How much longer will you seek evidence for your suffering?

Somewhere around the 10 minute mark in meditation,
I felt the flick of the switch –

So if you’re feeling like a porcelein doll today,
I lovingly invite you NOT to read any further.

Here’s the message,
short and sweet:

It is what it was,
fucking decide to get over it
and consciously choose what’s next.

I’m not sure how many ways I can possibly say this so that it will finally saturate your ego:

In every single way.
The Law of Attraction that so many are using as their excuse for not having a fabulous time,
it’s all mindset baby!

It starts with that brilliant grey mass sitting in your skull called your brain.
She is NEVER quiet,
except maybe for some periods during sleep.
Every waking moment she is having a conversation with the energy that creates galaxies,
which most of the exhausted masses are completely unaware of.

The nature of your narrative creates within you specific emotions.
Emotions that either has you feeling like you can be, do or having ANYTHING,
it feels empowering,
it feels liberating,
it feels fan-fucking-tastic
which FYI means your Inner Alpha is in agreement with you and you’re in the flow.
your thoughts can stink to high heaven,
rotten cabbage of how life is sooooo hard,
how everyone is against you,
how he is an asshole and you the poor victim,
it feels demeaning,
and the crappier it feels,
the further they are from how your IA feels about you.
This is when life feels like a struggle,
like you’re pushing that boulder up a mountain,
because you are,
and your inner being is NOT coming to rescue you.
she will hold fast in her unconditional love, acceptance and appreciation for you,
until you find your way back into alignment with you.
Even if that means she has to wait until you croak.
She has all of time and eternity.

Every time you think a thought
you instruct the UNIVERSE in all her might
to create and find evidence of your god-powerful mind,
and she delivers.
Without fail.

Like a magnet
you think,
think more,
attract more.

THIS is the Law of Attraction in simple terms.

In other words,

you can choose to use your precious time
to wallow in your misery,
sitting on the internet
finding articles that validate your current point of attraction,
the latest research will give you the trendiest labels for yourself and everyone around you,
and hey,
if blame feels better than shame,
go for it!

In fact,
I highly recommend you throw your toys out of the cot good and proper.
Just don’t invite me to your party
cause I ain’t coming!

Been there,
done that,
moved the hell on.

Here’s what I’m witnessing,
humanity is finding herself in a shit-storm of epic proportions.
Thank goodness for it.
It’s called evolution Darling,
and right now we’re privileged enough to live in a time of tremendous change.

The system,
is fucking BROKEN

and instead of continuing to say that there’s something wrong with US,
we’re creating evidence that it’s time to question how we’ve been living for generations,
how we’ve been thinking for generations,
what we’ve believed for generations.

When it happens,
when you wake up on the floor after sobbing your heart out yet again,
when you finally walk away from that toxic relationship,
when you get fired from your job,
it feels like someone ripped a bandaid off your fanny!

You have some new choices to make:
you can go wallow in sorrow for your loss for years to come
or you can celebrate the new level of freedom you’ve just created in your life.

You can pretend you’re okay whilst suppressing your emotions
or you can open the floodgates and let them wash through you to find healing.

You can complain to everyone who will listen,
and there’s no shortage of people addicted to drama,
each time rubbing more salt on your wounds and then wondering why you feel raw for so long,
or you can create a container with a professional to deal with it once and for all,
setting the intention that this is it,
once done you’re walking out of there a new woman,
a strong woman,
a proud woman,
a woman who chooses to love herself.

It’s called free will for a reason.

2019 is on her last legs.
It’s been a year of immense change in the world,
some of us chose the change consciously,
some of us didn’t.

Either way,
2020 will see a new order,
a new way of being,
and alpha females will rise
with a renewed commitment to thrive.

What will you choose?
Knowing that whatever you choose,
it will be so.

It’s the law.

Death is inevitable.
Thrive is a choice.

Live with honour,


Anel is the Instigator of a Thrive Evolution for Alpha Females.

Her work is aimed at empowering women to trust themselves and their intuition, reclaiming their authentic voices, and creating a life they’re madly in love with.

Through enhanced self-love, self-worth and self-confidence they know the satisfaction and pride of a woman who lives unapologetically aligned with her purpose.

Those ready to step up and receive support on their journey are invited to connect through a potential partnership consultation.