Ready to own your brilliance?
Ready to come out from the light of the herd and walk into the dark where you belong?
I can only imagine how exhausted you must be from the effort it takes to keep so miniscule. Squatting in the shadows of ego-driven assholes who never let you shine too bright, cramping your true style because they told you to stop thinking that you’re special.
And I get it!
I know that you came into this world all high vibe and bright and so excited to tell everyone that you could see a new way of living. A new way of being. That you had a special gift that you’re happy to share with everyone.
I know that it hurt like a mofo when those whom you trusted said you were full of yourself and that magic is only for fairy tales.
So you shut up. You shut down. And you tried to fit in as best you could.
Numbing the pain of self-abandonment with addiction.
Today, I’m taking a stand for those declaring ENOUGH AND NO MORE!
What does liberation look like?
It looks like you doing what you truly desire to do, when you feel the call of soul to do it, with your soulmate clients, friends, lovers.
Now I don’t know about you, but for me THIS is the true definition of success.
It’s when you stop screwing around with the rules of simpletons and you actually do what you came here to do.
You stop doing business or having sex or raising kids and you start living in flow understanding that you’re ONE being and your life is an effortless blend of moments, one dimension beautifully enhancing the next in a magnificent kaleidoscope of brilliance.
Remembering that you are the creator of your own reality.
Through your emotions. Through your thoughts. Through your words.
That means throwing out the rule book of the oppressors.
Fuck their steps and systems.
This takes courage my friend – because you will be FULLY responsible for your outcomes.
You said you wanted to be empowered.
Well, let the exhilaration of freedom rush through your veins!
Admitting what you truly want! All of it. No settling. Being completely un-fucking-reasonable.
Some of the most liberating words I was ever told is that a woman should NEVER have to choose.
A woman should have ALL that she desires.
Firmly planting that sexy foot of yours and declaring to the Universe what you’re no longer available for and INSISTING on what you will accept as your new normal.
YOUR STANDARDS OF EXCELLENCE!
To the point where anything else is like WTF?
I know that you’re a magical beast. Witch of the old ways. Wise One of lifetimes past.
I know that inside of you there’s a crone who has a shit ton to teach the lost ones of modern day society.
I know that inside of you is a voice, a story, a message which demands to be heard.
A healer, a bard, an artist waiting to be unleashed.
A goddess, an angel, a warrior with a mission.
And not doing so is selfish!
It’s inconsiderate and it’s not the deal you made for this lifetime.
I’m ready to show you the way.
I’m ready to hold you to your truth, to reconnect you with your desire, to ignite your voice.
Are YOU ready?
Every woman needs a point in the right direction and a whip cracker championing their work. Let me introduce you to Anel Bester my direction pointer, whip cracker and greatest cheer leader aka my success coach. She possesses the deft skill of being able to kick my butt when needed, yet somehow makes it feel like a pat on the back.
One of my biggest take aways from working with Anel is that my Networth is a direct reflection of my Selfworth.
Working with her is life and destiny changing. I highly recommend working with Anél if you know you are worth more…
/ entrepreneur and coach
I have worked with Anel Bester for over a year now. At times I have found it so challenging that I wanted to quit, and I’m so glad I didn’t.
Anel pushed, encouraged and empowered me to step up and step outside of my comfort zone. I’m not the same person today from a year ago, or even just a month ago. I constantly grow personally and professionally through coaching with her.
When I first started working with Anel, I set a business goal, of how much I wanted to increase my turnover within the first 3 months. I blew that out of the water. Within the first six month of working with Anel, I had tripled my turnover.
Anel has helped me set up efficient systems and structures within my business, and continues to help me take my business to the next level.
/ business owner
I knew that on some level I was not reaching the Highs I felt I could achieve, and not all areas of my life qualified as ‘Joyful’. I knew that there was something I had to work through, that I would not fully breakthrough without the assistance of someone incredibly dedicated, compassionate and focused in what she was doing. That person was Anel.
I have received far more than anticipated, had major breakthroughs, tweaked my business, my relationships have improved. I would highly recommend her work to anyone or everyone looking to make some major changes in their lives. Your life will never be the same again.
/ healer - coach
I’m a recovering junkie too.
My first designer drug was abuse.
I attracted it in all forms.
You name it, I snorted it.
Then came my dysfunctional relationship with food.
My young adulthood was spent in perpetual starvation as I was told for me to be attractive my ribs had to portrude and any sign of a curve made me revolting.
Next came overeating. I stuffed so much emotion dipped in chocolate down my throat I looked like a beached whale.
All of this making me easy prey to my shadow selves, leading to my surrender into depression. As it continued to suck the life out of me, I found myself one morning looking at a bottle of pills in one hand and the huge eyes of my babies on the other.
Ready to end the hell of my ‘normal’ life.
But I’m a fighter! My warrior self was not prepared to give up on me.
Instead I rose up and started bleeding.
Leading to an addiction to physical pain in a desperate attempt to numb out the emotional pain I was too chicken shit to deal with.
Ripping my body apart and relishing in the excruciating poker-hot tearing of muscle.
I got the medals.
I received the applause.
I crashed and burned.
Because none of this was soul-aligned.
Not a single thing.
My soul never came to this planet called Earth to be ‘normal’.
I don’t function within the realm of human rules.
