The revolutionary approach to increased, confidence, satisfaction and creating a life of thrive

I'm Done Witnessing The Diminishment Of Your Shine....

Settling For Mediocre Survival

Darling, how much longer are you willing to be on the insane hamster-wheel of striving for successcompeting with every Tom, Dick and Sally, whilst carrying the whole tribe on your shoulders AND then feeling you have to prove yourself as Super Woman,when we both know, that regardless of how many times you achieve your goals, how many people you please, how many balls you're able to juggle in your stiletto's, you're still waking up feeling unfulfilled?

That voice inside of you, the one that has you wake each day saying there HAS to be more to life than this, is not lying.

Except, doing it the way you have been, is simply never going to shift you into a HELL YES life.

That's because your dreams, your cravings for freedom, beauty, romance and unbound choice, is not only your birthright, it's your natural state of being.

And when we're cut off from our natural flow of thrive, we suffer!

What you need is to stop pinching off the fullness of who you are, stop blocking the joy that is within your reach RIGHT NOW, and shift your sweet arse from constant strive and struggle to blissful ease.

I know you're a complete and utter rock star!

I know that you've achieved more than most people even think of during their entire life-times.

You've played by their rules, ticked their boxes, received their accolades,

and the reason NOTHING seems to fill the hole inside of you,

is because everything you've been taught up to this point,

all the actions you've been taking,

is designed by men, for men.


you're ALL WO-man!

It's time for you to come out of hiding and WOW us with your magnificence.

Right now, is your time to thrive.

Twice as many women are currently on anti-depressants than men, and the number keeps growing.

How many women have to commit suicide before we start recognising the flawed system?


As an Alpha Female, I happen to know that NOBODY is harder on us, than ourselves.

I've been there, done that, took their happy pills, and crumbled! I rose back up, I kicked arse, and stayed in fight-mode till I was exhausted once more.

It took me questioning EVERYTHING instead of my sanity, to finally wake up to thrive.

Yet when I look at the media, at the experts, it's filled with labels and reasons validating your demise.  IT"S NOT YOU! OMG Hunny, it's the bloody system.

Stop believing those who make you feel like slug-slime.


We're told that if we want to be successful, we have to learn more systems, we have to be better organised, we have to plan better, we have to be less emotional.

All of this is complete and utter BULLSHIT, and the truth is that as long as you believe that you have to suffer your way to happiness, you'll never connect to the truth that YOU ARE ENOUGH to be happy.


We're constantly told that for us to be nice, to be liked, to belong, we have to be available to everyone else 24/7. Not doing so, makes us a selfish and inconsiderate bitch.

Except, how do you keep giving when you're cup is as dry as a sun-baked desert?

I know, god I know, how hard you try to please everyone. The constant struggle of people expecting you to do it all with a smile, how guilty you feel for not having more time to be there for each and every person who tells you they NEED you.

The worst part for me was constantly finding myself in relationships where I was told I could be, do and have everything my heart desired,

that they supported me fully,

and then turn on me when I wasn't taking care of them first.

Want to know what I realised?

Society is screwing us over royally! Fairy-tales turned love into codependency and dependency of powerful women on weak men. The pendulum swung seeing the sisterhood preaching feminist liberation, simply shifting codependency to women on women.

Struggling giving to struggling.

Ugh - it's CRAZY!

There's a long-forgotten secret which holds the key to your thrive....

If there's one thing I believe with every cell in my being,

it's that the answer is already inside of us!

Which is why, when I walked away from my 19 year marriage, I shut out the entire world,

retreated from every person I know,

and on the first of January 2019 I declared to the Universe that this is my time NOW, and that I command to be shown the way home.

I broke down in private,

to receive the break-through I've been seeking my entire life,

even though I didn't know it at the time.

What I discovered had me turn my back on everything I've been preaching for more than a decade,

as my desire for joy finally trumped my need to be right.

My first thought each morning is a resounding




Lifegasmic Darling.

And I'm on a mission to instigate a THRIVE EVOLUTION for Alpha Females globally.

A mission to empower women JUST LIKE YOU with the truth to everything you secretly hunger for.



Let me start by confessing, vulnerability still feels like a bikini wax to me. I also know, if you're finding yourself where I was not so long ago, my discomfort is worth your liberation.

Like all Alpha Females, I'm a high performer and extraordinary achiever. I've built two successful companies, raised two incredible men, kick-boxed my way out of clinical depression, started competitive cycling in my mid-thirties, became a provincial podium winner, IronMan athlete, Skyrunner - I did it all.

