When it feels like the boat is burning with no life jacket in sight!

 

If you’re choosing to read this, I know that somewhere in your life, something is burning right now.

And it’s not as if your arse is on fire with passion.

 

Fuck no Darling,

it’s hurting like hell and chances are you’re sitting there,

freaked out,

wondering how on god’s green earth you’re going to get yourself out of this one!

 

I was walking in the dark this morning,

talking out loud to the gazillion stars and telling Creator that I’m either having the time of my life,

or I’ve actually lost my motherfucking mind and ready to be locked up.

 

As I find myself without a boat once more.

Except, where in the past I would have broken down in a heap of despair,

I’m actually dancing!

 

I’ve learned that for some of us,

sitting in a little row boat feels like heaven,

for others that luxury cruise ship is the dream,

for Alphas,

it’s being dropped into shark invested waters with no vest that has thrills run down our spine.

 

Your choices:

Thrive or Die!

 

That’s it.

 

And the good news is,

that even when it feels at times that this shit is happening TO you,

A – it’s happening FOR you; and

B – you’re the one who doused the boat with fuel and dropped the match behind your back.

 

Because your soul has become BORED with the sameness,

IMPATIENT with your baby steps when she’s ready to leap off that cliff and FLY!

Your soul knows your true desires and your insistence to hold on to false safety of the known has become a little TEDIOUS.

 

Or is it just mine?

 

I know for SURE that every time I raise my hand and say YES, I’m ready for more,

shit happens lightning fast.

WAY before I think I’m ready.

Before I have ticked all the boxes of what I want in place before closing the door behind me.

 

The gift for me is that

because of who I choose to be,

because I am a resilient fucker,

because I am committed to success,

because I am not afraid of pissing my pants,

because I believe myself when I say “I Can, I Will, I Choose to, I AM”,

I tap into the most astounding creative source when I’m under pressure.

 

When I see those sharks closing in,

I don’t scramble like a headless chicken,

exciting them with my fear-dripping energy.

I USED to,

and learned very quickly that they will take chomps out of your arse before you have time to say ‘Ouchy!’

and then it’s game over as their feast begins.

 

Instead, I give myself a short container of time to freak the fuck out!

To completely lose my shit in whatever way I need to.

To lean into the fears that’s ready to engulf me.

I move IN

so that I can move THROUGH.

 

And then,

I give myself an honest talking to.

I’ll keep that piece to myself, as most will require therapy after hearing my words.

It’s raw.

It’s real.

It’s passion-infused.

 

I kick my own sweet self out of victimhood,

out of my self-induced pity party,

back to my Alpha Bitch Core.

 

Yes Darling,

I too put that t-spoon of cement in my coffee,

and I HARDEN THE FUCK UP.

 

Sharks eat pussies for breakfast.

But they flee in fear from purpose-focused-driven-committed Alphas.

 

I reconnect to my unshakable belief that EVERYTHING in my life happens FOR me.

I drop into appreciation of the current events.

And I commit to figuring out the gifts.

What has been taken off the table to create less distraction, more clarity?

How does this connect to what I’ve been brewing in the background?

How can I use this to my advantage to move even FASTER than I thought was possible?

 

By which stage I’m smiling from ear to ear

as the new possibilities FAR EXCEED what I thought was available to me before.

 

BOOM BITCHES!

 

Back on top.

Back to calm.

Ready to thrive.

 

Now I’m also going to say that this is available to me as I’ve created the evidence through years of practice.

I chose to commit to personal development first and foremost in my life.

I know that mindset IS the strategy,

because a weak mind will have you shit your pants and run in panic every time someone says BOO!

I know that an indestructible mindset comes from

Drive

Dedication

Discipline

Determination.

 

And you have to PRACTICE this every single day until it is infused into every fibre of your being and then keep practicing it.

 

This is when obstacles become part of the course that YOU choose to run.

Because it’s fucking EXHILARATING to cross the finish line and you KNOW you will!

Even when you’re face down in the mud.

Even when you’re bleeding out of your rectum.

Even when you’re puking in your mouth.

Even when snot, tears and sweat makes a mess of your face.

 

It’s who we choose to be.

It’s what makes us unique.

It’s what makes us Alpha.

 

Here’s my invitation to you today:

If shit is hitting the fan,

if it feels like everything is burning around you,

if the boat is sinking right out from under you,

LEAP!

 

Freak the fuck out and work that fear through your system in a designated container.

Then sit yourself down and remember who the fuck you are!

I know with every breath I take that you CAN rise from the ashes EVERY SINGLE TIME.

YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES.

Put the t-spoon of cement in YOUR coffee and HTFU.

Reconnect to your vision, your desire.

Drop into appreciation.

Get the gold.

Take a deep breath.

And then MOVE MOTHERFUCKER!

 

Death might be inevitable.

Thriving is the choice of the Alphas.

 

Live with honour.

Anel.

PS:  Here’s a special message for every Aspiring Coach who desires the confidence and skills required to coach masterfully and be recognised as the go-to expert in your field, but can’t find a program that facilitates deep personal transformation and individual private coaching to unlock your true potential.

Hey, my name is Anel, founder of The Alpha Coach Academy and if you want to succeed as a professional coach, then pay very close attention!

Many aspiring coaches suffer from the idea that coaching requires nothing more than a pretty website and an online presence to make easy money.

But nothing could be further from the truth.

And if you have a deep desire to impact thousands whilst building an empire and create a lifestyle where you thrive…. then THIS is exactly what you’re looking for.

I’d like to introduce you to “The Alpha Apprenticeship” which empowers you to be a transformational coach by experiencing your own personal journey, cultivating a success mindset, and building an empire of passion!

“The Alpha Apprenticeship” makes it simple for you to:

> Build your profitable business with confidence…

> serve a global community having you go to bed with a deep sense of satisfaction at night….

> be recognised as an expert in your field with the qualifications, methodologies and programs that sets you apart from the rest….

> be coached privately by a master coach with more than a decade experience coaching high performers to achieve their ‘impossible’ goals…

> Stop the feast and famine cycle which has so many coaches struggling to make ends meet, instead creating a life of freedom, impact and thrive….

… and much, MUCH more!

And what makes this even better?

Now you never have to worry again about imposter syndrome, that voice in your head that tells you that you’ll be revealed as a fraud, causing action-paralysis!

Which also means you’re not stuck feeling like you will attract vampiric clients who drain you, or no clients at all, and eventually you will give up, exhausted, defeated, and choose a mediocre life of existence. I see it happen every day..

And best of all… you’ll start seeing results with “The Alpha Apprenticeship” almost immediately, in fact previous apprentices have successfully signed up paying clients within their first 3 months with no prior experience or mailing list. and it costs less than a third of private coaching, and that’s included as well..

So again, if you’re an aspiring coach who wants to impact thousands whilst building a profitable business and create a lifestyle where you thrive., understand this:

> Due to the high personal touch I have very limited spaces available…

> the market is wisening up, and the days where untrained, unqualified coaches can survive, is coming to an end. The standards of the industry is being raised once more so now is the time to become part of the 1% in the 1% of alpha coaches….

> This is your opportunity to learn the art of coaching, build your legacy, and find a community driven by standards of excellence….

And “The Alpha Apprenticeship” from The Alpha Coach Academy holds the key to your success with coach certification and business building.

Message me for details and apply Today!

YOU were born to lead Babe- RISE ALPHAS!

Within each and every one of us there is a deep seated need for security, safety, certainty.

 

A need which goddess balanced by a desire for adventure, change, daring, challenge, uncertainty.

 

I’ve observed how our current social model is feeding the need for certainty and starving the desire for risk.

When I say feed, I’m referring to the beautiful tale of, which wolf do you feed inside your mind:

the bitch of fear or the beast of courage?

 

We’re brainwashed from an early age to forget the immense power and goodness which resides within every single human.

We’re infused with fear through media, through teachers, through preachers, through the governmental leaders.

They all convince us that we’re weak to the core, we’re unstable, born bad to the bone and our evil side is just waiting to create havoc through murder and rape, incapable of creating whatever we truly desire, that we need their protection or else we’re sure to die and end up in hell.

Burning for our sin of not conforming and obeying their commands, rules and laws.

 

We’re punished for speaking out of turn.

If we don’t agree with what the current educational authorities say is universal truth at school, we fail the exam and of course we both know the amount of shame that brings to a child!

If our bodies desire to MOVE instead of siting in a hard AF seat for hours on end,

listening to the boring regurgitation of bullshit we have already read the night before,

we’re given a label which basically says we’re out of control and given a pill to calm us the fuck down!

 

Like the mighty elephant is trained from infancy to stay stuck in chains,

humans are trained to be obedient little minions that has the system continue to exist.

