Are you done fighting the wrong war?

This message is for the Alpha Female
who’s had enough of the continuous fight and struggle
of having to prove yourself
of having to earn your rest
of having to find someone somewhere telling you that you are worthy and deserving of all your desires.

the reason you’re feeling so fucking tired,
the reason you’re feeling unsatisfied regardless of the amount of goals you crush and accolades you’ve received,
the reason why you’re not waking each morning with a
“Hell YEAH!”
lifegasmic energy of anticipation and delight,
is because you’re fighting the wrong war
with the wrong opponent.

You’ve bought into all the fairy-dust sprinkled lies you’ve been raised with
of how you should work harder
do more
sacrifice yourself and your personal well-being
join the club of suffering
have endless to-do lists so you can feel like a miserable failure every night
swallow your truth so as not to upset anyone else
contort yourself so as to please others
and in the process
you have made yourself
Enemy Number One!!

THIS is a war you cannot win
for YOU are the GREATEST FORCE in the Universe
and the natural state of who you are is

Can you therefor see that the reason you go to bed at night exhausted and dissatisfied
is because for the most part
you’re fighting your natural state?

Desperately struggling to keep yourself under
so that you will fit in with those who choose average.

You’re literally choosing
believing that you are bad!

By telling yourself you’re not good enough just as you are.
That your true desires are frivolous or stupid or crazy.
That in order for you to have more, you have to do more.
That in order for you to be of value, you have to serve others.
That in order for you to be good, you have to act like a saint which, just between you and me, is the furtherest from your true wild free and pleausure-seeking nature as you can possibly get.
That in order for you to deserve happiness you have to ensure everyone else is happy.

I’m not saying you have to take my word,
I’m inviting you to start paying attention to how you’re feeling.

I’m inviting you to start asking yourself
if your thoughts are feeling fabulous or fucking aweful?
If your beliefs are feeling empowering and enhancing or degrading and disempowering?
If your actions give you results in a way that you actually enjoy not only the outcome but the journey as well thereby making it something you want to do again and again,
or if it’s starting to feel as though the price you’re having to pay is simply not worth it?
Right now, does it feel like you’re thriving or suffering?

I’m also going to invite you to not do that thing we’ve been taught to do
where we go into shaming ourselves for
how could I have been so blind
how could I have been so stupid
how could I not see it for so long

as this will simply keep you in the same war
fighting the same person:

Stop that shit.

can you imagine
the motherfucking GLOBAL transformation
we can bring to humanity at this time
if only 10 % of Alpha Females
stop holding themselves down
allowing the immensity of their power
to shoot up in a storm of well-being
thereby creating a THRIVE EVOLUTION???

Can you imagine
the impact we will make
if we turn our focus on obliterating shame and blame
expelling gossip
and taking a stand for excellence
in our lives
for ourselves
thereby impacting the lives of every person we will ever come into contact with
and every generation that follows?

Can you imagine
how incredible it will feel
to wake up in the morning
with delicious anticipation
of all the good things lined up for the day
as each of your planned activities increase your joyous expression of your deep appreciation of who you are and what you get to experience in this time-space reality?

Can you just imagine???

I’m inviting you to the possibility that the ONLY thing that’s missing in your experience
that will unlock your THRIVE

It’s about YOU becoming YOUR number one ALLY.

Time to change the tide of war.

My name is Anel, and I am the instigator of a thrive-evolution for Alpha Females.

Are you with me?

For death is inevitable,
but by the gods,
I will choose to thrive every step of the way to my grave.

Live with honour,


Anel is the Instigator of a Thrive Evolution for Alpha Females.

Her work is aimed at empowering women to trust themselves and their intuition, reclaiming their authentic voices, and creating a life they’re madly in love with.

Through enhanced self-love, self-worth and self-confidence they know the satisfaction and pride of a woman who lives unapologetically aligned with her purpose.

Those ready to step up and receive support on their journey are invited to connect through a potential partnership consultation.

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