I ticked all the credential boxes along the way. Honours degree in Psychology, certified life coach, pranic psychotherapist, yoga teacher, spinning instructor, personal trainer - I guess you could call me a certification junkie.

I was already in top management in my early twenties. Co-owned my first restaurant by the age of 24. Took my first business from a mere desktop and landline phone to six figures in less than twelve months.

And above all, I desired to build an empire of impact!

That's right Darling, I wanted to leave behind a legacy. I wanted to bring change. I wanted to make a difference in the lives of others. I wanted to create a platform or way to empower others to live their best lives!

I wanted people to THRIVE!

Actually, I wanted to thrive!!

Except, two things were going on:

The one was that my business was no longer lighting me up!

Mirroring my internal struggle, my female clients were achieving their goals and still did not appear to be satisfied.

My teachers and coaches simply didn't feel aligned for me anymore. They frustrated me with their limited thinking and re-use of the same tools I've been using for more than a decade with my clients.

Everything just felt so 'same old same old'.

And truthfully, success tasted bland.

The second, and this one was actually the thing I didn't talk about, not even with my coaches, was that I realised I've never been fully satisfied.

Regardless of the size of my achievements.

Regardless of my previous 'success'.

I would wake up in the morning and think there has to be more to life than this.





The real problem I was facing, was the fact that none of my coaching tools or methodologies felt like the key to unlocking my thrive.

Goals, regardless of their size or impact, felt redundant. Achievement just didn't cut it for me anymore.

I no longer felt that I had to prove myself to anyone, competition was bleugh, and quite frankly, I just couldn't be fucked with applause.

I turned from coaching to spirituality to find a new way, and was met with 'the sisterhood'.

I tried it on for size and almost instantly felt like I was wearing a g-string two sizes too small.

Plus, respectfully, the pendulum swing from the very focused goal perspective, to lala with the moon, was just too much to cope with.

I finally came to understand that what I was searching for, had simply not yet been created.

THIS was my purpose:

An evolution for thrive!

You see Darling,

the coaching industry was founded by our male counterparts, designed by our male counterparts, from a male perspective, in a way the truly fits the male approach to life!

Now, the reason it's been working for driven women who wanted to succeed in a man's world, is simply because we've been living like men!

And let's be honest, we achieve really easily when we fucking decide we're going to have what we want. It's simply non-negotiable for us.

Except, have you noticed how empty it all feels the next day? And how we're continuously driving harder, and higher, and still not feeling fulfilled?

That's because it's time to EVOLVE the body of work in a way that completely supports and liberates women to be in their most powerful, loving, creative flow!

For the first time in my life I HAD NO PLAN!

Instead, I decided to just trust my intuition, create space to receive, and have fun with it.

OMG the horror of my audacity.

Once I connected with this, I was blown away by how easily it all came to me.

Which of course opened up a whole new pandora's box!!

My 'friends' at the time not only ran away, but some turned on me in some really unexpected and hurtful ways.

There was the self-doubt and imposter syndrome of who the hell do I think I am to create an original body of work!

There was the shock from my clients of no longer being an advocate of setting goals and instead creating a fountain of thrive and getting them to spiral upwards in a connected way which starts with yourself!

There was the constant resistance within my own mind as I had to release a shit ton of old beliefs, and the tendency to say why fix something that's clearly not broken - just look how many other people were achieving results!

But that's just it!

For Alpha Females to THRIVE, it's not about 'achieving results'. It's about having a lifegasmic experience along the way!

Out of this was born The Thrive Evolution for Alpha Females! New connections, opportunities, smiling clients, a new book which is being written, new programs, OMG it's just been sensational.

More importantly,

I realised that there's more than just genitals that makes men and women different. 

I realised that it was never about achievement.

It's about waking up with excitement and appreciation and joy, every day!

It's not about actions, it's about creating memorable experiences.

It's not about giving women another restrictive methodology, but permission to use this work as inspiration to create freedom in their own lives.

Darling, I'm finally HAPPY!!

I'm an Alpha Female who came to this lifetime to create the new, to evolve that which is available, and to give myself and other women permission to fall madly in love with themselves and from a space of radical self-acceptance, self-appreciation, self-love and self-respect, actually have fun.

And it will be my absolute delight and privilege to welcome you to the Thrive Evolution for Alpha Females.

This program is the very first step on this journey and it's yours for the claiming today.

With love,


What Would Your Life FEEL Like From A State Of 'OMG YES' Thrive?