 

#RISEALPHAS

 

What really pisses me off is the way in which majority of people want to pass the buck.

They hide behind their lack of ‘education’,

their lack of ‘title’,

their lack of money,

their lack of resources,

their lack of time,

to excuse the fact that they simply lack chutzpah!

 

No longer willing to take responsibility for their thoughts.

No longer willing to take responsibility for their emotions.

No longer willing to take responsibility for their actions or lack thereof.

No longer willing to take responsibility for their bodies.

No longer willing to take responsibility for their success.

 

Instead they look at the ‘gurus’ to tell them WHY they are so fucked up.

They look at the box-tickers to tell them WHAT to do.

And of course they are given what they’re looking for.

 

We live in a time when weakness is fed with a spoon full of arsenic,

and people are swallowing it like chocolate coated horse manure.

 

Hardly anyone has the balls to say what they truly see as this leads to outrage of how inconsiderate and uninformed as the latest RESEARCH shows that people really are victims.

Hardly anyone has the courage to take up their rightful leadership role IN THEIR OWN LIVES,

leading from within by taking FULL RESPONSIBILITY for themselves and their lives,

as they are terrified of ending up alone and lonely.

Hardly anyone has the audacity to stand up and say I WILL GO FIRST, terrified they will be labelled as crazy and locked up in a padded cell.

Hardly anyone has the courage to set the impossible goals and remove the possibility of ultimate failure or defeat, willing to fail until they succeed, as they’re terrified of being ridiculed by others, or worse, have the gossipers say how stupid and irresponsible they are.

 

DEATH BEFORE DNF!

 

Hardly anyone.

But they do exist.

From now on, I will refer to them as the Alphas.

And quite frankly, these are the only people I am interested in working with.

 

Why?

 

Because there’s more than enough people rescuing other people.

Keeping them feeling incapable of doing it on their own.

Keeping them stuck with their fragile little feelings and over-bloated egos.

Keeping them clinging to their excuses as to why they’re simply a victim of circumstance and heritage.

Keeping them chained in the idea that it’s up to someone else to do something to change the world because they’re not important enough, good enough, enough…

 

Alphas are the ones who know they are no different from anyone else.

They understand that it’s never talent that will dictate your level of success,

but work ethic, discipline, focus, hunger for more.

They know that they have what it takes to succeed.

They’ve gathered enough evidence of their capabilities to trust themselves.

They’ve made the decision to live in honour!

Regardless of where they start from.

Regardless of current circumstances.

Regardless of their past or family history.

Regardless of the economy.

Regardless….

 

Alphas take full responsibility for themselves.

They do the work that it takes to harness the guidance within.

They get up early.

They meditate.

They do the introspection.

They treasure those they love and make time to connect deeply.

They look after their physical selves ensuring their core is rock solid.

They protect their time, and focus on creating epic shit.

They guard their energy, ridding themselves from vampires.

 

Understand this:  We are all born Alpha.

And then,

we get to choose if we will show up as our personal leader,

or become an obedient little follower.

Always hunkering down in front of another,

kissing their shitty arse.

 

Now, I’m also going to state right here right now,

that I believe that within every single human being,

there is LOVE.

I don’t care how rotten the apple may be,

the core is LOVE.

And when you choose to reclaim your Alpha state,

you transform from the inside,

by reconnecting to that love,

that’s always been there.

 

Right now, the world is in desperate need for a rise of Alphas.

Right now, future generations need us to get our shit together and stop being whiney little bitches.

Right now, humanity needs us to become HUMAN again.

Fully aligned.

Fully turned on.

Fully in power.

 

Right now the world needs YOU to step up and take your rightful place as LEADER in your life.

 

#RISEALPHAS.

 

Only death is inevitable.

Thriving is the choice of the brave.

 

Live with honour.

Anel.

 

PS:  Here’s a special message for every Aspiring Coach who desires the confidence and skills required to coach masterfully and be recognised as the go-to expert in your field, but can’t find a program that facilitates deep personal transformation and individual private coaching to unlock your true potential.

Hey, my name is Anel, founder of The Alpha Coach Academy and if you want to succeed as a professional coach, then pay very close attention!

Many aspiring coaches suffer from the idea that coaching requires nothing more than a pretty website and an online presence to make easy money.

But nothing could be further from the truth.

And if you have a deep desire to impact thousands whilst building an empire and create a lifestyle where you thrive…. then THIS is exactly what you’re looking for.

I’d like to introduce you to “The Alpha Apprenticeship” which empowers you to be a transformational coach by experiencing your own personal journey, cultivating a success mindset, and building an empire of passion!

“The Alpha Apprenticeship” makes it simple for you to:

> Build your profitable business with confidence…

> serve a global community having you go to bed with a deep sense of satisfaction at night….

> be recognised as an expert in your field with the qualifications, methodologies and programs that sets you apart from the rest….

> be coached privately by a master coach with more than a decade experience coaching high performers to achieve their ‘impossible’ goals…

> Stop the feast and famine cycle which has so many coaches struggling to make ends meet, instead creating a life of freedom, impact and thrive….

… and much, MUCH more!

And what makes this even better?

Now you never have to worry again about imposter syndrome, that voice in your head that tells you that you’ll be revealed as a fraud, causing action-paralysis!

Which also means you’re not stuck feeling like you will attract vampiric clients who drain you, or no clients at all, and eventually you will give up, exhausted, defeated, and choose a mediocre life of existence. I see it happen every day..

And best of all… you’ll start seeing results with “The Alpha Apprenticeship” almost immediately, in fact previous apprentices have successfully signed up paying clients within their first 3 months with no prior experience or mailing list. and it costs less than a third of private coaching, and that’s included as well..

So again, if you’re an aspiring coach who wants to impact thousands whilst building a profitable business and create a lifestyle where you thrive., understand this:

> Due to the high personal touch I have very limited spaces available…

> the market is wisening up, and the days where untrained, unqualified coaches can survive, is coming to an end. The standards of the industry is being raised once more so now is the time to become part of the 1% in the 1% of alpha coaches….

> This is your opportunity to learn the art of coaching, build your legacy, and find a community driven by standards of excellence….

And “The Alpha Apprenticeship” from The Alpha Coach Academy holds the key to your success with coach certification and business building.

Message me for details and apply Today!

 

 

 

 

Why I will never treat my clients with kid-gloves – HTFU.

I’m always intrigued by the criticism I receive from those new to my space,

regarding my approach to my clients.

 

Messages expressing their concern for the emotions of those who choose to work with me.

Feeling that I need to maybe cut them some slack.

That a softer touch can do wonders for those who are feeling a little overwhelmed.

 

And of course they will always find evidence for their beliefs:

that one should not be so relentless in demanding more from those who have been struggling.

 

They witness the break-down of my clients,

and as they’re unable to cope with the discomfort this creates inside of them,

unable to sit in the agony of another whilst staying strong,

and because I refuse to let them interfere,

demand they not rescue,

they run the fuck away!

 

Good.

 

There is no place for continued weakness in my world.

 

Quite frankly,

I was born with eyes that only see the true potential in others.

I see their core and it is fucking mind-blowing!

I used to think everyone had this ability, and wondered why on earth we’re continuously doused in confidence-draining sympathy?

I couldn’t understand why everyone seemed to insist we say bullshit to people just to make them feel better.

What – we’re going to die from feeling emotional pain?

 

I received criticism from a very early age.

That I’m too out-spoken.

Too insensitive.

Too hard.

 

Shit, I recall my very first role-play in Social Work studies as part of my psych degree, where every single person the lecturer put in front of me, broke down in tears.

I was eventually pulled aside and told that maybe I should not enter the social work arena.

Never mind the fact that every student left thanking me for bringing them new insights and clarity.

Because I refused to let them just sit in the chaos their minds were creating.

 

Yeah, if you want to stay stuck,

if you want to continue regurgitating your boring story of how hard it is and how miserable you are and how everyone is against you,

you won’t last long in my space.

I’ve been there before and it dragged my arse down so far into a pit of despair that I was willing to kill myself.

If you want to go down that road, I’m not going to hold your hand and tell you it’s okay.

 

I didn’t turn my life around through therapy and happy pills.

I didn’t turn my life around because others told me to be gentle with myself.

I didn’t turn my life around by having others rescue me.

 

I turned it around one motherfucking punch in the face,

one kick in the stomach,

one bruise,

one drop of blood at a time.

 

I turned it around by strengthening my body until she could kick a boxing bag into the wall.

I turned it around by strengthening my mind until she could handle whatever life throws at me.

I turned it around by walking away from EVERYONE who choose to focus on my weakness and feed it with their concerns.

I turned it around by repeatedly putting myself in situations where physical death was a real possibility (okay I’m NOT saying you should do this too!  take responsibility) and then getting myself out of there one torturous step at a time.