And the longer I resisted my supernatural power, the more misery, abuse, addiction and bankruptcy persisted.
My liberation came from finally understanding that only I had the key to unlock my cell door and spread my wings.
From understanding that all of the answers were inside of me.
They always were.
But for me to access them I had to reconnect with my desires, with my emotions, with my body.
I had to take hold of my mind and start BEing the woman I came here to be instead of DOing the woman I thought I had to be to fit in.
To belong to the tribe.
Wanna know something Darling?
There is no tribe!
Just a bunch of individuals doing the best they can with what they have and from where they’re at.
Every one of them so busy sorting through their own illusion of life that they don’t have time to pay attention to you.
So how about you stop distracting yourself with what everyone else has going on and you start focusing on the only person who matters –
Your empire completely aligned and in service to your true mission.
Yes I’m saying empire not business or profession Love.
That’s because your entire LIFE becomes a vehicle of inspiration and transformation for those who look at you with wonder and admiration.
A life of flow because for you to be the badass running that empire, you have to rock your body and rule world like a boss and each element compliments and enhances the rest so the next time they tell you that you can’t have your cake and eat it, you can laugh until you have stitches because OF COURSE you can!
Relationships that has you gasping with delight from your clients to your kids to your lovers to your friends. They feel hmmmmmmm good.
More energy and creativity than you’ve ever experienced because you’ve left behind the realm of mere mortals and connected with your soul!
You finally get to feel ALIVE again because for the first time in ages you ARE living fully.
You get to feel FREE.
You get to feel EXCITED.
You get to feel IN RECEIVING.
You get to feel IN LOVE!
You get to feel SAFE.
Why is this even important?
Well Darling because we create from the frequency of how we feel.
Just take a moment to think about it:
When you’re in a state of defeat, fear, frustration and overwhelm, you simply don’t have a shit ton of energy to throw in behind your action. EVERYTHING feels like effort. And as we know by now, the amount of energy that goes into action will determine how far our impact travels.
If on the other hand you feel like a rock star who simply can’t do anything wrong, you put ALL of your power into your actions! That means that whatever action you take goes ten times further, resulting in fewer actions needed for greater results.
Let’s not even start on the amount of creativity that gets unleashed from that beautiful mind of yours when you feel like you’re flying past Superman – no cape needed!
EVERYTHING comes down to energy as indicated by emotion and directed by thought.
And if your thoughts are drugged into submission to the cult of mediocrity, you will never ever be who you came here to be.
Instead you will continue on the hamster wheel – exhausted on a road to nowhere.
When Creator agreed to let you experience this realm she protected you from your mind-blowing power by giving you free will.
That means that you get to choose. Every step of the way.
You can choose to shut down the voice that’s screaming to be heard right now. To stay disconnected from your true power.
You can choose to keep playing small, keep pretending to do the real work, keep doing your shadow job.
Or you can choose to finally draw a line in the sand and be all who you came here to be.
If you’re done playing normal, if you’re ready to own your crazy, your magic, your message, your beauty, your essence, apply today and let the games begin.
Anèl was able to help me on two levels – personal and business. My life was stagnant, my job boring. I had lost myself, my identity, I used to paint and draw, creatively I was dead. I had an idea for a new business venture which encompassed my passion for crafty, art activities and Gardening with kids. She guided me through the steps necessary for me to achieve this. The end result is a more confident, assertive person running my own business that is growing daily.
I wish I met Anel 15 years ago…
After a life changing experience, I lost all my confidence and “sparkle”.
A couple of months ago I got promoted into a senior position and everything just fell apart in my life. I just could not cope with the knowledge that I could not give what was expected of me. After my coaching sessions with Anel, I can honestly say I am myself again. I got my sparkle back. I got my confidence back and where I once nearly died before talking in front of a group of people, it is really just another part of my life now. She taught me (in a way only she can) how to be assertive and stand on my own two feet – how not to be a doormat anymore.
After only 2 or 3 sessions, colleagues and family could already see the change in me.
I can never thank her enough for this gift…. I love the me I have become…..
/ senior manager
She gave me the tools to de-clutter my life, sort it, set goals and reset goals and stick to them.
She taught me the necessity of actions plans with a purpose and a goal and she taught me the ‘WHY’?
She taught me to dream and believe again and have a positive vision…my ‘Why”.
She taught me about perception, loving myself and having respect for myself. Anel taught me that negativity was not an option, nor was giving up.
If you need a new lease on life, are stuck and can’t find your way forward, if your business is not working for you or you feel you need a way to make your dreams come true, you can’t do without Anel.
/ pilates instructor, wellness coach
My name is Anel and I guide Alpha Females to liberate themselves through Truth, activating the Alpha Female DNA Frequency of Love, and walk the path of their true purpose.
After decades of embracing an identity as a high achiever for 20 seconds of satisfaction, it took me stepping away from everything to discover there's a HUGE difference between achieving and thriving. To recognise that our bodies, emotions, minds and inner guidance holds the key to our freedom, opulence and ultimate joy through self-love, self-appreciation, self-acceptance and self-respect.
Wherever you find yourself today, I want you to know that your thrive is one decision away.
My credentials include Honours in Psychology, Certified Life Coaching, and Pranic Psychotherapist.
Want to know what I value more than all of these?
My deep love for humanity and my unshakable belief in YOUR magnificence.
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