I want you to press pause for a moment, to close your eyes, put your hand on your heart, and just imagine what it will feel like when you finally start filling your own cup first each and every day, without a drop of guilt or hurry. I want you to feel into the clarity, the renewed levels of energy, the peace of mind knowing that you can have your cake AND eat it with relish!

Feel the thrill of excitement caressing your body as you wake up in the morning stretching into awareness with anticipation of all the delicious opportunities for meaningful connection lying ahead in the day. Knowing that tonight you will return to your dream realm with a sense of pride and satisfaction for a day well lived.

The lift of your chin as you strut your stuff, rubbing shoulders confidently with the big players in life, irresistible to others as your joy is simply intoxicating.
When you finally feel like the centre of your universe and all that you desire is served on a silver platter with a long-stemmed rose for your pleasure.
It's Possible Through....

The THRIVE-SETTING Toolkit For Alpha Females

Here's What You'll Receive With The Thrive-setting Toolkit for Alpha Females

First of its kind, this is an original body of work for women which will take you on a journey of liberation, overflow and delight.

You get step by step instruction videos and downloadable workbooks that takes you through the entire process from start to finish ensuring clarity, alignment, less action than ever before and epic results.

This is not a program Gorgeous, it's a THRIVE-STYLE!

I've Got You Covered Every Step Of The Way...

Thrive-tool #1 

I have recorded 12 easy to follow videos explaining every concept in fun and simple language for your personal delight.

You will be introduced to The Fountain of Thrive, liberating you from old-fashioned guilt for your desire to take care of yourself, the Spiral of Thrive to easily identify where to place your focus, and much more.

Each video discusses a single concept with immediate actions to ensure you layer on instead of the traditional dump feeling swamped.

On top of this there will be weekly Q&A calls where you get all your questions answered with on the spot coaching for those who desire to go deeper.

Thrive-tool #2

Six beautifully designed workbooks with journaling prompts following the video training, creates space for introspection and connecting with your inner wisdom.

These are created to be used again and again as each time you will unveil another level of your thrive.

But Let Me Sweeten The Pot For You Even More With These Instant Bonuses For Acting Now...

Bonus #1: The Game of Life and How to Play It 

It was never suppose to be hard

This classic asserts that life is not a battle but a game of giving and receiving, and that whatever we send out into the world will eventually be returned to us. This little book will help you discover how your mind and its imaging faculties play leading roles in the game of life.

A timeless message and the ability to explain success principles and how they work in an entertaining style, Florence's writings are still considered the leaders in prosperity literature today.

Bonus#2: Private Facebook Group

A sense of Belonging

This Facebook group is open for connection, inspiration and a sense of belonging.

Bonus#3: Forgiveness Ceremony

You deserve to Release and Receive

No woman can thrive holding on to resentment, anger and frustration. In this beautiful forgiveness ceremony we release negativity and invite positive vibrations of love into your life. Because you deserve it.

Bonus#4: Step Into Your Power

​Because Schools Don't Teach Thrive

Many moons ago, I had the privilege of coaching some incredible kids who inspired me to write a book called "Step into your Power", teaching the wee tods how to set goals in a playful way.

You receive a free PDF copy of my book to increase play-thrive with your little ones.

With This Evolutionary Approach

  • You'll discover the source to your thrive and how to bring new levels of joy into your life immediately.
  • You'll understand how to abolish the programming that has you living in a state of guilt and shame and NEVER agin pay for therapy or self-medicating drugs to numb the pain.
  • You'll stop trying to find fulfilment in a system designed by men and go straight to your feminine source of power

No more setting goals, working your sweet arse off for 20 seconds of achievement!

You'll have tons of energy and clarity from which to build your empire of impact and create a life of freedom!

Every Minute You Wait To Get “The Thrive-Setting Toolkit” Is Another Minute Nothing Will Change, Ever.... Put The Power Of “The Thrive-Setting Toolkit For Alpha Females” To Work For You So You Can Quickly And Easily Stop The Horrendous Cycle Of Setting Goals Only To Face Old Demons Of Procrastination And Self-Sabotage, Wake Up In The Morning With Excitement And Energy, And Live A Life Of Thrive, On Your Terms!

Or not.

Here’s A Recap Of

EVERYTHING You'll GetWhen You Purchase The AMAZING Offer!

  • Step by step instructional videos ensuring you have clarity and alignment creating ease and flow 
  • Beautifully designed workbooks for deeper introspection and connecting to YOUR desires 
  • Bonus: The Game of Life and How To Play It 
  • Bonus: Forgiveness Ceremony 
  • Bonus: Step Into Your Power 
  • Bonus: Be part of the Alpha Females community 

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