I turned it around by surrounding myself with badass bastards who told me to pick up the pace or stay behind.

I turned it around by becoming a warrior.

 

And warriors don’t respond to sugary words and soft caresses.

 

We continue to rise in a world that says it’s okay to stay down by knowing our why.

We continue to move forward when everyone is telling us to slow down by staying focused on the target.

We continue to grow by viewing problems as exciting obstacles to get over, under, around, or through.

We continue to become stronger by walking the path with comrades in arms who refuse to rescue, who will taunt us, dare us, challenge us, sometimes lovingly insult us and our mothers.

We don’t take that shit personally.

We continue to thrive because we’re not afraid to fail until we succeed.

We continue to create as we are alphas – for us there is no competition.  We have no need to look around at what everyone else is doing.  We set the new standards.  We raise the bar.

 

Cupcake, I want you to know that you are capable of so much more than you think you are.

But you have to stop restraining yourself like this weak pup.

You have to start testing yourself.

You have to push to exhaustion and then,

when you think you can’t move another step,

you have to go to wherever the fuck you have to go to,

inside of you,

that dark place where pussies don’t dare tread,

you have to amplify the hurt until it turns into rage,

transmuting that pain into power.

And then you have to rise!

With conviction.

With determination.

Invinsible.

Unstoppable.

 

THIS IS WHO YOU WERE BORN TO BE!

 

It’s not going to happen in the lap of ass-kissers.

 

The truth is that you are capable of whatever you BELIEVE you are capable of.

And a belief is nothing more than a story that you’re telling yourself,

over and over,

finding evidence along the way,

until you can convince yourself that this is universal truth.

 

Winners are not attached to their beliefs.

They’re willing to continuously question all that they think they know as truth.

If it serves them,

if it makes them stronger,

if it has them reaching for more,

they continue to enforce that by creating more evidence.

If it doesn’t,

if it makes them feel frustrated,

defeated,

castrated,

they let that shit go and they start telling themselves a new story.

 

Easy as that.

 

Except if you’re staying with people who refuse to admit that they could be wrong,

because saving face is more important to them than success,

you will NEVER find the courage to change your life.

 

Why won’t I treat my clients with kid-gloves?

Because my clients are FUCKING POWERFUL and I hold the space for them to break down FASTER so that they can BREAK THROUGH their self-imposed glass ceilings.

And we all have them.

 

You’re not going to break that sheet of glass by timidly tapping on it.

Instead, I give you the hammer and tell you to swing that motherfucker with all the strength you can muster up.

Smashing it to smithereens.

 

So, here’s my invitation to you today.

Go look in the mirror and if you see soft wool covering your body, I’m NOT your cup of espresso.

If you see the steely eyes of an alpha staring back at you,

and you’re ready to go next level,

defeating the enemy in your head that’s telling you you can’t,

if you’re craving some sweat,

pushing beyond the point where your screams rip out,

if you’re ready to awaken the warrior with sheer will and determination,

AND you’re ready to receive ZERO sympathy,

let’s play.

 

I’m hungry for more sweet ass-kicking.

 

Only death is inevitable.

Thriving is the choice of those brave enough to rise.

 

Live with honour.

Anel.

 

 

Whose beliefs are you allowing to run the show?

Coaching is not for pussies.

It’s raw.

It’s real.

It’s confronting.

It challenges every thought you’ve used to built your life on thus far.

And then, demands that you choose what you will believe moving forward.

 

Well, the way I coach anyway.

 

Yesterday I took a courageous group of women into the underground of their minds.

To where they’ve allowed a story to be written on their behalf.

A story of what is possible for them.

A story of how their wild, independent, chaotic, creative natures,

their lust for life and adventure,

their passion and obsession,

is their supposed weakness.

That this part of their authentic selves, is what stops them from being phenomenally successful.

 

Leading to a life of self-suppression,

self-rejection,

self-shaming,

self-abandonment.

 

Want to know what this results in?

It results in mediocre outcomes.

It results in codependent relationships.

It results in over-eating, over-drinking, binge watching Netflix,

anything to dull the pain caused by an alpha showing up as a timid little bitch.

 

As women we’re taught to seek solace in toxic friendships.

A sisterhood bitter to the core.

Not willing to change a goddamned thing.

They have their wine-time,

bitching and moaning,

sympathy laced croutons served up with salad leaves,

and then, they all go home and recreate the same shit tomorrow.

 

#sorrynotsorry

I simply don’t see the point of this behaviour any longer.

It’s about bloody time that women remember we’re built to push babies out of our vaginas!

Our pain threshold far exceeds that of any man.

Which makes us perfect warriors.

Warriors don’t sit around having pity-parties.

 

When we connect to who the fuck we really are,

what we treasure,

what we stand for,

we will DIE for love.

 

The time has come to love ourselves first.

Because not doing so, has resulted in mass suicide of the empowered feminine and masculine.

 

#RiseAlphaBitches

 

In my world there’s no place for blame.

I make it clear that others may plant the seeds,

but we choose to water those weeds,

until even the mighty oak is denied any form of nourishment,

never taking root,

never growing tall.

 

It’s up to us to do the deep introspection which leads to an uprooting of all the limiting beliefs keeping us in self-induced comas.

It’s up to us to unearth all the stories we’re telling ourselves every single day which results in us feeling not good enough.

Not special enough.

Not beautiful enough.

Not smart enough.

Not tech savvy enough (I say giggling as one of my favourite excuses is the fact that I’m a tech retard!)

 

It’s up to us to remember who the hell told us this shit in the first place.

It normally stems from a well-meaning mother,

an over-protective father,

a jealous sibling,

a paid teacher who really don’t give a fuck about your individuality,

a lover who takes personal responsibility for your well-being,

and how you make them look.

 

Whoever it was,

it wasn’t YOU!

YOU know that your stubborn streak is what makes you RESILIENT.

YOU know that your crazy is what makes you a powerful ARTIST.

YOU know that your passion is what makes you INVINCIBLE.

YOU know that your wild abandon is what makes you IRRESISTIBLE.

YOU KNOW.

 

And you get to choose who runs the show from this point forward.

 

You can choose to hold on to those comfortable old beliefs which fits like your favourite baggy sweater.

It will require no change in behaviour from you.

You get to keep everyone who is currently in your life.

You can keep self-medicating,

painting on your Chanel smile for the world.

You will be held tight in the embrace of complacency.

And only you will know the deep-seated sadness as you mourn the death of every dream you’ve ever had.

Convincing yourself it was all just silly childhood fantasy.

That THIS after all, is real life.

It is what it is.

You’ll just settle.

And be happy with what you’ve got.

 

You can choose to reclaim yourself!

#RiseAlphaBitches

You can choose to eradicate those limiting beliefs, thanking them for all the learnings they’ve brought you.

You can give them back to every loving person who handed them to you.

They are no longer yours to own.

You can choose to connect to your true nature:

Wild

Free

Independent

Loving

Creative

Passionate

Abundant

Gorgeous from the inside out.

 

You can choose to rewrite your avatar of who you will be moving forward:

Potential UNLEASHED.

 

And you can start building your EMPIRE OF IMPACT.

 

Everything is a choice.

Which most reject because it’s so much easier to be a victim of circumstance, culture, sex, upbringing,

whatever.

Minds have become weak,

Emotions have been suppressed.

You think you can’t handle the pain so you numb it with all the socially accepted means.

Except your drug-induced state is leading to an over-dose suicide whilst you think you’re flying high as a kite.

 

Stop being such a scaredy-cat.

Connect to the pain.

Make it hurt like a motherfucker!

By getting real with yourself,

admitting the price you’re paying for NOT being ALL of you.

Pain is a powerful motivator for change, Gorgeous.

Rip off that band-aid,

pull out the drip,

and FEEL what’s truly happening on the inside.

 

From your pain you will harness your power.

Rising with pride,

rising with conviction,

rising with honour,

rising in love.

 

Only death is inevitable.

Thriving is the choice of the brave.

 

Live with honour.

Anel.

PS:  HAVE YOU SEEN THAT APPLICATIONS ARE OPEN????  For those ready to take control of their lives and thrive!

That’s right Darling, right now courageous men and women are stepping the fuck up and applying for the next intake of the Coach Apprenticeship.

This is a six month INTENSE certification program for passionate coaches ready to start a revolution by BEING the change they seek in the world, fearlessly leading their cult following, building an empire of lasting impact, and becoming legendary.

THE APPRENTICESHIP IS ONLY FOR THOSE READY TO TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEMSELVES, COMMITTED TO THEIR OWN BEST VERSION SELF.

In all honesty, I don’t work with just anyone.

I work those who are serious about success.

The ones who are prepared to do whatever it takes.

