If you think you HAVE to do it, don’t fucking do it!

Whoa, it took FOREVER for the penny to drop –

I’ve heard it said in so many ways for years,

but I have this weird tendency of wanting to figure shit out for myself.

And until I do,

I stubbornly experiment with the theories creating evidence for both sides.

Until I get to the tipping point and then stand in wonder.

 

I’m going to attempt to say this in a way that more people like me, can understand.

 

Now, first off,

I’m the “Just Fucking Do It” girl,

and that doesn’t change.

At the end of the day I know my people THRIVE from taking action,

the hustle is our breakfast smoothie,

the obstacles our jam,

the sweat our joy.

 

We have NO desire to sit around all day long,

doing diddly squat,

drinking martinis

and have someone else wipe our arses.

 

The breakthrough is, that we GET to do it all.

We don’t HAVE to do anything!

 

Stay with me,

shit is about to get airy fairy AF.

 

Okay, so I do believe that we’re part of this incredible universal force

that creates galaxies and unicorns and fluffy bunnies (HA!).

I also believe we create everything in our life experience,

through our focus,

through our beliefs,

through our stories,

through our energetic alignment,

through our action-expression.

 

What I’ve also come to learn is the moment we think it,

it’s already DONE!

Taken care of.

It’s like the entire Universe is at your beck and call all day long,

and every time you ask for something,

it says YES!

Always YES.

Never NO – this is important to understand.

 

Problem is, most of the time, people don’t think about what they’re asking for!

They say “I’m so sick of being broke!

The Universe hears broke and says YES.

They say “I’m so lonely all the time.”

The Universe hears lonely and says YES.

They say “I’m so fat.

The Universe hears fat and says YES.

 

You already know what happens, right?

You get MORE of the shit.

Even though you’re taking all the steps they’re telling you will make you rich.

You stay broke because that’s what you’re language is focused on.

Even though you connect with every person on Tinder, you never meet one that you connect with deeply.

You stay lonely because that’s your dominant intention.

Even though you go to the gym 7 days a week, drink every diet pill on the planet, eat more lettuce than a rabbit.

You stay fat because that’s what you say you are.

 

YOUR ACTIONS ARE IRRELEVANT BECAUSE YOU GET WHAT YOU ASK FOR!

 

I HIGHLY recommend that you stop asking for what you DON’T want,

and you figure out what the fuck you actually do want!

 

Next, it’s time to pay attention to your emotions.

Yes, I’m talking feelings again.

 

For two reasons:

  1.  Everything that we say we want, is because of how we want to feel.  The moment you understand the emotions you’re actually after, and you find ways in which they’re available for you, boom baby, magic happens.
  2. Your emotions is your GPS on your path.  Remember that game we played as kids?  When you would be blind-folded and you had to find someone or something and a buddy would say hotter and colder?  Well, your higher self is kinda playing that game with you as well.  She knows where your desires are, and when you think thoughts that has you fucking off in a different direction, she shouts “Colder” and you feel like shit.  Either sad or mad or frustrated or defeated or physically ill!  If you think about it, it’s not as if she’s going to throw a bucket of cold water over you every time, so she cleverly uses emotions.  Have you noticed when you think negatively of something, like it’s too hard, or probably not going to work, that he’s probably going to leave you, you feel UGH.  Well that’s because your current bullshit stories are taking you AWAY from your desires.  In the same way, when you feel like this is easy as pie, that you are adored, that things are working out perfectly, you feel as high as a kite!!  That’s because you’re thinking the way your higher self KNOWS.

 

PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR FEELINGS!

 

Since we’re on the child-game path let’s keep going down here…

 

So the Universe is this FABULOUS Santa Clause that ONLY says YES!

This one doesn’t give a damn if others judge you as naughty or nice.

He just says yes.

 

Every time you ask, it’s already done.

Except, it wouldn’t be any fun if all we had to do is ask and POOF, it’s right there in front of us.

Oh I know you think it would be awesome,

like having Aladin’s lamp,

except, we would feel rather obsolete wouldn’t we?

 

Why do we go treasure hunting as kids?

Because it’s fun!

Why do parents give their kids tasks to do to get what they asked for, even though they’ve already got it wrapped in the cupboard?

Because it gives the child a sense of satisfaction, a sense of pride, a sense of achievement when they accomplish what they set out to do and VIOLA.

Why would the universe take that away from us???

 

Have you noticed that when you set a goal and you think you HAVE to do things in a certain way,

because someone else said that’s the way it has to be done or else you’re doomed to failure,

it feels TERRIBLE?!

Or is it just me?

I know the moment I get told what to do and that is HAS to be done this way, my rebellious nature kicks in and either I won’t do it at all or I will do it reluctantly and mediocre results will be had at best.

 

It took me a long time to understand that the crappy feeling was because in my heart of hearts I know I don’t HAVE to do anything in a certain way.

I’m an artist to the core.

A creative spirit wanting to do things my way.

A new way.

Taking little bits and pieces from different modalities,

mash it all together,

and create something unique that feels fun!

This is where I get my best results from.

 

The truth is that I KNOW for CERTAIN that once I’m clear on my desire, it’s already in the bag.

All I have to do is align my energy to it and it comes into manifested form.

Which means, if I ask for something because it will have me feeling more grounded, more expanded, more joyful, more alive,

doing the things that leaves me feeling frustrated, shackled, and bummed out,

takes me AWAY from my desire.

Instead, I get to know it’s mine for the taking,

and it’s time to PLAY.

What can I do so that I can feel useful and required in the process of creation (there’s purpose for my existence), whilst learning and growing and having fun?

What can I create that’s not been done before thereby giving people new tools to mish and mash for their own enjoyment?

Knowing that as long as I’m having fun and feeling grounded, expanding, joyful, a-trhive,

I can’t fuck it up!

 

Before you argue,

just ask yourself which feels better:

Thinking you HAVE to do it a certain way otherwise you’re screwed,

or thinking you GET to have fun doing it your way and success is guaranteed???

 

Only death is inevitable my friend.

Thrive is the choice of those brave enough to actually PLAY the game of life.

 

Live with honour.

Anel.

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