for the next intake of my Coaching Apprenticeship.
THE APPRENTICESHIP IS ONLY FOR THOSE READY TO TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEMSELVES, COMMITTED TO THEIR OWN BEST VERSION SELF.
And that means you’re ready to stop pretending to be like everyone else.
You’re ready to go deep,
Into the pain,
That’s ripping up your insides,
Because you FEEL the agony of the world,
And you’re drawing a line,
Hungrily feasting on some sheople mentality.
I’ve been waiting for you.
To guide you back to your Soul,
If this is speaking to you, message me for the details and let’s get your application in.