I’m unfiltered, passionate and I don’t pull my punches.

If you’re a little fragile, if you prefer a soft touch, I’m probably not for you.

And I know that for you to TRULY become confident, showing up in your power, takes attention.

Which is why this program is limited to a very small number of hand-picked apprentices.

The application process is rigorous.

It will take courage.

You will feel out of your depth.

You will feel uncomfortable.

Which is the first hurdle.

I want you to show me that you WANT this with a burning desire that won’t back down when others falter.

I want you to show me that you’re going to DO whatever it takes to become that leader worthy of raving fans.

And once you’ve demonstrated this level of commitment,

You will enter the program KNOWING that my commitment to your success is absolute.

If this is speaking to your SOUL,

If you know this IS what you’ve been waiting for,

Message me for the details so we can get you started with your application Darling.

Excuse me Sir, I think you might have dropped your balls.

This message is by no means directed exclusively at those with a physical pair of testicles.

 

Average people often ask why women don’t get upset that it’s called “Iron Man”.

Why we don’t insist on being called “Iron Woman”.

Not understanding, that when you choose to live the life of an Iron Man,

every single contender on the field is your equal.

You go into battle with warriors,

comrades in arms,

and you expect the same strength, resilience, determination, conviction,

regardless of their sex.

 

BLOOD KNOWS NO GENDER.

 

It’s time for you to get red flowing in your veins!

 

So I’m talking to YOU today,

regardless of whether your physical body depicts you as man or woman.

 

I’ve been watching patiently as millions choose to suffocate in average excistence.

Thinking they’re fooling me into believing they’re happy with the way things are.

I’ve been listening as they tell themselves and everyone who will listen to them,

how they’re doing the best they can.

How life is simply not fair,

how hard it is,

how this is not their time,

how they will show the motherfuck up once their kids are a hundred and two.

 

Because,

you know,

then they’ve been the responsible parent who paid the bills and provided the best for their off-spring.

 

Never mind the fact that they’re constantly exhausted,

out of shape,

snappy,

bitchy,

drunk,

miserable fuckers.

 

“NOT NOW!

Can’t you see I’m tired.

Leave me alone.

I’ll get to you after I finished this raid.

I’ll get the food ready after this drink.

I have a headache.

Stop being so ungrateful.

It’s weekend – I just want to rest.”

 

You should feel ashamed of yourself!

 

How DARE you NOT be who you came here to be?

How DARE you NOT be your best version self?

How DARE you HIDE behind convenient social bullshit of what you CAN and CAN’T do?

How DARE you HIDE from your fears as though you’re a castrated pup with no spine?

 

HOW DARE YOU?

 

This is NOT who you are!

 

YOU are THE POWER THAT CREATES LIFE!

YOU are THE CREATIVE FORCE WHICH LIES BEHIND GALAXIES!

 

Except for some reason you believe that in order for you to be a valuable member of society you have to know your place,

don’t speak your truth because it upsets those so far removed from themselves they think they don’t have what it takes.

 

You believe you are responsible for the happiness and demise of others.

That your emotions makes you unstable so best you don’t feel them,

don’t name them,

for the love of god don’t show them.

 

You believe that if others don’t like you,

if you’re not winning popularity contests,

it means that you’re meant to stay in the shadows.

You should not be seen.

You’re not attractive enough.

You’re not smart enough.

You’re not powerful enough.

You’re not enough.

 

Here’s what I know:

THE CULT OF MEDIOCRITY IS NOT STUPID!

It understands it’s survival is dependent on the mutation of the alphas

those born to achieve the unachievable thereby bringing back belief in potential,

those born to create the uninvented thereby bringing back art,

those born to sculpt their bodies and minds into masterpieces thereby bringing back pride,

those born to lead unashamedly thereby bringing back honour.

 

You know YOU are an alpha,

which is why you’re reading this.

Even though you’re showing up as this:

what do you even call yourself?

 

Look Cupcake,

I’m by no means claiming that I’ve lived a life which is a true reflection of my potential.

I’m only just getting started.

I had some pretty BIG fucking lessons to learn along the path back to myself.

 

First, I chose a life where I learned to detest myself to the point where I was willing to kill myself.

I chose a life where I learned to be filled with revulsion for my true nature to the point where I completely disowned my power.

I chose a life where I showed up as the runt of the litter.

Because I was told I’m too much to handle.

Too loud, too proud, too rebellious, too independent, too opinionated, too wild.

 

So I bowed my head and had them slip that muzzle over my face.

Gagging as I swallowed my truth and played by their rules.

 

It took me decades to finally reclaim MYSELF.

To choose ME.

To BE who I know myself to be.

 

I don’t regret a single day.

It gave me compassion.

It gave me empathy.

It gave me belief.

It made me resilient AF.

 

It took me DECADES to see that my balls had dropped to the floor and rolled under the bed.

 

I literally had to fall to the ground,

sobbing in the dirt,

and from this vantage point of rock bottom,

I spotted my testicles five feet away.

 

I found the inner strength to pull myself forward.

I found the inner strength to pick them up from within the cobwebs.

I found the inner strength to GET THE FUCK BACK UP.

 

ON FIRE.

ON PASSION.

ON PURPOSE.

 

UN-FUCKING-STOPPABLE!

 

Now, it’s your turn.

 

I want you to allow yourself to take off the blinkers.

I want you to give yourself permission to sober the fuck up,

to throw away the self-medication preventing you from feeling the excruciating pain ripping up your insides,

and break down so you can finally break through.

 

YOU WILL NOT DIE ANY FURTHER!

Fuck, mere existence means you’re dead already.

 

I want you to get REAL with yourself.

No holding back the punches.

I want you to see what you’ve allowed yourself to become.

By passing the buck.

By believing the truth of another even though it contradicts with your personal truth.

By not training insane.

By not raising your standards to excellence.

By not continuously learning.

By not being dedicated.

By not being disciplined.

By not connecting to the forces within that drives your life.

 

I want you to get HONEST about the impact your refusal to be a motherfucking LEADER

is costing all the generations yet to come.

 

You say you love your kids,

yet you poison them with that shit you call food!

You teach them how to waste their lives away in front of a screen.

You model to them how to numb the pain with overeating, over drinking, over thinking.

You should get a tattoo that says :

WARNING!  INFECTED BY AVERAGE.

 

Wake the fuck up and feel the pain of our children!

Whether they are your own or the children of the world.

They are DYING for us to bring back honour!

Sleeping on the streets because their parents are WEAK, drunk and playing online as real life SUCKS!

Using drugs in the parks because their parents are so caught up in the private hell of their own making, they’ve forgotten kids were born .

Acting out in schools because the system is BROKEN, yet their cries are being silenced with medication and labels.

All because they need US to step up and lead,

so that they can lead the next generation.

 

Regardless of how old you are,

regardless of where you live,

regardless of your family history,

regardless of where the fuck Mercury is,

you can choose differently RIGHT NOW.

 

You can choose to be your BEST self from this point forward.

You can choose to go to your kitchen and throw out every last crumb of chemically-laced poison.

You can choose to set your alarm for 5 am, or 4 am, or 3 am, whatever it takes,

and dedicate the first hour of your day to learning something new,

to setting up your mind,

to connect to the results you’re committed to achieve today,

to be quiet and listen to the voice of your soul.

You can choose to lace up your shoes and run faster than the demons inside your head.

You can choose to show up at work as a professional:  with pride and a commitment to excellence.

You can choose to connect with the heart within every person you come into contact with.

You can choose to have stimulating conversations with your loved ones.

You can choose it all.

 

Yes, it will be challenging – HTFU!

Yes, they will call you crazy – brilliance is always labeled insanity.

Yes, they will call you obsessed – they have forgotten what passion looks like.

Yes, they will abandon you – so fucking what?

 

What do you want more:

To fit in?

Or to stand out and be who you know you came here to be?

 

Enough fucking around.

There is no ‘tomorrow’.

 

It’s now or never.

 

Only death is inevitable.

Thriving truly is the choice of the brave.

 

Live with honour.

Anel.

 

PS:  HAVE YOU SEEN THAT APPLICATIONS ARE OPEN????  For those ready to take control of their lives and thrive!

That’s right Darling, right now courageous men and women are stepping the fuck up and applying for the next intake of the Coach Apprenticeship.

This is a six month INTENSE certification program for passionate coaches ready to start a revolution by BEING the change they seek in the world, fearlessly leading their cult following, building an empire of lasting impact, and becoming legendary.

THE APPRENTICESHIP IS ONLY FOR THOSE READY TO TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEMSELVES, COMMITTED TO THEIR OWN BEST VERSION SELF.

In all honesty, I don’t work with just anyone.

I work those who are serious about success.

The ones who are prepared to do whatever it takes.

