Forgive them Alpha, for they know not what they’re doing…

One of the questions I get asked frequently is
if it’s normal for Alpha Females to continuously get attacked by other women and also men.

The short answer:

Here’s my observation,
and you’re welcome to disagree with me:

Right now,
the world is filled with billions of people who are hurt, angry, resentful, jealous and generally disastisfied with life.
I get it.
I have compassion for them.

Just as a hurt animal will lash out at anyone and everything,
even those who are trying to help,
these people are going through life attacking all and sundry who are not on board with their story of suffering.

Misery loves company
and fucking hates THRIVE.

So when a ‘victim’ comes across another who is confident, having taken full responsibility for her thoughts, her beliefs, her actions, and from a space of empowered focus created a life that has her walk proud and full of joy,
instead of using the trigger for introspection and creating space for growth and change,
they criticise,
they lash out,
they break down,

thinking that somehow this will compensate for the feeling of inferiority eating them up inside.

In the past
I was one who would pause
and reach out a hand in good will,
taking the time to go deeper into the experiences that have led to my finding a space of thrive in my personal journey,
with the intention of creating a new possibility for them.
I’ve come to understand that those who ask questions with the wish to make me look a fool
are simply not available for what I have to share.

I will no longer slow down to explain.
I will no longer have anyone break my momentum and pace of creating a thrive evolution for alpha females.
I will no longer take any responsibility for the journey and choices of another.
I will no longer be their instrument of cowardice – and make no mistake, if you’re spending your time on the internet constantly attacking others, belitteling their work as though YOUR agendas are more important, gossipping at meetings about someone who is showing up for their purpose in an unconventional manner, it’s because you’re too chicken shit to invest your time in creating something spectacular for your cause.
I will no longer be a tool for their masochistic pleasure – if my content is constantly elevating an energy of anger and pain in you, unfollow me instead of using my truth as your acid.

From a space of deep compassion and appreciation for the journey of another,
I have become unavailable for bullshit.
So thank you to all the haters in 2019 – you have served me well.

I invite you to do the same.

The discrepency between those who thrive and those who suffer is becoming greater.
It’s a personal choice.
There are no victims in life.
We are all equal.

Everyting comes down to YOU.

You get to decide what you think
you get to decide what you believe
you get to decide how you will feel
you get to decide the actions you take.

Nobody else.

If people choose to stay stuck in their patterns
even whilst waking up every day void of joy and excitement,
it’s got nothing to do with you Darling.

They will continue going out
hunting Alphas
so that
they can keep the focus off themselves and the demons inside that has them locked down in their personal mental hell.

Have compassion for them.
Forgive them.
Walk the fuck away from them.

Today I invite you to list down all the people who have attacked you this year,
all the people who have told you that you’re wrong
that you’re not good enough
those who have gossiped about you
those who told you that others have gossiped about you
those who have kicked you whilst you were down
those who have poured their bitterness onto you
every single one of them.

If you’re an alpha,
chances are that list is going to be pretty long.

Take that piece of paper,
spritz it with your favourite perfume
allowing the delightful smell to bring a smile to your face
thereby instanly transforming your energy.

Look at every name and bring love and compassion to them
understanding that only those who are in pain ever attack another.
You don’t have to excuse their behaviour,
you don’t even have to understand the source of their pain,
just have compassion.

Write the positive they have brought to your life,
the patterns they’ve highlighted for you,
the opportunity for deeper introspection they’ve provided,
there’s ALWAYS a gift!
Mentally thank them for having been your teachers.
Thank yourself for having been the student.

burn that piece of paper,
asking the Universe to transmute all energy between yourself and those on the list to love,
to cut all energetic chords between you and them,
and release

Make the decision that you’re no longer available for their bullshit,
and mean it.

It’s time for you to get ready for 2020 – the year that will see the rise of alpha females.

You simply don’t have the time and energy to waste on carrying dead weight any longer.
I’m picking up the pace which means if you’re determined to be part of a thrive evolution you had better be ready to play full out with zero distraction.

For death might be inevitable,
but OMG
thrive is delicious.

Live with honour,


Anel is the Instigator of a Thrive Evolution for Alpha Females.

Her work is aimed at empowering women to trust themselves and their intuition, reclaiming their authentic voices, and creating a life they’re madly in love with.

Through enhanced self-love, self-worth and self-confidence they know the satisfaction and pride of a woman who lives unapologetically aligned with her purpose.

Those ready to step up and receive support on their journey are invited to connect through a potential partnership consultation.