This is my personal truth.
When did it all start? Bet you can’t even remember. Like the story of the frog in the water society has slowly let go of it’s levels of excellence and started settling for ‘good enough’.
Once again I do believe that it is the distortion of truth by a dare I say mediocre (puke) society that has started telling us that where we find ourselves today is perfect and exactly where we are supposed to be, and as long as we have done ‘our best’ that is all that can be asked of us. So people try a little and when they fail they say that it all happened for a reason and it is still perfect for where they are today because they gave their best.
Where we find ourselves today is the perfect place from which to start working our asses off to achieve the goals we desire to achieve. There is no ceiling on our abilities – there is no ‘our best’. We might work hard for our circumstances today (if you wake up sick you would be stupid to go run a marathon, although some of us have done that as well and lived to tell the tale) but we use today to keep on improving – to keep doing better.
Worst of all, every time we settle for ‘good enough’ our mates rally around us and pat us on the head telling us ‘what a good girl, you gave it your best, it’s all we could ask of you’. And our little egos feel stroked and cuddled and we like our friends for keeping us fucking average. Fitting in with the average masses. One big happy family.
Or are you?
What I know is that the reason you get excited about a really big goal is because your soul sits up and says ‘Holy Shit YES that will be magnificent because we can finally taste our greatness!!’ and you have energy galore, enthusiasm and you feel amazing. Then the hard work kicks in which you’re not used to because up until now you have always done ‘enough’ for it to be ‘good enough’ so you get tired. Throw in on top of this all those caring friends who want you to feel good and you start losing your spirit, your grit, you start sinking back down into the pit of average and your soul fucking howls her sorrow like a lone wolf on the mountain top.
Happy my ass.
Have you ever considered the price you are paying by not holding yourself to a standard of excellence? You have okay health, okay relationships, okay business, okay money, okay body, okay results. And you feel okay. Compare this to having excellent health, excellent relationships, excellent business, excellent money, excellent body, excellent results. Tell me you won’t feel fucking amazing!
It’s time to break the cycle of settling for just ‘good enough’. Have a look at your life today and ask yourself, where am I really holding myself up to the highest standards compared to the best of the best in the world? Where am I falling short? What do I need to change? And do just one thing. Just one thing today to give you a taste of excellence. Even if that is a superb cup of coffee if you normally settle for instant.
Life is too short to settle for ‘good enough’ darling. Because every day you do, your soul is weeping at the loss of your magnificence.
Walk with honor.
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Death is inevitable – not living is a choice.