I’m unfiltered, passionate and I don’t pull my punches.

If you’re a little fragile, if you prefer a soft touch, I’m probably not for you.

And I know that for you to TRULY become confident, showing up in your power, takes attention.

Which is why this program is limited to a very small number of hand-picked apprentices.

The application process is rigorous.

It will take courage.

You will feel out of your depth.

You will feel uncomfortable.

Which is the first hurdle.

I want you to show me that you WANT this with a burning desire that won’t back down when others falter.

I want you to show me that you’re going to DO whatever it takes to become that leader worthy of raving fans.

And once you’ve demonstrated this level of commitment,

You will enter the program KNOWING that my commitment to your success is absolute.

If this is speaking to your SOUL,

If you know this IS what you’ve been waiting for,

Message me for the details so we can get you started with your application Darling.

 

 

Will you ever burn those bullshit stories to the ground?

This one is for my global soul-family, my highland soul comrades-in-arms, you know who you are – thank you!

 

What if today I came face to face with my Creator?

What if she asked me why I played so small?

Why I held back?

Why I neglected to use the force which creates worlds, which has always been available to me?

Why I didn’t show up more radiantly – attracting those ready to rise?

Why I settled for mediocre anything in my life when limitless abundance has always been my birthright?

Why I didn’t give myself permission to love freely?

Why I didn’t stand on that stage, sharing my message with millions?

 

What would I say to her?

 

Well God,

as you know,

I grew up as that awkward kid who never felt like I belonged.

I walked like a duck resulting in endless teasing, crushing my self-confidence.

That definitely made me want to hide.

I was told that I’m obstinate,

never following the rules,

resulting in tons of trouble, scolding and punishment.

Remember how I grew up poor and then went bankrupt in my thirties?

How about the fact that my parents modelled a broken marriage,

and then I lived my own Nightmare on Elm Street?

That really slowed me down.

Then there’s all those who tried to break my body with their fists, crush my spirit with their words.

That wasn’t very nice.

There’s all those years when I was told I’m a cold fish.

All those people who didn’t like me.

All those who abandoned me when I started showing my true colours.

It hurt like a mofo.

So of course it makes sense that I would pull back.

 

Don’t even get me started on the fact that I’m simply NOT good with technology.

I must be the only person on the face of the earth who managed to wipe clean every piece of memory and programming on a computer.

I suck at the whole online marketing thing.

Every time I invest in their colour-by-numbers systems and then,

when it’s time to implement,

I GAG!

The unoriginality of it all filling me with the urge to shit my pants.

I don’t understand why I have this insatiable hunger to do it my way.

It must be a short-circuit in my hypothalamus. 

 

I’m not a nice person God.

When people want to sit and make small talk, or tell me about how hard life is every day,

my eyes roll backwards and I want to just RUN AWAY!

No wonder they don’t like me.

It must be true what he said:  I’m a cold, insensitive heartless bitch.

Plus, I have this tendency to say what I think and people don’t like that very much either.

 

I think you put me on the wrong planet.

I think you dropped me into the wrong time-space dimension.

 

Actually, yes,

it’s not my fault I lived like a pussy God.

You fucked this one up.

 

SERIOUSLY???

 

Would I say that?

Because looking back, it’s very close to the story I told myself for most of my life.

All the excuses I’ve used over the years (with another two truck-loads we don’t have time to unpack today),

as if this gives me a valid reason to NOT be all of who I am.

 

Now you can sit there and think to yourself “Yip, this chick has finally lost that fucking screw”

You can say thank goodness YOU’RE not so full of shit.

That YOUR stories are way more valid and real.

That YOU know that you’ve simply done your best and that should be good enough.

 

You could do that.

I did that too.

 

Until I decided to get real with myself.

 

The truth is, NONE of us have reached our full potential yet.

If we had, we would be dead.

I’m still breathing.

You’re still reading.

We’re not done yet.

 

I also happen to know that I’m quite the shy and timid little old woman

who really don’t like drawing attention to myself.

I suspect that’s one of the reasons I LOVE coaching –

I get to melt into the background,

holding the space for my clients to absolutely SHINE on stage.

 

I can do it because I have continuously (and continue to) created evidence in my own life of what is possible.

I have taken my greatest fears and used them as the instrument for my most epic adventures.

I have taken my most painful experiences and transmuted them into the burning flame of love inside of me.

I have taken my most humiliating moments and created a foundation for an unshakeable sense of humour.

I have taken my unexplainable rebellious nature and use it to fuel my creativity.

 

This has blessed me with the talent to see past my clients debilitating stories and fears,

right into the very core of them,

their unlimited potential.

I place them centre-stage of their lives,

and the moment the curtain rises,

they show the fuck up 

and I stand in the wings

tears pouring down my face,

in awe of them:

their beauty, their power, their radiance, their talent revealed.

 

My clients rock my world.

Without a doubt.

 

And why do they get on that stage, legs trembling yet trusting?

Because I have created inside of myself a bottomless well of courage Darling,

from which they can freely draw,

until their own overflows.

 

YES, this is the power of our lives.

This is what we were born to do.

Our stories of pain,

of failure,

of fear,

becomes the stuff of legends.

 

And right now, the world needs more legends.

The world needs YOU.

 

Yes YOU.

I don’t care what your story is right now of why you’re not worthy of absolute fucking MAGNIFICENCE.

It’s BULLSHIT.

A belief is just a story you’re telling yourself over and over again.

It’s just a story.

And you keep starting the next chapter regurgitating that which you’ve told us before.

 

IT’S FUCKING BORING!

 

How about you take this weekend and go write down your own stories.

The ones you know you’ve been telling yourself your entire life,

that got you to this point.

Then highlight the EPIC shit,

the ones that serve you greatly,

evidence of the fact that you’re a motherfucking magician Babes.

Tear out those pages,

and burn the rest.

Let that shit go!

 

Come Monday,

you get to write your next chapter.

Starting ONLY with your badassery.

 

Fucking exciting yes?

 

Looking back now, my life is a priceless collection of evidence of a strong and independent woman who turned fear-laced limitation into courageous thrive, providing all the material required to inspire and impact millions.

 

So God, I guess you got it right after all 😉

 

Yeah, I can hear her laughing her arse off in delight.

 

Only death is inevitable.

Thriving is always the choice of the brave.

 

You know I love you,

Anel.

PS:  HAVE YOU SEEN THAT APPLICATIONS ARE OPEN????  For those ready to take control of their lives and thrive!

That’s right Darling, right now courageous men and women are stepping the fuck up and applying for the next intake of the Coach Apprenticeship.

This is a six month INTENSE certification program for passionate coaches ready to start a revolution by BEING the change they seek in the world, fearlessly leading their cult following, building an empire of lasting impact, and becoming legendary.

THE APPRENTICESHIP IS ONLY FOR THOSE READY TO TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEMSELVES, COMMITTED TO THEIR OWN BEST VERSION SELF.

In all honesty, I don’t work with just anyone.

I work those who are serious about success.

The ones who are prepared to do whatever it takes.

I’m unfiltered, passionate and I don’t pull my punches.

If you’re a little fragile, if you prefer a soft touch, I’m probably not for you.

And I know that for you to TRULY become confident, showing up in your power, takes attention.

Which is why this program is limited to a very small number of hand-picked apprentices.

The application process is rigorous.

It will take courage.

You will feel out of your depth.

You will feel uncomfortable.

Which is the first hurdle.

I want you to show me that you WANT this with a burning desire that won’t back down when others falter.

I want you to show me that you’re going to DO whatever it takes to become that leader worthy of raving fans.

And once you’ve demonstrated this level of commitment,

You will enter the program KNOWING that my commitment to your success is absolute.

If this is speaking to your SOUL,

If you know this IS what you’ve been waiting for,

Message me for the details so we can get you started with your application Darling.

Are you being an energy vampire or a high vibe thriver?

Okay Okay

this is HUGE

so pay attention.

 

You know how I’m always going on about the importance of who you surround yourself with?

That you become the AVERAGE of those with whom you consistently interact?

And how you keep telling me that you can handle it?

 

Well,

here’s what I want you to think about next:

We live in a state of energy.

EVERYTHING is energy.

Your physical body is simply a conduit for that energy.

And just like Iron Man, you have this core inside of you that is either radiating energy,

or draining it from those around you.

 

I normally refer to the latter as energy vampires.

You know them well:

Shit, every time you ask them how they are, they say ‘Fiiiiiiiine’;

or they start telling you how hard life is, and how screwed up the politics, and how the economy is crashing, and how tired they are.

 

Blah blah blah.

 

Within five minutes of being in their presence your eyes start drooping down,

you start fidgeting,

you start feeling your will to thrive drain out of you.

 

Then there’s the other group.

The people who always seem to be smiling.

The ones that when you ask them how they are, excitedly exclaim “FUCKING FABULOUS!”

The ones animatedly talking about all the wonderful things that’s happening in their lives,

how in love they are with everything,

how many new ideas they have that could potentially transform lives!

 

From now on, I’m going to call them the high vibe THRIVERS.

 

Average people secretly detest thrivers.

That’s because they feel uncomfortable in the presence of radiant love,

finding themselves addicted to fear.

Fear and love cannot co-exist in the same space.

Vamps are infected with complainacitis.

If they don’t have anything to bitch about, they’re dumb for conversational ideas.

 

It’s crucial that you start paying attention to this.

To take off those rose coloured glasses through which you view your life-long friends and be real with yourself.

I know they were fun to play with when you were ten years old,

but are they lighting you up with challenging new visions of expansion and possibility,

or do you only laugh when you’re both drunk at the pub?

 

Are you surrounding yourself with solution-focussed, success-driven mastermind groups in business,

or are you all talking about how you can cut expenses and save pennies to survive another day?

 

Are you training with ripped, in the zone, badass beasts,

or are you hanging with the social fat-club who walk around the block and then go eat a sugar-laden muffin?

 

After all, you’re constantly telling me that YOU hunger for success.

 

I’m not stopping here today.

I mean, either you’re going to choose to walk away from those energy sucking vampires,

or you’re going to continue being a martyr.

Thinking you’ll receive a noddy badge in heaven for sacrificing your joy,

for the lazy assholes who didn’t want to take responsibility for themselves and do the inner work that leads to liberation,

as our society celebrates victimhood as if it’s an actual thing.

 

THERE ARE NO VICTIMS!

 

Today I’m being that bitch who brings it back home for you:

To YOU.

 

I don’t really care about anyone else.

 

You see Darling,

looking back on my life,

there was a period when I was so miserable,

I was sucking energy from cockroaches.

I had NO JOY in my life.

I had nothing to give.

 

Oh I showed up in the world with a smile carefully painted on my mouth.

Except, on the inside,

I felt dead.

Ice cold.

I had lost all hope.

I had lost my purpose.

I had lost my thrive.

 

Even though I was an empty husk,

I would still be available to all my friends who would pour their problems on me.

Cause everyone knew Anel is such a good listener.

Which means not only did I have no positive energy for myself,

I absorbed their negative energy as well.

 

Because ‘I loved them’.

 

I simply didn’t recognise myself as an energy vampire,

and there’s no code of honour on this level,

everyone is potential food,

even your own.

 

It’s quite disgusting.

 

Can you relate in any way, Love?

Do you pretend at work all day with your false smiles and your forced laughs,

only to go home at night and be a miserable, exhausted, snappy bitch?

 

I believe it’s what happens behind closed doors that shows our true state.

 

Or do you come home,

play with your kids,

take the dog for a walk holding your lover’s hand,

and then make sweet love to her on the kitchen counter once the kids have gone to bed?

 

It’s a choice you know.

Which starts with self-honesty.

Once you’re truthful about your current state,

you can choose to thrive.

You can choose to rewrite the stories in your head that makes you feel imprisoned by life circumstances.

You can choose to reconnect with a higher power-source and recharge yourself daily.

 

And from this space,

you can release all chords that have attached to you,

let others connect to their own higher source.

 

You can choose to radiate all of YOU all day long,

and from this space create iconic results in your LIFE!

Not just your business.

Not just your finances.

Not just your health.

Not just your relationships.

 

I truly believe we were born to HAVE IT ALL!!!

And why wouldn’t we?

What is this bullshit that our reward is waiting in heaven?

Do you know who says that???

People who are choosing to make life hell!

 

HEAVEN OR HELL IS HAPPENING RIGHT NOW DEPENDING ON YOUR ATTITUDE.

 

Now I’m also going to say that people WILL leave when you take complete responsibility for yourself.

 

Last year I had the experience of going through massive personal transformation,

leaving a 19 year marriage,

in a foreign country,

and although it was the most loving action I’ve ever taken,

it was challenging.

 

I had my doubts and lows just like any person would.

Knowing my energy was lower than my normal state,

and that I needed to focus on me,

I lovingly withdrew from all and sundry.

Working closely with my coach to heal and become stronger in the process.

As I came through on the other side,

what I found was a deserted island.

It would appear that as I was unavailable to take on more than I wanted to handle,

I was a bad friend.

 

When we choose radical self-love,

which in my opinion is the ONLY basis for love,

others show their true intentions for the relationship.

 

As mentioned before,

fear and love cannot co-exist.

 

Which means,

the more you choose love,

the more the vampires will leave your space.

 

This is such a gift.

Let them go in love.

 

What will you choose today?

Will you choose to continue living in denial and ignorance?

Will you choose to continue to struggle and suck energy from others?

Will you choose to pull yourself up by your jock-strap,

walk away from the drainers, whiners and complainers,

and become a thriver,

radiating ALL OF YOU with pride?

 

Only death is inevitable.

Thriving is the choice for those who live in honour.

 

You know I love you,

Anel.

PS:  HAVE YOU SEEN THAT APPLICATIONS ARE OPEN????  For those ready to take control of their lives and thrive!

That’s right Darling, right now courageous men and women are stepping the fuck up and applying for the next intake of the Coach Apprenticeship.

This is a six month INTENSE certification program for passionate coaches ready to start a revolution by BEING the change they seek in the world, fearlessly leading their cult following, building an empire of lasting impact, and becoming legendary.

THE APPRENTICESHIP IS ONLY FOR THOSE READY TO TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEMSELVES, COMMITTED TO THEIR OWN BEST VERSION SELF.

In all honesty, I don’t work with just anyone.

I work those who are serious about success.

The ones who are prepared to do whatever it takes.

I’m unfiltered, passionate and I don’t pull my punches.

If you’re a little fragile, if you prefer a soft touch, I’m probably not for you.

And I know that for you to TRULY become confident, showing up in your power, takes attention.

Which is why this program is limited to a very small number of hand-picked apprentices.

The application process is rigorous.

It will take courage.

You will feel out of your depth.

You will feel uncomfortable.

Which is the first hurdle.

I want you to show me that you WANT this with a burning desire that won’t back down when others falter.

I want you to show me that you’re going to DO whatever it takes to become that leader worthy of raving fans.

And once you’ve demonstrated this level of commitment,

You will enter the program KNOWING that my commitment to your success is absolute.

If this is speaking to your SOUL,

If you know this IS what you’ve been waiting for,

Message me for the details so we can get you started with your application Darling.

I can give you the keys, but you have to get in and drive!

Argh, FFS,

I wanted to write you a nice piece today seeing as how it’s the first of May.

Soul played along for a while,

and then she rolled her eyes and deleted it all.

 

BEATCH!

 

So sorry, not sorry,

let’s get down to work.

 

We’re almost halfway through another year.

Are you on track?

With your big audacious goal for 2019?

Are you on fire?

Waking at 3 am,

excited with anticipation of what today will bring?

Are you committed to victory?

Focused?

Taking aligned action every single day?

Are you claiming the first hours of the day for yourself?

 

No?

 

What the fuck Sunshine!

 

Look, I know that you’re an ambitious, driven, badass motherfucker with a deep desire for more.

You wouldn’t be following me otherwise.

 

Yet if you’re NOT showing up as an obsessed lunatic,

you’re not playing full out!

 

I want you to stop pretending to be normal.

It’s boring and tedious.

Stop pretending to be satisfied with what you’ve got.

It’s nauseating.

 

There’s NO MORE EXCUSES as to WHY you can’t be phenomenally THRIVING.

You have EVERYTHING available to you at this time to make your dreams come true.

 

But you have to pull your finger out your arse and get to work.

 

Connect to the vision

– the one that has you salivating.

Sweat dripping down your sides, temperature rising with exhilaration.

 

Dive into your why.

Successful people know their why.

Not the superficial one that you say automatically.

The deep one.

The one that has you in tears.

 

Create THAT version of you.

The you already ruling the EMPIRE.

The you who is focused, disciplined, creative.

The BEST version of you walking tall,

a little swagger for sexylisioucsness,

turning heads,

claiming yourself as Alpha in any room.

 

 

Align.

Align.

Align.

 

Why do some people go to the gym day after day, remaining flab?

Because they’re NOT aligned.

Somewhere in their life, they’re sabotaging all that hard work.

Whether it’s with their eating,

their words,

their emotions,

their relationships,

their bad sleeping patterns,

their shitty entertainment habits,

it’s there.

They’re simply not willing to be honest enough with themselves to see it.

Not obsessed enough to sacrifice the bullshit.

 

Same in business.

Same in relationships.

 

Thrive takes a holistic approach Darling.

You’re either showing up as your best, or you’re not.

 

Protect your ENERGY

– your greatest asset!

Understanding that others are ALWAYS planting their weeds in your garden

and it’s YOUR responsibility to go pull that shit out by the roots.

You have to feed your mind with gold,

so that your thoughts turn from problems to solutions.

You have to feed your inner beast with self-belief that has you showing up with confidence, pride and conviction.

Eliminate distractions.

Be ruthless.

They are nothing but poison to your dreams.

End the toxic relationships.

You’ve been bled dry by those energy vampires,

and for what?

For love????

Fuck that shit.

That’s not love.

Love is YOU being YOUR best self,

and your lover rising to meet you with THEIR best selves.

Anything less than that,

is simply codependency.

 

Take ACTION!

The uncomfortable actions,

that actually move the needle.

Increase your intensity.

Your passion.

Turn up your energy.

It’s never the action,

but the energy driving the action,

that gets the results.

 

REPEAT.

Every day.

 

That’s IT!

You’re always asking the HOW – I’ve just given it to you.

 

That’s right Darling.

You’ve just been given the keys to your dream car.

Now what are you going to do with it?

 

Are you going to stand there,

gulping

thinking how the fuck you can get yourself out of this one?

Whilst saving face?

Because you don’t want to admit that you’re actually just all hot air and no substance.

That you’re terrified of finally being successful.

 

So you stammer:

“I want to first see what’s under the hood.

I first need to go for advanced driving lessons.

It’s raining, so I’ll drive tomorrow when the sun is out.”

 

Or are you going to be one of the very few who adjust your testicles,

take the keys,

wink and tell me to get into the passenger seat for the ride of my life?

 

Are you?

Will you believe in yourself?

Will you show me what you’re really made of?

 

Death is inevitable.

Thriving is a choice available for you today,

 

You know I love you,

Anel.

PS:  HAVE YOU SEEN THAT APPLICATIONS ARE OPEN????  For those ready to take control of their lives and make it matter!

That’s right Darling, right now courageous men and women are stepping the fuck up and applying for the next intake of the Coach Apprenticeship.

This is a six month INTENSE certification program for passionate coaches ready to start a revolution by BEING the change they seek in the world, fearlessly leading their cult following, building an empire of lasting impact, and becoming legendary.

THE APPRENTICESHIP IS ONLY FOR THOSE READY TO TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEMSELVES, COMMITTED TO THEIR OWN BEST VERSION SELF.

In all honesty, I don’t work with just anyone.

I work those who are serious about success.

The ones who are prepared to do whatever it takes.

I’m unfiltered, passionate and I don’t pull my punches.

If you’re a little fragile, if you prefer a soft touch, I’m probably not for you.

And I know that for you to TRULY become confident, showing up in your power, takes attention.

Which is why this program is limited to a very small number of hand-picked apprentices.

The application process is rigorous.

It will take courage.

You will feel out of your depth.

You will feel uncomfortable.

Which is the first hurdle.

I want you to show me that you WANT this with a burning desire that won’t back down when others falter.

I want you to show me that you’re going to DO whatever it takes to become that leader worthy of raving fans.

And once you’ve demonstrated this level of commitment,

You will enter the program KNOWING that my commitment to your success is absolute.

If this is speaking to your SOUL,

If you know this IS what you’ve been waiting for,

Message me for the details so we can get you started with your application Darling.

Why are you allowing their fear to steal your dreams?

Want to know what truly grates my tits?

 

FEAR-MONGERING!

 

It’s fucking pathetic how many dreams are buried alive every single day,

because change-makers are cowering before the fear of their near and dear.

Wrapped in cotton-wool,

preventing them from ever having an ouchie.

 

Because,

you know,

from a space of good intention,

they want to save you from going through their pain.

 

What a load of bollocks.

 

Warriors, artists, leaders, creatives, are not made in the lap of safety,

suckling on their mothers breasts

until the day they die.

 

Personally I find it insulting how everyone wants to protect you.

And you,

believing their bullshit advise of how YOU’re not strong enough,

how YOU don’t know what’s best for you,

how YOU shouldn’t take on so much,

when clearly your current half-arsed results

are FUCKING KILLING YOU!

 

How in the name of cowbells will you EVER find out what you’re truly made of

if you NEVER find the courage

to burn the motherfucking boats,

jump into the ocean,

slam into the sharks,

daring to conquer EVERYTHING in the name of your vision?

 

HOW???????

 

And so what if you fail?

Who gives a rats ass if you die?

You’re going to die anyway!

 

Wouldn’t you rather get to that final day,

absolutely on fire with passion and conviction and pride

for giving it your all,

rather than slipping away mercifully ending the pain of mediocre existence?

 

I guess not.

 

What I see is that every time you glimmer that next HUGE vision,

and you feel the excitement bubbling up in your veins,

you take that magic to your trusted advisors,

who piss their pants,

eyes popping out of their heads,

terrified by the mere POSSIBILITY of your success.

 

Within five minutes of listening to their reasoning you hang your head,

in defeated obedience,

tail between your legs,

believing that you don’t have what it takes,

that this is not your time,

that it’s a nice dream,

maybe another day,

another life.

 

You go have another glass of wine pretending to toast your life.

When in fact you’re numbing the pain

as the lion chooses to live like a sheep.

 

TITS GRATED.

 

Millions of born achievers are living in the chains of domesticity

because they have forgotten who the fuck they are.

 

They sit browsing the internet,

day in and day out,

desperately seeking motivation.

 

They get on a consultation call,

and when it’s decision time,

they wait for the coach to CONVINCE them that THIS is the right thing to do.

 

I will not sell your arse into working with me Darling.

I don’t work with children who need to be told what to do.

I work with decision makers.

Those who know what they want,

and they make it happen.

No excuses.

 

I witness as the DREAMERS consult their partners and therapists,

constantly seeking approval,

seeking permission,

AS IF they will EVER say

“Go for it with everything you’ve got.

Risk it all.

Break down.

Never give up.

Regardless of the sacrifice.

Even if it means sacrificing our relationship.”

They’re NEVER going to say it!

 

So achievers become pleasers.

 

TITS GRATED.

 

Listen my friend,

at the end of the day this is YOUR life.

Every dream given to you is YOUR dream.

Your responsibility to say YES to.

To do the work.

To bring it to life.

 

HOW DARE YOU PUT IT ON SOMEONE ELSE?

It was never their dream.

They have their own.

And if they couldn’t muster up courage to say YES to their own EMPIRE,

how do you expect them to have the balls to say yes to yours????

 

In the same breath,

stop thinking that those who ARE saying YES to their dreams,

need to convince you to say yes to yours!

 

What I’ve found in more than a decade of coaching entrepreneurs,

is that those who have to be ‘sold’ on the concept of coaching,

will receive average results at best.

Because they’re constantly seeking approval and conviction that they have what it takes and want to be told what to do.

 

A-players are A-players because they have an unshakeable belief in themselves.

Yes, they break down at times.

Yes, they go to hell and back riding a wild stallion.

Yes, they have moments of self-doubt when they can do with a good kick up the proverbial arse.

 

But they make decisions,

they see them through,

and they make shit happen.

 

They always find 20 seconds of insane courage to say YES to Soul.

 

Were they born this way?

YES.

So were YOU!!!

 

The difference is that A-players simply let the fear of others slide off them like water off a duck’s back.

The rest let it soak through to the bone.

 

A-players ‘selfishly’ get into the zone and work their dreams.

The rest stay available for everyone else whilst dreams rot in the cupboard.

 

A-players know their worth and they bring all of them to the table.

The rest seek worth in the arms of another, cutting themselves in half so that someone else will complete them.

 

A-players take the moments of defeat as fuel for their conviction and increase their efforts.

The rest take moments of failure as defeat and give up.

 

A-players rise to the challenge.

The rest get triggered AF and retaliate whilst justifying their decision to stay exactly where they are.

 

What I know for SURE,

is that you were born with the potential to be an A-player.

 

But are you showing up as one?

Or are you settling for being part of the ‘fun’-team.

Maybe you’re just the reserve.

Maybe you’re in the stands, spectating, so you can get some thrill in witnessing others playing the game of life.

 

Doesn’t matter.

It simply is what was.

I’m only interested in what will be next.

 

Are you ready to rumble?

 

Only death is inevitable.

Thriving is the choice of those brave enough to have skin in the game.

 

I love you,

Anel.

PS:  HAVE YOU SEEN THAT APPLICATIONS ARE OPEN????  For those ready to take control of their lives and make it matter!

That’s right Darling, right now courageous men and women are stepping the fuck up and applying for the next intake of the Coach Apprenticeship.

This is a six month INTENSE certification program for passionate coaches ready to start a revolution by BEING the change they seek in the world, fearlessly leading their cult following, building an empire of lasting impact, and becoming legendary.

THE APPRENTICESHIP IS ONLY FOR THOSE READY TO TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEMSELVES, COMMITTED TO THEIR OWN BEST VERSION SELF.

In all honesty, I don’t work with just anyone.

I work those who are serious about success.

The ones who are prepared to do whatever it takes.

I’m unfiltered, passionate and I don’t pull my punches.

If you’re a little fragile, if you prefer a soft touch, I’m probably not for you.

And I know that for you to TRULY become confident, showing up in your power, takes attention.

Which is why this program is limited to a very small number of hand-picked apprentices.

The application process is rigorous.

It will take courage.

You will feel out of your depth.

You will feel uncomfortable.

Which is the first hurdle.

I want you to show me that you WANT this with a burning desire that won’t back down when others falter.

I want you to show me that you’re going to DO whatever it takes to become that leader worthy of raving fans.

And once you’ve demonstrated this level of commitment,

You will enter the program KNOWING that my commitment to your success is absolute.

If this is speaking to your SOUL,

If you know this IS what you’ve been waiting for,

Message me for the details so we can get you started with your application Darling.

It’s you against your personal brand of bullshit.

If you’re in a prissy mood, scroll away from this piece right now.

Don’t read this.

 

I have no patience for tantrums today.

 

Today is for those COMMITTED to success.

Those who have had ENOUGH of their own excuses.

Their own feelings of defeat, exhaustion, whimpery.

 

Those ready to rise to VICTORY.

 

First things first:

none of what I ever share is going to make an ounce of difference unless you’re willing to get real with yourself.

Unless you’re willing to drop the shame coated complacency that society is so freely giving you to NOT show the fuck up as your best version self.

Instead, they’re continuously creating more platforms and groups for you to sit and complain and bitch and moan,

AS IF it’s going to make you POWERFUL when you show up as a PUSSY.

STOP THAT SHIT!

 

Sit your ass down with YOURSELF and get real with where you’re at.

Right now.

Today.

In this moment.

 

Get real about your physical, emotional, financial, connective, spiritual, creative states.

Are you in the BEST shape in all of these?

Chances are there’s room for improvement.

You know it.

You wouldn’t be reading this otherwise.

 

What should be pissing you off is that you and I both KNOW you were born to be LEGENDARY.

Yet you’re choosing to show up as a shadow of your potential.

You’re choosing to be forgettable,

replaceable.

 

Saying you don’t know how to do the work you came here to do.

Saying that you just don’t have the resources.

Saying that you’re just not good enough.

 

This is nothing more than regurgitated vomit of mediocrity!

 

What will it take for you to ADMIT that YOU were born with your personalised BLUEPRINT FOR MAGNIFICENCE????

 

Pay attention.

To YOURSELF.

To what makes YOU unique.

What makes YOU YOU.

 

Except, you don’t want to put aside the time to finally get real.

You say you’re too busy.

That you have too many responsibilities to too many other people.

That for you to be a good man you have to bring home the bacon.

That for you to be a good woman you have to stand behind everyone else, their pillar of support, breaking your own back in the process, creating more weak motherfuckers for the next generation to fix.

 

It’s your insatiable desire to sit online all day long,

looking at what everyone else is doing,

how they are doing it,

and then comparing yourself to them,

when YOU’RE NOT THEM,

that has you showing up as another vanilla wafer.

 

AS IF YOU WERE BORN TO BE THIS BORING BITCH!

 

Just because you’re NOT giving yourself permission to STAND OUT.

To do it YOUR WAY and then telling those haters,

secretly terrified by the unspoken challenge you have thrown the fuck DOWN,

to step up or step out!

 

How dare you?

How dare you not own your true desires?

To BE, DO and HAVE only the BEST,

never settling,

never tolerating less than excellence,

from yourself or those you choose to surround yourself with.

 

How do you even face yourself in the mirror at night?

How do you look at your loved ones with a morsel of pride,

when you and I both know that you’re in fact asking them to love your shrivelled up husk of a dying soul?

 

How can you go through the day,

hum-drumming it?

When you and I both know that there’s a madness inside of you that says this is all BULLSHIT!

The way you’re doing it.

The way you’re saying it.

The way you’re copying what everyone else is doing.

 

Because you’re too fucking scared to take a chance on YOU!

 

You don’t have the balls to actually believe in yourself.

To risk it all to do it in a way that lights your soul on FIRE!

 

As if the fire will burn you out.

As if breaking down will break you.

 

Instead you choose to play it safe.

You choose to show up all ‘professional’,

carrot stuck up your arse to hold up your spineless trunk,

not an ounce of passion in veins running cold with red tape and politics,

using  jargon in an attempt to have bullshit baffle brains.

You choose to only say the right things in the right way so as not to upset their fragile little egos.

You choose to learn MORE ways to do it the same as the other billion unoriginal cupcakes.

 

You have the audacity to give your power away

by externalising EVERYTHING.

Asking others to motivate your arse.

Asking others to explain to you why discipline is important.

Asking others what their goals are.

Asking others to be patient with you, to be a little more understanding of your unique circumstances.

Because you’re trying

 

FUCK TRYING AND THE FROG PRINCE THAT YOU THINK IS GOING TO SAVE YOU!

 

Here’s what I want you to admit to yourself:

 

NOTHING is going to change in your life until the moment you fucking DECIDE.

 

DECIDE that you will exterminate your excuses.

DECIDE that you will commit to excellence.

DECIDE that you will never again tolerate.

DECIDE that you will do whatever the fuck it takes.

DECIDE to make the sacrifices.

DECIDE to play 125% in a world that settles for 10%.

DECIDE that you will be focused.

DECIDE that you will have honour in all you do.

DECIDE that you will be disciplined AF.

DECIDE that you will BE the BEST version of YOU every single day,

regardless of the circumstances,

regardless of how terrified you are at time,

regardless of how many assholes leaves your space – let them run!

 

ANYTHING that comes up for you right now as a

‘yes but’ or

‘bitch please’ or

‘how rude’ or

‘how insensitive’ or

‘how absurd’

is nothing more that your personal brand of BULLSHIT.

 

Because you recognise the truth in what I say today.

 

You KNOW from the increased energy in your body RIGHT NOW.

Whether you choose to label it as anger or indignation or fear.

I don’t much care.

 

If you have to get pissed at me for you to feel ALIVE for 5 minutes,

anger away Sunshine.

 

So what now?

What are you going to do with it?

Are you going to send me a message to say thank you and then carry on as you have been?

Are you going to delete this piece and then carry on as you have been?

Are you going to write a rude comment below in an attempt to make me look like a fool and then carry on as you have been?

 

At the end of the day, it’s all up to YOU Darling.

 

I know for sure that there’s no coincidences in life.

You’ve been secretly asking for something.

Maybe you’ve created some uncomfortable situation which has caused you to crave the opposite.

Maybe you’ve created a pathway to your desire and you want more, faster.

And your soul came to my soul,

slapped me in the face at 3 am,

and got me to write this for you.

 

Now what?

 

Only death is inevitable.

Thriving is for those brave enough to own their personal brand of bullshit and then choose differently.

 

I love you,

Anel.

 

PS:  HAVE YOU SEEN THAT APPLICATIONS ARE OPEN????  For those ready to take control of their lives and make it matter!

That’s right Darling, right now courageous men and women are stepping the fuck up and applying for the next intake of the Coach Apprenticeship.

This is a six month INTENSE certification program for passionate coaches ready to start a revolution by BEING the change they seek in the world, fearlessly leading their cult following, building an empire of lasting impact, and becoming legendary.

THE APPRENTICESHIP IS ONLY FOR THOSE READY TO TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEMSELVES, COMMITTED TO THEIR OWN BEST VERSION SELF.

In all honesty, I don’t work with just anyone.

I work those who are serious about success.

The ones who are prepared to do whatever it takes.

I’m unfiltered, passionate and I don’t pull my punches.

If you’re a little fragile, if you prefer a soft touch, I’m probably not for you.

And I know that for you to TRULY become confident, showing up in your power, takes attention.

Which is why this program is limited to a very small number of hand-picked apprentices.

The application process is rigorous.

It will take courage.

You will feel out of your depth.

You will feel uncomfortable.

Which is the first hurdle.

I want you to show me that you WANT this with a burning desire that won’t back down when others falter.

I want you to show me that you’re going to DO whatever it takes to become that leader worthy of raving fans.

And once you’ve demonstrated this level of commitment,

You will enter the program KNOWING that my commitment to your success is absolute.

If this is speaking to your SOUL,

If you know this IS what you’ve been waiting for,

Message me for the details so we can get you started with your application Darling.